Why does it seem all the good guys are taken?

[Paolaa988]

I found out this cute guy i work with is taken actually or likes a girl that looks nothing like me:( i feel so depressed today at work now because i feel like im gonna die alone😞😢

[MCheetah]

I could ask the same exact thing about women. And as others alluded to, you are not only young at 22, but female, as well. It takes little to no effort for a modern female to find a guy. Just lower your standards a little if you're looking for someone literally perfect. Maybe go for guys *less* than six feet tall or something. I don't know; I don't know you, but it's pretty hard to be single as a 22 year old female. I suspect you might be the overly romantic type, waiting on a Prince Charming like in a Disney movie.

[donkeyde]

All good guys aren’t taken it comes down to how you approach these guys and what standards you’re setting. You may have a good guy you set as a friend only who could be the right one for you but your preference could be the reason it doesn’t go anywhere. Also where do you place yourself to meet these guys because unless you place yourself somewhere able too meet someone and allow yourself to be approached will be the deciding factor. Have standards for what you want but experienced more in life before saying that all the good guys are taken and don’t be afraid to make the first move most guys are dumb and don’t know what we want until it hit us.

[JosyJosy]

Dying alone at 22, don't be dramatic now, I'm gonna tear up

*cough*

Life's just begun. Take your time, meet people. There are public places where you'll find guys to meet, public events of something that interests you (= similar interests), dating apps and dating sites (yes there are just as many horny creeps on there as here, but just like here, there are also good guys out there). Take Your Time in getting to know one and allowing them to open up to you and be good to you. They're not all taken, some just haven't been given the chance to be a good boyfriend.

[jennifer_bloom]

If you wait for the guy to come to you, the chances the guy is single will be much higher and it’s not about looking like a super model cause it’s not necessary and everybody is pretty in their own way - it’s simply about being out in public in areas where you can regularly pass or come in contact with single men. A beautiful woman who talks to 5 people a month has a lower chance than an average looking woman who talks to 300 people a day as a cashier or a waitress etc….

[OlderAndWiser]

You are 22 years old, not 92! Be patient.

[The_Maphio]

Because that's how it is. Good guys look for the good girls and they don't let go within reasonable limits.
Finding the "good partner" can be a bit of a tricky venture, but once you get them, you're one big self realization point up in the "personal realization" scoreboard.

Finding level headed people these days is like fishing for pearls in a sewer pipe. Most of the times what you end up grabbing is garbage.

[keniyaa]

cause a lot of girls like guys that are good for them and treat them right. and funny thing is based on phycology the most beautiful girls are always single that can be true and its because guys think she is so beautiful she probably got a manz which sometimes that ain't the case but there are a ton of other good guys for u not just that guy u won't be single forever be beautiful to yourself and the right people will see it

[Azura_88]

I also got this feeling.
A handsome, generous, talented, cool, loyal and popular guy married an average girl. Like Wtf?
It's SO RARE for a guy LIKE HIM to be loyal to one woman especially if he's popular TV actor and loved by thousands of other better women.
Nowadays even ugly bastards cheat as soon as they get a better option. So yeah I also felt that there will be a drought in terms of getting a good one.

[Mofunfour20]

If you can respect a man and give him peace he can't find anywhere else and stay fit and feminine... You have nothing to worry about. Respect starts with yourself and most masculine men can tell if a woman respects them or not, why would i take her seriously if she didn't? Give a guy a sense of peace he can't find anywhere else and he will risk his life to protect you

[TheorionMage]

It seems it depends HEAVILY on YOUR subjective definition of 'good' guys...
perhaps you're not being honest with yourself as to who/what you ACTULLY decide is 'good'.

MOST 'goody two-shoes' guys eventually get dumped for BEING white bread 'boring'.
Life is too short, to merely 'settle for' ~ ;)

[FunkyMonkee]

Because most of you tend to look for raging assholes. Most likely, I'm gonna die alone, too!! I've only ever had 3 girlfriends and the last one was 25 years ago! She ended up cheating on me. The one before that eventually went back to her old boyfriend and the first one was just using me to make another guy jealous! THAT'S a great feeling!!

