Are All Typically Handsome Guys F***boys?

Question

I am talking really handsome - 6 foot, muscular, connected beard, charming smile etc...

The reason I am asking is because I have always stayed away from these kinds of men, out of fear that they might hurt me/aren't the type to seriously love and commit.

Do you think it's fair to generalise and I should continue staying away from them?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No not all. And I’ve found the opposite type of guy (the not so attractive, seem really nice and polite, shy, insecure, geek and so on - like the kind of guys you’d never think this of) to be equally shady. They’d defintely be fuckboys if they could but can’t because they don’t attract lots of women. As soon as they think they have a chance of sex they try to take it no matter if they’re in relationships. I’ve been on first dates with guys who I after that politely rejected and they still keep messaging me every now and then years after. Asking me to hang out, sending me pictures of them in shirtless in bed (but disguising it as an innocent ”I’m about to go to bed, good night sleep well 😳😘” message, telling me how great of a girl they think I seem to be and that they wish our date had gone better wondering what they did wrong and so on - all while now having girlfriends that in some cases they even live together with 🤦‍♀️ When I point it out they go quiet for a few weeks or months and then start messaging again... They should be happy they even finally have a girlfriend, because most of them had been trying to find one for years without luck but no. They think they have a chance to cheat and they try to take it. I’ve also known good looking, attractive, confident guys who has ton of women after them who’re good and loyal, got married fast and rejects all other possibilities he has/gets. So, I’ve found it’s irrelevant to the guys looks how they act in this regard. Maybe the attractive ones seem to be fuckboys more often only because they can actually be, many of the non attractive ones wants to be and would be if they got the chance.

zollo · Accepted Answer

I have the EXACT same aversion! Not just when it comes to romantic relationships or perceiving someone as attractive or not. When a really good looking person, male or female, is around me I usually wouldn't go out of my way to talk with them. I think I've developed this idea that attractive people = mean ugly people. It's not completely out there because a lot of mean people (especially in school) were conventionally attractive people or overly confident people who, because of their "elevated status" as more good looking and popular made it much easier to be mean with less repercussions. It's admittedly a bad and biased thing to think because "Blank" usually never equals "All of this group". That's why for me personality factors so much into attractiveness.

TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

What can I say, I was being called a fuckboy even at a time where I was a virgin. All because people thought (and still think) that I'm good looking and I get ton of girls (overstatement). I've realized that people who call others fuckboys or sluts without legitimate reason are projecting their own insecurity onto others.

The thing is, a fuckboy will not put effort in getting to know you as a person. He wants to have sex as fast as possible. Most of the time, they don't get into a relatoinship wtih you. So the best way to go about it is to make a relationship a REQUIREMENT for sex. And when you get in a relationship, you give it a little time before you have sex. This is an effective way to weed out any fuckboy. No fuckboy is going to wait around until you finally open your legs.

Melvinb6521 · Accepted Answer

Handsome ✅ 6+ foot ✅ muscular ✅ connecting beard ✅ good smile ✅

I think I qualify for this question. 😂

I like to think I can show you just as good of a time as you can show me. It’s not always about sex, but I’d hope it’s not never about sex either.

Don’t cheat yourself out of an opportunity with a guy ( like me, YES I had to say it 😂). Being like this is a gift and a curse. Just enjoy the gift, and avoid the curse. We can do sooo much more than just have sex. Men like me are often charming and happy people that would love to brighten your day, on a daily basis.

Bet you can’t say that wasn’t enchanting 😏😉

Idonotlie · Answer

As a guy I have to point out a few things women do wrong in their 20-30s (mostly 20s):

1. Try to find someone to settle down with (don’t go out there with an idea to settle down so young, you have a good 10 years before you have to worry about thdt stuff just enjoy your time.

2. Judging people gets you nowhere, so don’t assume, however, if a guy is spending thdt much time to groom himself then there are a few things you should keep in mind such as the time he’s taking to get ready and why he’s taking so much time. Yes he could like looking nice, because I like to dress up too, however if he’s perfect, then he’s spending more time doing that then other things like working or getting his life in order, you can only divide 24hrs so many ways when you factor in sleep.

