Wheres all the good guys?

Why is dating so hard nowadays? Its like sex is a given! Whatever happened to movies and cuddles?

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  • In my tinder experience of about 20 dates over the past few years, I've so far met two guys who were willing to go out for like 8 dates before anything happened beyond kissing. They were both keepers, and they never pressured me into anything. Otherwise, with people i knew in person and was friends with before, it was more relaxed and slow as well. We took out time as we didn't want to mess up out friendships.
    With dating and social media and the internet, a lot of people are really reliant on instant gratification, and they don't find the whole courting process that interesting anymore, because it requires work on both sides. The ones that really do try are more rare, but I think they're still out there and worth waiting for, because you know that they'll be patient partners who can sit through bad things with you.

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  • I have a lot of trouble dating because I'm a little bit shy to put the first moves on the lady and I feel I get a little bit judge like I don't think she's attractive or maybe I'm not interested or something. I'm totally in the movies and Cuddles. I just wish some women realized that the good guys can be shy sometimes.

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  • They've been friendzoned to be used as emotional tampons for girls who only feel "chemistry" for the bad boys. Where are all the girls who want to do more than "cuddle" with those nice guys?

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  • Ah, "sexual liberation". No one saw this coming did they? -_-

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  • I'm a good guy and I've been friendzoned a lot even though the ones I have been dating say they like good guys!!

    Sorry but I feel like it's a bit of bs to me.. when would we be seen as proper dating partners!

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  • The good guys that still want to start a family want a woman younger than your age to have kids with, sorry.
    As for the just wanting sex thing, it is encouraged by liberal media and liberal morals.

    Maybe find a single father at some conservative event. They will likely want a relationship and not just sex.

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  • When you get into full adulthood, sex IS a given. If your sex drive is so low that it's not a given for you, then dating, as an adult, is not for you.

    That said, cuddling is wonderful also. I'm not saying it isn't, but come on! We're adults. Not children. We're (presumably) not virgins anymore, you know?

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  • Movies and cuddles has passed us older people by.

    It's all about Netflix and chill now.

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  • Lol this is like the "does side matter " question. You already know the answer but still choose to ask anyway seeking some sort of comfort. To answer your question. they probably all died off at age 30 when they realize women ain't worth the effort

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  • Pffft. Good guys finish last. I cut that shit out about two years ago and it's been the best thing that's ever happened to me.

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  • Us good guys ARE out there, the issue is whether y'all WANT a good guy. I've been in one HELL of a dry spell. haven't dated since 2013 & haven't gotten laid in almost as long

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What Girls Said 2

  • Good question I wish I knew... i probably scare them all away

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  • In friendzone

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