[Paolaa988]

But I want kids

[keniyaa]

u will have them but time will tell there is someone out there for everyone. But u do not always have to look for love it will come to u just be patient, I want kids with my crush but I don't know how he feels about me

[FunkyMonkee]

So do I! Since my brother killed himself a few years ago, I'm the last one in this branch of my family that can continue the family name.

[keniyaa]

I am sorry to hear about that. And ion think any more of my fam having kids shi my uncles have 2 grandkids from the same dad but dif moms and they tryna adopt a baby my uncles I mean are tryna adopt a baby she lives wit them rn i live with my aunt and uncle my auntie always like i want u to have kids just not rn I was like oh for sure but not rn

[FunkyMonkee]

@keniyaa Thank you!! On one hand, he was a raging asshole but, on the other hand, he got severely screed over by two bogus accusations of child molestation. The first one, the only thing that happened was two little kids walked past his bedroom and saw his naked ass as he was pulling up his pants in the morning. The second time, his best friend's wife wanted him and, when he turned her down to keep from hurting his best friend, she told police that he molested their daughter! It cost him at least 7 years in jail. I knew the first accusation was bullshit but never knew for sure about the second one until about 18 months ago.

[keniyaa]

that is so fucked up bruh like what be going on these days

[FunkyMonkee]

@keniyaa Some people are psychos!!

[keniyaa]

this is true

[friendzoned4life]

Yeah the good guys, aren't all taken a lot of them are depressed:

https://www. girlsaskguys. com/guys-behavior/a65761-answering-the-question-where-did-the-good-guys-go? utm_source=dynamic&utm_medium=androidapp&utm_campaign=question&utm_content=q65761

[ChrisMaster69]

You will get their, just be patient.

if you start getting that ‘desperate’ thing, guys will pick up on it.

it will then become counter productive.

[FilmGuy93]

I'm going to go out on a limb here, but is it possible that the reason all the good guys seem to be taken, is because you aren't willing to take a chance on a guy who hasn't been vetted by another girl?

[FlowerSeeds]

I hope you are having a good day today and I hope you're not going to be hurt for too long with this it's okay I'm sure you'll meet the right guy one day :3

[Ayanna240]

if you define good guys as only the handsome cute ones, then its no wonder why you can't find a man

[Paolaa988]

No i don't i mean good as in a good personality and heart

[Ayanna240]

there are tons of guys with a good heart and personality. Most people out there are good people nowadays. But if you are looking for a funny, charismatic guy then those are hard to find

[TheBigGuy9]

I think it’s more of a competition. It’s why women always want guys in relationships and Vice versa. They look at the other person and say, “What about me don’t you like?” Or you can do better. All the while there are plenty good single men that you don’t give a hoot about.

[moviedude714]

Are you still using dating apps such as Tinder, Hinge, Bumble? Or online dating? Most people will agree that the average woman or the typical woman has way more options than the average or typical man does when it comes to dating apps or online dating

[Anonymous]

Ah, well, as you can see, the good men are taken fast. Why? Because women love them ☺ Normal women don't wait around for him to make the first move. Instead they catch him. Or else they'll miss their shot.
Sorry but you're too late for him. Some girl may have asked him out before you. Or he found her before you. In any case better luck next time.

[Paul09]

Oh some of us are around. But not bad enough for women lol. I myself seem to be into taken women or just women that do not want me. Then there the women that are into me, I'm not into them.. But you are young and a female, so you shouldn't worry about it.

[sage2021]

Actually we don't really know for sure that they are really good guys; we just think they are. Scott Peterson appeared to be a good guy, that is until he murdered her and the baby she was carrying. So, see, ya never know!

[DaveToo]

First of all, you're only just getting started in life. You WILL meet Mr. Right, have children and grandchildren. Your husband may die before you but you will be living his legacy with your offspring.

[Alyssa11]

I FEEL THE SAME FRICKEN WAY AND YES I AM EMOTIONAL ABOUT IT THANK YOU

[PeacefulRainDrop]

They aren't all taken.. they just aren't the loud ones seeking attention they are the ones avoiding it... good pick a few apples before you find a good one!