Are all the good decently cute guys taken?

[Anonymous]

I5 guys I’ve liked in a row have all been taken and I wouldn’t realize they had a girlfriend until way after to started crushing on them so it’s not like I want a taken guy or something. It’s incredibly annoying because the most at least superficially ideal guys for me will already have a girlfriend (and ofc I’m not gonna intervene) but all the guys interested in me wanna play games and are never genuine.

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5 not 15 by the way I don't know why it looks like that

[MCheetah]

No. You're just only going after the top, most attractive 5-10% of most attractive men and not offering them what they want in looks/sex appeal/relationship material and blaming it on "no cute guys left" instead of other, more likely factors. Although maybe there ARE "no cute guys left" in your area, I dunno... Dating is such a sh*tshow nowadays.

[JPresidente]

I'm not one for cheating or taking someone's else's guy but you should invoke a new strategy. Find one or two that are taken and show them what they are missing without causing a break-up. You have to get them to notice you. Girls know how to make a guy notice them - you'll know what to do. Make yourself stand out more.

[Anonymous]

I guess that’s why they’re already in a relationship bcs these guys are the real deal. What kind of guys do you normally attract? Maybe you need to be meeting guys in a different area?

[Asker]

I usually get approached by guys at school but 95% of the time they’re popular jocks without many hobbies who don’t really get me. I’m more into geeky kind hearted funny guys with interests they’re really passionate about. I think you might be right about changing my area so maybe I’ll start going out more or something to places I think they might be?

[Opinion Owner]

Ah okay. I think so definitely need to expand your horizon a bit, maybe start mingling with geeky groups of people or yeah just go someplace that is their go to place.

I feel you tho, back in high school I only attracted douchey jocks that was most of the time the fuckboy type. It wasn’t until college where I started attracting low key and geeky guys. I guess most of the younger non popular guys are still pretty shy and less forward in approaching girls, so you can definitely make the first move to get them more comfortable 😊

[MystiKaL]

Are you actually going for pretty boys, or are you genuinely looking for average looking guys as well?

You may need to broaden your horizons a little.

[Asker]

By generally cute I mean attractive to me but that doesn’t disinclude average guys because some “average” looking guys are really cute to me. I’m more interested in their hobbies, whether they make me laugh, whether they’re kind hearted, and if they’re kinda introverted etc.

[MystiKaL]

Ok, that's good to hear. You are like me, find the right woman but she's taken.

Keep looking, you'll get there eventually, I promise.

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes, the top 5-20% of men are now having more sex than ever before.

[PatriceONeal]

Yeah unless we go Mormon those 80 women won't be able to all land those 20 men. It's no longer the 80/20 rule, closer to 95/5.

[PatriceONeal]

You are choosing men that are out of your league. It's that simple.

[Asker]

The guys I like and am interested in are less popular than the guys that pursue me.

[PatriceONeal]

So better men pursue you and you ignore them for a loser, okay sure..

[Asker]

No more popular men approach me they’re not genuine, they’re boring, and exactly the same as every other ladies man guy. The guys I like are usually aren’t well known or liked but genuine and interesting to me, problem is they have girl friends.

[PatriceONeal]

Choose better men, stop going for superficial qualities like looks height money etc. For the most part there's no reason a young woman is single besides her standards. If you can't get a man during your prime then I have some bad news for you.

[Asker]

Thtas litterally what I just told you. I avoid superficial guys with no hobbies or men that approach me with only notoriety on their side. My point is the guys I choose very genuine kind funny personalities, the ones with good hearts end up having girlfriends.

[PatriceONeal]

Are all the good decently cute guys taken? OK this is literally what you said. Uhhhh. Just so I'm clear. You are not the only one chasing these higher value guys. It's you AND the other 80% of the other women. He isn't taken, he's busy.

[Asker]

What do you want me to do go after men I find unattractive. On top to that what’s attractive to me isn’t always attractive to other people.

[PatriceONeal]

You're free to be attracted to whatever you want. I'm telling you to be realistic. Women like men who already have girlfriend's. It'd called pre-selection. It's why fake wedding rings attract women to men who wear them. This is proven fact. If you're an attractive girl then all men will approach you, you aren't solely being approached by men who are already taken, those are the only men you've deemed worthy. Your looks match or average guy is invisible to you.

[Guy13]

That’s what they keep telling me 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Avicenna]

Most of them probably are

[BJP21]

Im one of many.

[RegularEOS]

15, wow what a shopper.

[Anonymous]

🤣🤣🤣