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That's a question that really is hard to answer. Actually for "good guy" definition largely varies from one person to the other. Some might say, "no they aren't" considering themselves good guys. Others will say good guys come last. This said, I believe "good guys" actually understand that it does not make them happy and become more selfish then anything else. Still from my point of view of what a good guy actually is.
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They aren't, I'd say quite often they're overlooked for what ever reason. Not hot enough? Not good with money? Have a rubbish car... Sometimes you just need to look past what your ideals are. smoking hot arsehole of a man, or a bang average bloke who will treat you like a princess. What's more important to you.
Well said. Love this post ❤️
I can give a few reasons.. One, they are still there but have become so jaded by women that they aren't interested any more, having suffered from abuse and being used.. Two, they are all married or otherwise taken..
Good reason
Girls aren't interested in good guys, they're looking for a project. Someone they can change. Haha jokes... maybe
They aren't, just can be hard sometimes for both genders to find someone that your compatible with.
I like good guys more than projects 💕
Maybe
Because.. We're the Good Ones 😉 ;
https://youtu.be/PqDUB7GL4i0Of course not. But in order to land one the woman needs to develop your value, bring something of high value to the relationship. Most have never even pondered it, simply assuming if they show up with their golden vagina they're , well, golden. ;)
I don't think they are taken, I think they are hiding
True I'm in my house sleeping
Yeah plenty but sadly some women are stupid and can't see the goodness in front of them.
Thank you
Who is a good guy? A guy who may turn out to be good for a woman could be seen as an asshole for another. Only be yourself, your best self.
I choose this one because not all guys are good same. Same with women some of their personalities can be the same that don't mean they want the samething. LoL which like us guys are simaler like the woman like they don't what we want sometimes and we don't know what they want. Like when it comes to money and marriage happy wife happy life do you believe that shit I wanna be happy but figure it out what you really want life besides the pettyness drama and attention.
A new one was just born three minutes ago.
Oh wait, too late. Some four year old cougar just nabbed him.
Ewww what?😱
They go quick. You need to be faster.
I can't, IM DYING OF LAUGHTER
That's a hot take, I really don't think they are all taken, (I am not taken, am I a bad guy, I don't think I am a bad guy, am I?), maybe you just need to look somewhere else?
Gotcha💕
They aren't. I know a few single "Good Guys", maybe you're looking for "Good Guys" in the wrong places...
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Good guys are still out there. Many don't look good and so are not liked by women until and unless those women spend time with them.
Oh nooooooo 😞
I think at my age, most of the good looking and marriage/relationship material guys are totally taken/ married.
I think that feeling is mutual, as a guy that wants kids of my own it feels like all the available women have done all that and aren't interested aby more
@Edanurus yes, i would think this applies to women as well. I am under the impression that women want to marry and have kids before their bodies can't do it anymore. Thus, they marry in their 20s.
Good looking guys=good men
Oh so that's what they mean when there looking for a good man.
BUT loOKs DoNT mAtTeR... GOTCHYA
NOW IM GOING TO OFF MYSELF✌
@zeineboyy beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
No it's not all girls like guys who are 6ft+ all girls like a guy blue eyes.
Look if looks where subjective than I would at least get 5 girls to notice me out of the 1000 I tried to get with.
While other guys just sit there and get 10+ girls chasing him at a time.
@zeineboyy not all girls like those guys. You just haven't found the one yet. by the way, my husband is not 6' and does not have blue eyes.
Not all of them are like that but the vast majority are so I'm toast.
@zeineboyy no man, you are young. You have time. You just need one girl to be interested in you.
Well only time will riveal that hopefully your right.
@HOAAH yeah i understand that idea. Still I feel like then there is a lot of single women in their 30s want to date but have kids and dont want more. Thats fine but as I've explained to my exes I want to be there for the birth of my son/daughter be one of the first people to say hi to them, look after them from the moment they're born untill the day i die. I feel that that gets less likely any day.
@zeineboyy Hey look at my profile picture. I'm no looker myself. But I learned in the late 90's when I was on pills I was really attractive, because ecstasy gave me certian things. Euphoria which made me a happy guy just after a laugh and 'banter'.