3. While I already said the first two just remember that we are all meeting our representative not who we truly are, not the guy who will go out at night to get you Gatorade when you have the stomach flu or the guy who will be there when you’re having a rough week due to your period or the guy who won’t chest on you, you’re meeting his rep, and he’s doing the same with you

4. Guys are born dogs period. We will want sex while we are in the middle of a heart attack Any guy who says otherwise is lying. I don’t care about his generation or whether he’s an alpha or beta he’s lying.

4. We have the same problem with women as you do with men cause we both do this stuff

5. If you’re long for a man to be with the only way is to spend time with him, do t have sex, see how long he hangs around whine not doing it and see how he spends his money and how much time he devotes to family and work and you and friends and if it’s reasonable and he’s not mentally screwed up or not don’t. Any drugs or alcohol or gambling then you’re set for life.

Forget the muscles and the suits and the beard cause those all change and go away, look at his spending habits, his wardrobe, his work habits, how he treats family and friends, how he spends time with you, and see if he’s mentally okay and tat will give you the best shot at a good husband and family if that’s what you wsnt

Kaazsz · Answer

Not true. Girls approach me and flirt with me expecting me to be mr player and then when I’m shy they get very disappointed. I’m less shy now but I have a lifetime of stories of girls approaching me and doing wacky shit to get my attention.

Then they thought I was gay because they think either an attractive guy is a fuck boy or he’s gay and there’s no other options.

Bullshit! Lol. I grew up with zero friends and had a horrible life. So of course I didn’t get to be the pimp playa like I should have been. Oh well. Maybe I should do it now. Only reason I don’t is I still feel too guilty about using women for sex to do it. But my female friends tell me to do it.

simonqq · Answer

I don't think anyone knows the actual answer but the way I think is that the level of beauty doesn't make one more or less committed/faithful. The only thing that is for sure different is that the more beautiful you are the more opportunity you have.

I think it's good to always take things in a pace you find comfortable and really get to know the other person to the best of your ability. If something goes wrong or they turned out to be not what you thought then don't blame yourself and try to move on. Everyone can misread someone and sometimes people change over time to something you don't relate to.

So basically I don't believe they are to be afraid of more or less than anyone else.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Not exactly , just like not all beautiful women are “sluts”.

Handsome men / good looking men understand that they have a very powerful attractive physical image which can obviously open doors to things other people may not. Meaning more potential sex partners, romantic relationships, modeling , etc.

If you’re enjoying the perks of being single and very attractive, it’s only understandable they obviously would like to maintain that lifestyle. However , it’s all about how they go about achieving these goals / lifestyle is how we should judge people.

If you want to only have casual sex , that’s perfectly fine as long as you make your intentions clear and respectfully. If you lie and use underhanded tactics such as “ I want to be with you and no one else!” Then you’re fucking someone else right after then yeah that’s a scumbag move regardless of gender.

Elsa143 · Answer

Unfortunately yes.
I had a crush on such a handsome guy. He was handsome, tall and had a sexy jawline but then I observed his behavior patterns.
He was an attention seeker, loved to show off and desperate for female attention but he knew how to hide it. I immediately got turned off and decided not to commit to him. It was hard but I moved on...

Kiss_Me · Answer

It's the same as assuming a beautiful woman throws out coochie like candy at a Macy's Day Parade. It may describe some to the tee, but others not so much.

My suggestion: Date the good looking guys, but get to know them better before having sex. Most of the people I know date backward. They have sex first and try to develop a relationship.

Unit1 · Answer

Are ALL beautiful women gold diggers? I don't think so.

MrOracle · Answer

There are a few exceptions, but it's mostly true. Very handsome guys will have a ton of women throwing themselves at him, and guys with tons of options tend to be fuckbois, because they can. Only maybe 3-5% of guys are that good-looking, but the majority of them will be players and fuckbois, yes.

The other thing is: if most women consider a guy a 9+ out of 10, then that guy would probably only seriously consider a relationship with a girl who was also widely considered a 9+. The confusing part is that he'll BANG a 6 or 7 no problem, but will only be using her for sex. This gets a lot of girls who are 6s and 7s believing that they can "get" a 9+ guy because they got one (or a few) to bang them, but they never had any chance of a relationship with that guy in the first place.

But a lot of those guys would rather be "free" and don't take the 9+ girls seriously either.

