I'm a good guy. Definitely a man!
Oh if all guys do so, how could I differentiate ones who are very experienced with girls from ones who are actually not? I think I have learned to notice that so far. It would be good if you act what you are. Why can't a man be alpha and beta at the same time?
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makes the question invalid tbh, babe
Ehhh just because someone says they're good guys doesn't make it true. Don't believe everything you read. It will serve you well as you mature. 😆
I know, honey. It's just that this question is being treated like holy water. Wash your one night stands and creepy perversion here and tada! good guy ready :)
I was about to saw what both of you were saying. Lol
naw we are just taken for granted
I second that
@SAVAGEDANK big facts
i agree with you @Pinay_ako there are many good lookin guys still out there in the world
Do you wait till marriage too?
@Kim45456 No, and I dont expect that of women, if you can't tell that was sarcasm designed to show how sexist this "where have the good men gone?" Bullshit is. It is holding men to gender norms where they have to be strong, masculine, and wealthy. I merely turned the tables and asked the same question women ask of men.Here's the answer: Times are changing, and the definition of what a good man is needs to change as well. Women need to stop thinking that their man needs to make more money than them, women need to stop expecting men to protect them. Times have changed to allow women more and more freedom, yet expectations on men remain largely the same, many men have largely given up on dating because of this, because most women expect chivalry and to be spoiled ans protected. Women are equal to men under the current laws, and they need to stop holding men to expectations higher than what they hold themselves.www.redbookmag.com/.../www.bolde.com/include-perfect-man-list-leave/www.zoosk.com/.../
@secret6620 I am indeed offended. It is ignorant to say there are no single good men, just as it is ignorsnt to say there are no single good women.
You shouldn't come to posts that trigger you. Please don't take your problems out on me for no reason. 😞
Until they reach your age, most females do not want good men.They want POS bad boys, because that is what excites them.Young men who have old fashioned honourable intentions, as well as good prospects, are rejected and told that they are ‘boring’, or ‘too nice’.Such men understandably become bitter, resentful and angry.It is not being rejected per se that upsets them, it is the low quality nature of the men who most young women prefer instead of them.Add being left broken hearted after the end of what relationships might happen.That toxic soup is from where the suicide and depression come.Later, when they are about your age, a significant number give up and walk away.They will not approach you. They will probably avoid talking to you, if they can.If a female sees a good quality man on the high side of 30, she is probably going to have to make the approach, because most likely he will not.
@cth96190 the same with woman. my mom was good to my father when I was growing up. she was very kind and compassionate. and my dad left her for an evil slut. he personally told me left my mom because she was supposedly too kind and generous. so it happens to both.
Well said. Go get us, ladies 😀 some of us will have our arms open for you ☺
Hehe I see my mistake there.. 🙈
Well if girls wonder where guys like me are who are also looking for long term relationships and marriage I'm looking for my equal in terms of overall attractiveness and thats the kind of girl on my level.
Best advice I've heard all day and perhaps all year ^ Well said.
Excellent point! Take notes, ladies 😘
You sure emphasized your value according to yourself. Men dont chase a woman of his own value so to speak. It's the other way around where a woman claims her value to be in his league. So in your explanation , what are you accually considering a high value is for a woman?
Men qualify themselves to a woman first, then she reciprocates.
I disagree with that statement. It's the other way around. I dont qualify myself with anyone , although a woman will try and qualify herself to me for my attention towards her. I see what your doing with your vocabulary.
Statistics show that men prefer to pursue a woman more than they want to be pursued by her. Being pursued is feminine. Pursuing is masculine.
Chemistry is what magnatize's two together. Pursuit is just an intention to conquer with an agenda.
That’s an entirely different phenomenon.
You said yourself that you’d straight up reject any woman who approaches. Of course. Because she’d be taking on the masculine role and putting you in the feminine role. Men chase. Women choose.
Yes I did say that , although for other manifested reasons other than this implication. With my wife certain sustainability and status, I have to be a very picky chooser.
You’re 58. You’re not married?
I'm very married. And I've never been single since I was 18 . That's another reason.
So why are you on here talking about other women approaching you?
Because it happens quite often.
I’m assuming you’re rich lol
You might be on to something.
Women do like that dough tho.