Looks dont matter because a good looking guy can be really unattractive and a below average guy can be attractive. Depending if they come across as happy and can talk shit. It doesn't matter what the theme is I have impressed women with every theme because I learned early that its about peraonality over looks.
The guy I know who has had the best girlfriends is fat and ugly. But he's the soundest guy to be around so women live him.
Sorry to be harsh but having a negative view on thongs makes you negative to be around. Thats the problem not looks.
It's hard to be positive when all you get is negative outcomes.
This isn't like math negative plus negative doesn't make a positive.
K tinder is horrible for men's mental health I mean think about it every time you swipe right on a girl you like she doesn't swipe back that's a mini rejection. and all the girls on tinder who ghost you and all the girl who match but don't reply these are all mini rejections that add up slowly and makes you depressed and negative 💔
I was never a negative person
But than I tried online dating and tinder and it really effected my mental health I'm currently trying to recover any positivity I once had.
Here's how it works: Good guys get snapped up FAST if the good guys are actually looking. Now, if you're one of those whiny little shits who likes to think he's a "good guy" but no woman actually is interested, you're not a good guy, you're the stereotype "nice guy".
Tell me, what's your definition of a Good Man?
Gentlemanly?
Friendly?
Abstinence?
Patience? I'd love to hear your opinion! (I wonder, because I consider myself a "Good Man"... But I'm not sure if I fall within your category...
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Guys that are attractive, and not anti relationships are easily snatched up. However it doesn't mean they don't come back from time to time.
That's right we're taken for granted. Good answer bruh!!
Because women are wising up and realizing that “bad boys” are trash and assholes. No grown woman wants a “bad boy”.
Sooooooo TRUE!!! ❤️
In short, it's a myth, just like "all the attractive girls are taken". It's a big world, loads of people, plenty of good guys to go around.
Good point 💕
Because ladies tend to gravitate towards guys that have high status. Having a girlfriend is a big status boost. Signs of high confidence or wealthyness are also status boosts.
You might have to ask yourself, why do I find this taken man attractive? What does he have that single guys don't?
Well said. 💕
give it time, keep your eyes open and be ready to act. Even the best of "taken" guys can become available again.
Thank You ♥️
good guys don't want bullshit, games, lies, agendas, or whatever females have given us. so we don't really know what a "good girl" is. i'd rather enjoy life on my own and play a game i can win.
I hope not because I still have to land me some good guy hehe
Yeah and you have to be a good woman with a good heart ♥️
Huh?
Are you gay coach?
@ask4any You talking to me sweetie pie?
What's going on here?
I don't know, maybe I am, maybe I'm not
@ask4any You asked if I was GaY... just making sure you are talking to me pumpkin!
Everytime I try to be nice to any one around me I'll get them looking down on me or using me for their purposes. I am tired to be a nice guy, because that will eventually make me a loser
I'm sure they can't all be. Must be a few kicking around somewhere. Depends what you think a "good guy" is though really. That's a pretty vague term that probably means different things to a lot of different people.
There are PLENTY of good hearted gentlemen out there.
I think they are. Why would they be left single if they're really that good?
Willingly. Broken hearts. Scared to be in relationship.
Priorities. Career focused.
There are guys who are only in relationships as doormats, or have just given up period.
@nendsudes being afraid of relationships and being too career focused isn't really a thing of a "good" guy, being nice isn't enough, it's about having many good qualities :/
Here you have a list:
1. They had to leave a toxic relation
2. They had to make things to survive so as they couldn't invest time on those things
3. He wasn't before, but he learned
4. He was paired, it was beautiful, but it finished for some circunstances
5. He lived on a not so populated city and didn't find any couple
6. He is gay and don't want that type of relation
7. He passed for a bad time and wasn't able to stay with a partner
8. He didn't want to compromise and have children until he could keep them
9. Lack of social habilities which must to have been teached
10. Bad social environment which explodes all his options
11. Unhability to use technology to meet women
12. He expects something of a relation which any women could have given to him
13. He was a bad guy before, but understood all the hurt he had done
14. He had to leave his place for a job and now he is free...
I was tired of writing, but saying if he is single isn't good it's like saying 2+2=pink.