Newhead · Answer

Being judgmental like this could ruin opportunities for you. What if the man to bring you great fortune and give you this best life looks like that, then you kick him to the curb and end up having a sh. tty life, do not readily judge people like that.

Iwasthinkingif · Answer

I think it depends on the person and age, because when a guy is 19, very attractive and gets the attention of all the girls, he will not be ready to settle for a serious relationship. It is pretty normal.
The thing is that he will probably get used to this, but some of them get mature and know what they want.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

All men with options that you present yourself as more slut instead of wife to, will be a fuck boy.

The girls who have fuck boy problems are those fucking guys right away, have a ho reputation or just act like a ho. Men with options don't want to wife that. Therefore they leave and are then called fuck boys.

007kingifrit · Answer

yes, if you all like the same guy he doesn't have to commit to any of you

and why would such a perfect man settle for you? i dont know you but statistically you're not perfect like this imaginary guy. guys like that don't settle for average women

RawIronhide · Answer

You're partially correct I'd say. People who get a lot of attention tend to let it go to their head and instead of working on a relationship they have fleeting sexual exchanges simply because they can and they figure they can always find someone new and settle down later. However not everyone is like this but it's more likely with people who get a lot of attention. It's also not enough to ask them about it, you need to watch their character play out over time, this is why it's a gamble.

DJB72 · Answer

I'm 6' and slowly regaining some muscle - I lost about 75lbs this year due to covid putting me in a coma - but my beard is a goatee as I hate how joined makes my face look.

Even after losing a leg this year, I eat f***boys for breakfast.

TessCasie · Answer

Yes cause they know being handsome can make them get away with anything lol you’ll even read articles on supa hot women who get away doing shyt to men in love with them.

Andres77 · Answer

From what I've seen, these guys are confident and their "look" is what it is because they're the recipient of a loving woman and they're showing how they've always wanted to be...

i. e., these guys are already taken... mostly...

Bananaman177 · Answer

No, not all, but as a woman, you probably can't tell the difference between them, so your caution is not unwise.

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend is what you described, but to anyone who doesn’t know him, he comes off as arrogant and selfish, BUT in fact he is insecure like any other male. AND, I will be honest, in order to land such good looking guys, who seem fuck boys, you should yourself be attractive or at least really confident so that they will give you time of day when it comes to being with you!!

Anonymous · Answer

It would really depend. Some guys can be assholes, sure, but it has nothing to with how “good” they look. More about their outlook. There are a lot of average looking guys with a huge attitude, too. I’ve found most good looking men to be pretty ok. But that’s my personal experience.

David92506 · Answer

I've read that many beautiful people (men and women) don't want to lose the attention of the opposite sex, even once they get into a relationship.

spartan55 · Answer

Connected beard? Wtf? So by your logic then all hot woman must be arrogant bitches, so I should stay away... makes no sense.

Yads_Is_Back · Answer

Not all of them are, I know two specific ones who are not, but they could be if they chose to. Some men have good values.

winterfox10 · Answer

Nope. I will tell you though, people tend to find what they are looking for. So if you're worried about running into tons of f-boys, it seems to be way more likely that you will...

VanillaSalt · Answer

I hate the word fair. You do what you have to and sometimes it hurts others. It’s pretty conceded to think you have to consider their feelings. You have to do good on yourself. As a point this can tinder you like setting your standards too high. Sometimes men come with... inadequacies. It’s his job to strive to be worthy of you and your job to support him in that endeavor... at least by my toxic masculinity standards.

WesBrewer · Answer

maybe? I mean I am a 6' 3" man with a good smile, but no beard or sexy muscle (working on that one) and I am by no means a fvck boy, lol, I mean I am still chaste so I defy the fvck part of fvck boy, so If what I described is what you are staying away from then it isn't fair, otherwise yeah its fair.

Texaskid1 · Answer

Yes. All handsome men are fuckboys.

But on the other hand I do have a buddy of mine that is single and ready to mingle. I think you to would make a great couple. Here he is:

PersoncslledPierson · Answer

Don’t know but I guess I was attractive at one point in my life cos a hot girl seemed to have a crush on me... and in no way was I ever conceited cocky or big Headed, I’m very humble... in fact I lack confidence and feel less worthy than 90% of other people and never had a girlfriend or sex, so I don’t think I’m a fuck boy,

Not that I’m still handsome, I’m probably not... but if a hot girl once had a crush on me... I must have been good looking at some point

hahahmm · Answer

They're just the male equivalent of the average female today. How do you act when you have 500 guys begging you for access anytime you snap your fingers?

