My boyfriend keeps liking one specific woman's thirst trap pictures... Should I be concerned?

[Anonymous]

He's following this woman, but she's not following him. She's not a Instagram model or anything so she doesn't have a ton of followers. She consistently posts pictures of herself in her bikinis or in revealing clothes. These pictures are usually quite obviously focused on her butt, and they have captions which are purposely trying to illustrate that (for example, "suns out, buns out"). I don't have a problem with her personally (I don't know her) but it seems weird that my boyfriend likes all her photos when they are specifically focused on appearing sexual...

I would care less if she had TONS of followers (and therefore couldn't see my boyfriend's likes as clearly), but the fact that she only has a couple hundred makes me think she's seeing his likes and he wants her to see them.

Should I be concerned?

Yes

No

[TikiTook]

i think what you should be concerned about is that you can’t just talk to him about this. If this upsets you, as it most girls, let’s be real, I think you should tell him. If it was my boyfriend, I would openly tell him it turns me off/ upsets me/ whatever. You should never fear vocalizing your concerns with your SO. Your feelings are valid, and he should want to help you through them. If you fear losing him by bringing it up, please remember how important you and your needs are. Nobody is ever worth keeping if they don’t care about how you feel in the relationship. And I don’t think bringing this up (not accusingly, just stating how you feel when you see it) is needing or asking to much in a relationship.

[dustybiker]

I wouldn’t be concerned anything would happen between them, the concern is that you don’t have his attention. That he should want to spend time out of his day looking at other woman. Happy people don’t. It sounds like a stagnant relationship. Is there any spark or passion between you?

[Anonymous]

Is she chatting with her? If he is, then you should be concerned. If not, don't worry about it.

[spartan55]

Yeah make a big deal about it

[Asker]

Are you being for real or sarcastic?

[spartan55]

Ever hear the phrase "choose your battles"?

[jennifer_bloom]

Pic or it didn’t happen.

[Imsmurter1]

a couple hundred is few?