True... although my wife now is very conservative and displays a very good steward of finances. I'm accualy alittle impressed.
No such thing as a conservative woman anymore. She’s waiting for you to kick the bucket.
My apologies. The last statement was a bit insensitive. I’m sure your lady cares for you.
She earns her own monetary.
Well said 💕
New Caney pipe rollers talk like that.
LOL too funny
Glad you chuckled. Some people have no sense of humor.
No I lose attraction to a guy if he’s taken. No point in trying to get with a guy who’s already with someone else.
Love this post. Thank You ♥️
Interesting. Thank you for sharing. But would it be because of your age?
How would my age change things?
Thanks for sharing 💕
That's good 💕
Sorry for the typos I wrote when I sleepy and I was in mobile
No probs. ❤️
I look and have beautiful women, I am just ordinary. But I have always found a good decent beautiful woman. But I can win them over easily. I would like to think I am a good man. Never cheated on my wife or girlfriends. I provide because I can for most of our living expenses. When I am short my wife gives me her money. Men be honest with your wife, mine is 36 20 34. She is still all I want, women look after yourself, look good when he comes home from work, greet him like he is your husband. Fulfill his basic needs love attention and lots of sex.
Eww no it's not. 👎👎👎
In my opinion a good woman has a good heart. she is kind and compassionate to everyone. whether they be rich or poor. she tries her best to be faithful in the relationship. she isn't stuck up or self centered. and she forgives and shows mercy. those woman are the ones who deserve good men. my mom was good to my father when I was growing up but he admitted to me that he wanted another woman. i would never cheat on my future partner and I would want one the same
Yes, but you have to understand that regardless of if that's a good woman or not. At the end of the day we mostly do not want to be involved in situation that goes against our upbringing and morals. For me since a lot of men especially do not want to wait until marriage to have sex anymore, why am I going to jeopardize myself because that's the way how the world wants? And then I'm told I am never going to be a good wife, mother or girlfriend because of that? I'm just asking just sick and tired of this modern dating crap and I just rather not participate in it.
Im actually waiting until marriage to have sex.
Good. Just make sure you don't get yourself involved with a person that's going to give you a lot of hell.
That's the thing though. im not even sure I wanna date. tons upon tons of men I've met tell me the same thing. don't get married all woman are evil, they control you , they only care about themselves
@jameswoodell201 You do what is best for you. While you shouldn't pay attention to everybody is evil nonsense, its best not to be naive about your prospects either. As long as you have good intentions you should be okay. I believe in only dating amongst friends you already know. Not strangers. Because if you date a stranger, you have to try to get to know this person from the ground up, and they are not entitled to tell you anything, but you are entitled to the truth. And if they refuse to open up about it, walk away. You owe them nothing.
Your right. .
There are good guys that go to bars occasionally as well. You can find good people wherever you are.
Yeah... but that’s definitely not the first place I look.
@Ayer93 oh yeha ! I’d still be careful.
Hmmmm...If "good" = "conservative" then true, not in bars and pubs. Visit churches instead.But if '"good" = "experienced, great in bed", then actually bars and clubs are their playground.
Going to churches doesn't make you a good person. Drinking doesn't make you a bad person. Everyone has their stress relievers and it's completely okay to drink once in a while. Just because you go to a bar doesn't make you a fuckboy that's great in bed and great with the ladies. Bars do tend to attract a less intelligent crowd, however that doesn't mean good guys and girls aren't occasionally curious to try it out or feel something drawing them back to it, whether it's lonliness, hope tagging along for a friend's sake or event (like a birthday) or some other aspect. Wherever you go, you'd be lucky to find someone with similar interests, views, sense of humor, etc. So always keep your eyes peeled. That's all I'm saying.
@Ayer93 of course. There are may cases that "good guys" are seen in more "questional" places and likewise, many "bad guys", even real criminals visit the church.But just saying in general, birds of the same feathers flock together.
Look, all I’m saying is that if I’m looking for someone who is looking for more than sex, treat me right, or have a great conversation with, the club won’t be the first thing that pops into my head to look. I understand that you can find good people everywhere but they are typically less frequent at the bars.
Girls don't ever take a guys time into consideration. Like for instance leading him on making him think she's going to go on a second date with him by continuing to respond to texts, then ignoring his request for a second date.