Are all goodlooking guys assholes?

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lucasnabizada · Accepted Answer

I would say this... Statistically speaking 85% of women choose the same 20% of men on the dating market. If you analyze what this means, it means that a great majority of men are ignored and not desired.

Conversely, it also means that a small percentage of men will get the attention of the overabundant majority of women. Which means an overabundance of choice. As a man if you are one of these, why would you ever settle for one when you have all the options available to you? Therefore they will cheat and be callas with their relationships and behave however they want, because they have artificially reversed the dating sphere. In that they as men are valuable and have all the options which is highly uncommon.

The lesson is what you associate with good-looking doesn't correlate to a sense of loyalty that one may think you are entitled to. They are not bad people, they are by and large mostly playing the game, just the way females are playing the game on the dating market

JamesDiaz11 · Accepted Answer

It depends on what you mean by asshole. Good looking people generally get what they want in life, and are treated better, which means they may develop a sense of entitlement. At least the confidence from being treated better would give them the motivation to ask/ demand what they want, as opposed to being shy about it (which may come off as an asshole).

Finally, good looking (and I'm saying the top 5-20% of guys, since women generally rate the bottom 80% of guys as below average in looks) guys have options. People who have options are less likely to put in an a lot of effort into each option, and more likely to entertain several of them without committing.

The same applies to women, who (due to men's lower standards) believe they're almost all good looking. Granted, there are assholes of both sex, but I would argue that a larger proportion of women exhibit the type of asshole behavior guys do (e. g. ghosting, ignoring, flaking), but I digress.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

My ex fiance was extremely good looking.

He was the nicest, sweetest person in the world. I felt like I won the lottery.

Until one day he didn’t cheat on me and left for that another girl.

Later on, he admitted he is an asshole and he is sorry but that is what it is.

So, there are extremely good looking guys who feel too full with themselves and can act like assholes unless you teach them how to treat you.

When I was the one acting like a bad girl, he was all sweet and nice, like a little puppy. That’s why I fell for him. When I showed him my soft side, gave him all of my heart and forgave him some things in the name of love, he slowly turned into an asshole.

So, doesn’t matter good looking or not, don’t forgive easily and don’t let them treat you the way you don’t deserve.

Emiliamazing · Accepted Answer

Every person has moments when they are cruel or selfish or unsavory. There are plenty of handsome men and pretty women who are kind and gracious. Perhaps change your fishing spot:).

Remember, looks fade with age.

inhua · Answer

absolutely. the Halo Effect dictates good looking guys can't be assholes while ugly guys are assholes no matter what they do

for example a good looking guy opening a door for a woman is a sweet gentleman. an ugly guy opening a door for a woman is patronizing

a good looking guy smiling at a woman and approaching her is confident. an ugly guy smiling at a woman and approaching her is just creepy

a good looking guy telling a joke is funny and charming. an ugly guy telling the same joke is rude and offensive

a good looking guy who stands up for himself is brave and courageous. an ugly guy who stands up for himself is arrogant, bitter and needs to be put in his place

lightbulb27 · Answer

that's subjective of what goodlooking is. I think people with certain personalities and with lack of instilled values by parents... if you give them ability to use others, they will take advantage. A lot of the training that reproductive age females provide ends up screwing other females whom are in line.

It's so easy to fix this it's not funny... It's just a male brat, treat them as such and stop handing them the "candy" they don't deserve, apply discipline, and you won't have these issues so much.

Paul09 · Answer

Maybe a majority yes. They are full of themselves. They have women drool over them. So they have plenty of choices. And they don't care how they hurt women , as long as they get what they want. They usually win at life and get away with many things.

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

Not always.  Sometimes they’re assholes when they’re younger but grow out of it.  A rare handful never let their looks turn them into an asshole.

Anonymous · Answer

cause all the girls give them all the attention thus they constantly get their egos stroked.

so maybe give that guy who is into you but you're likely overlooking him a chance and take him on a coffee date for once instead? just a suggestion

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Not necessarily... Attractive people who are aware that they're attractive can be full of themselves but not necessarily privileged assholes... plus a lot of NOT good looking people are assholes because they're bitter...

MrOracle · Answer

No, not all. But most. Why? Because, due to their good looks, most people let them get away with it.

KittyKat90210 · Answer

No. Some people get full of themselves because of their looks but there are also some awesome good looking people.

WeirdoFriendly · Answer

Suppose it depends on their minds and hearts. How they grew up and what they're going through at the moment... However, in my experience it's usually 4/5 good lookin guys (in my opinion) that are arseholes

DaveJord · Answer

No... but you get back from the world what you put out into it.

jshm2 · Answer

No. They can be a bit arrogant, but they're probably sick of the attention.

AsaKyo · Answer

Oh no, not at all  Some guys are good in looks AND personality, kinda like a certain Dutch guy hehe... 🤤🤤 Sorry lmao

Zayed_ · Answer

I’m great look but I’m not an asshole. then again, maybe I’m not good looking but an asshole

LiamJHayden · Answer

One the one hand, nearly everyone can be an a-hole at times. On the other had, I'm not a good-looking guy so I cannot speak for them.

Anonymous · Answer

No, that is most guys in general. Note, I said most, not all.

Hallix26 · Answer

Probably a win for good looking men to not engage with you if that's the attitude a woman have against them without even knowing them.

Anonymous · Answer

Perhaps they are in the world of men you have chosen to be around you.

Nahid1707 · Answer

@Agape93 @GirlsAskGuys @PrettyPriya Many reasons and wrong category

dragoblack · Answer

Pffft, no. Unless you are just attracted to assholes.

MrCommodore · Answer

No, I'm actually quite a nice guy.

TonyV · Answer

Why are you putting looks before all else?

Texaskid1 · Answer

Are all good looking women gold diggers?

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Luckily that isn't the case.

loveslongnails · Answer

All but two. LOL

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes you know that they are 💃

BJP21 · Answer

Not at all. Guys with sex driven egos are.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes we are lol kidding

abbyjgriffin98 · Answer

No...

PatriceONeal · Answer

Are all women narcissists?

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Are all goodlooking girls bitches?

abc--123 · Answer

Not necessarily. I'm fuck ugly and an asshole

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

no im actually a nice guy.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Yes, except me

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope cause I'm definitely not an asshole

Anonymous · Answer

No. You're just lucky like that. 😆😆😆

slatyb · Answer

I'm not.

Anonymous · Answer

Are all goodlooking women assholes?

Guardian45 · Answer

No, I'm NOT!

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Probably.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Nope

Alex8736 · Answer

not all

Hanrej · Answer

Yes.

TallAnon · Answer

Nope

KsninAq · Answer

No, just you

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