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Mostly yes. They let their ego get to them and get with many girls cause who doesn't wanna be chased? Mostly hot guys with big dicks will be the true fuck boys though.

GermanGuy87 · Answer

I don't know I think its worth a go. Maybe try one out

Stoner710 · Answer

Yea most are fuck boys they know there hot so they try to get as many women as possible to sleep with them. Only time there not fuck boys is if there practicing Mormons.

BroadwayQueer · Answer

No. It’s really stereotypical when people say that. I know men who are attractive but are “nerds” or “losers” in the eyes of many

RoxyFoxx · Answer

No. ALL people of any group never have one characteristic.  However, because they can easily attract girls, it's easier for them to sleep around.

Anonymous · Answer

It might be politically incorrect to say this, but yes I agree with you. Most guys want a lot more sex with a lot more people than they can get, and a small number of them are able to at least get close to that amount. Why date those ones?

robusn · Answer

Bro that's me. After a while you won't care and just be yourself. Takes some time bit I can admit a bunch of things now. I am really happy

Arivor · Answer

It's your loss if you never gave them a chance. Don't judge a book by its cover... it's what inside that counts.

testersite00 · Answer

a lot of them are, but a lot of them aren't! there are still genuine guys out there, if one catches your eye give them a chance

Torari · Answer

No. Personality and out word appearance don't necessarily co-relate. This question is like asking "are all black people robbers" or "are all white people cousin fuckers" or "are all Asians doctors".

Dave31989 · Answer

so, are you saying you have your own definition of what attractive is

horriblesheikhx · Answer

This is ridiculous, the only men I've come across who wanted to get into every woman's pants were physically unattractive men. That doesn't mean attractive men cannot be fuckboys though.

Why does it even matter to anyone if a man wants to have sex with every woman, or if a woman wants to have sex with every man though? As long as no one is breaking anyone's heart, and everything is consensual.

Hangry22 · Answer

I only know one guy with a body count of 2 who can be a fuckboi if he wants

Luvme66 · Answer

I have seen handsome smart guys... who look very badass... but they are really humble and always kind :)

JakeS00 · Answer

No but I think some are just try hards but there are some being themselves. Exclude the f boys.

Wewladdy · Answer

No. But stereotypes exist for reason. I stay away from women who are overly attractive as they're more likely to be used goods, myself.

Anonymous · Answer

All males are fuck boys if they have the ability. Handsome males and obvious douche bags are the ones females throw their vaginas at so they are 100% going to be assholes because they can be.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Some of them are and some are perfectly fine human beings.

EyesOfGod · Answer

The fact you listed tall dark handsome means your problem is that you believe in looks first everything else second. Which in the end makes you an easy 1 night stand.

AlexDeLarge · Answer

I'm sure they aren't all bad but if they think they're the shit then they go from being fuckboys to fuckheads

iFarted · Answer

No... that's like saying are all beautiful women stuck up hoes?

Anonymous · Answer

You might be surprised how many “nice guy” handsome men struggle in dating.

YaBoiJacob · Answer

No. not always. I am reserving my judgement of handsome guys.

Beautyforeverybody · Answer

Um no.. fuckboya are fuckboys no matter if they are handsome or not.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

It ought to be logically impossible for every single one to be.  What's a connected beard?

Twalli · Answer

Not if you like them. Some are, but guys you consider ugly could also be.

SHREYASH007 · Answer

No, you are wrong, I have seen more ugly guys using and hurting girls. you cannot generalize.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Usually I guess, they can get what they want and they know they can

Anonymous · Answer

So, your assumption is that is a man can be a fuckboy, he will. Do you make the same shitty assumption about women... if they can be sluts they will? You're kind of a sexist bitch, aren't you.

I-have-a-biscuit · Answer

I don't have a connected beard and I'm not a fuck boy. Coincidence? I think not!

AFellowWeeb · Answer

Real question is, will they even give you a chance? Are you a 9/10 plus girl?

OddBeMe · Answer

I doubt it. Most people enjoy meaningful relationships,

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