Because the haven't found a good girl yet?
Its called not wantimg a realtionship it's pretty normal, you're one of those females that are weird and completely misunderstanf men
@Fuentes Thanks for calling me weird for no actual reason, I guess.
If it helps you sleep at night, your welcome
I keep asking the same thing
where are all the MEN who wanna be locked down
They are probably doing the final touches on their career or living a crazy life so that when they do get locked down, it isn't a compromise.
Righttttt ❤️
Their not. There just the guys you usually ignore or friend zone when they are single. But the same guy finally lands a smart girl and all of the sudden is much more attractive because he’s no longer available.
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Not all of us are some are just hiding in the shadows
Gotcha ♥️
Because a "good guy", from a woman's perspective, is a guy who is attractive to other women and is therefore usually taken.
No. It appears all the good girls are though. It's why all of guys who are on the gooder side are so lonely. We have no one to pair up with.
Good is a subjective term.
Also, every year is a fresh new crop of guys. Depending on your perception, many of them will have features and qualities you perceive as "good"
Ahahahaha 🤣 🤭
I’m one of the good guys. I’ve somewhat gotten out of the dating game to a degree. I’m open to it, but not just to date anyone.
Yes and I'll release them all once my demands have been met!
probably more than half of all guys are shy which makes them hesitant to approach. Plus a lot of girls seem to prefer loud obnoxious guys which discourages the good guys.
Good point ♥️
Either taken or introvert types rarely go out so you don’t see them often
100 percent fact
I agree
They are not maybe your being too picky tho... just a thought
Nope were just sitting here not caring because there's too many fake women out there who like to mess with our feelings. And what's the best way to not have your feelings messed with well don't give women the opportunity.
people have at their morals truth be told everyone is ro blame. Parents, teachers, culture, society, etc. Also I hate to say this. It the environment matters too. You lick yo men or women at a bar it's like what do you expect?
They aren't, the good guys are single, but girls keep on choosing the bad guys instead and not learning from their mistakes.
That's sad. Luckily I don't. 💕
Because you didn't notice them when they were right in front of you. You were to busy focusing on the confident, charming, smooth talking guys.
I don't know but I caught me a wonderful one. He is perfect for me
Perfect 👌
they aren't lol
you just have to keep looking.
or maybe don't look, and let your future guy find you
Lol 😆
Maybe it's harder to be a good guy than it is to be a good woman, so good women have more competition for good guys.
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I wouldn't say all the good ones but i will say a few who i considered “my type”
Seems like every guy on this site thinks they're a "good guy" lol
LMAO facts 💯
Cause if you wait to long someone else we snatch them up
Lol 😆
I put other, because I disagree with this statement. I would say yes, considering the fact that my crush is in a relationship with my best friend's sister, and my last crush moved to another state, but no. There are probably tons of good guys, but you just need to find them...
Right?
I think there's lots of Good Guys out there. I meet them all the time.
I do hope to whomever this reads, u'll find someone, i promise (as cliche as it sounds). But try to love yourself first & be happy 😊
I kind of feel the same way with women but they say the good die young so Im keeping my eye out for a widow. To bad they don't wear black dresses anymore would make things a-lot easier.
Yes.
I think that most single women today have no choice but :
To say "all" is a vast exaggeration. The good ones need to find a good girl for them. Not all of them have. Just because a guy is good doesn't mean he found someone worthy of him.
A mix of all the alternatives.
The funny thing is that good people rarely mention they are also doesn't really think about that they are, they just live their lives and couldn't care less.
looks like GAG isn't running short on supply of good guys...
makes the question invalid tbh, babe
Ehhh just because someone says they're good guys doesn't make it true. Don't believe everything you read. It will serve you well as you mature. 😆
I know, honey. It's just that this question is being treated like holy water. Wash your one night stands and creepy perversion here and tada! good guy ready :)
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I was about to saw what both of you were saying. Lol
Depends on your standards of good. Who are these good guys you're speaking of? What makes them good?
There are good guys who aren't taken. They're just not interested in me.
I snagged one😊
And nice to see you sir
Awesome.. good for you! and back at ya!