There are good guys out there but many of them are heart broken from women ghosting them, leading them on and cheating on them. And I scared them all because I was pursuing them and being by their side. When they weren’t ready and needed healing. Don’t rush anything, be patient with their time and go with the flow.
Girls don't ever take a guys time into consideration. Like for instance leading him on making him think she's going to go on a second date with him by continuing to respond to texts, then ignoring his request for a second date.
I mean, I'm gonna say the typical "I'd like to consider myself a good guy" comment and I wasn't taken a year ago. There are tons of good people in general out there. The trouble for most people is finding someone not only "good", but someone that has chemistry with them... similar interests, views, sense of humor, etc.
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There is a tendency among women, statistically born out, for women to go after the irresponsible, fun bad boy type, when they are younger. Later when they want to settle down with a more responsible guy, when they are finally willing have a serious, long term relationship with a guy, they find that these guys are already in relationships.
There’s still some good ones. You just have to take your time finding him. I know it’s like trying to find a needle in a hay stack. You’ll know it when & if you find him. Don’t rush into anything either.
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I think the only taken they are is advantage of. All the "good guys" I came across are really messed up because a girl did then wrong at one point in time. A guy I currently know is in his 30s and was used so much he's simply settled for never having a family or something to really be proud of. he's such a polite guy too, its honestly sad.
There not. And lots of the guy you see in relationships you consider good are behind closed doors total animals abusing there spouse and even kids. Live and let live treat everyone how U expect to be treated be honest and you will see good men everywhere the law of attraction will deliver to U what you deserve
If you think all good guys are taken, get your eyes fixed or better yet drop the high standards BS, specifically you own perfect fantasy dream man, It'll take you a life time to find the 100% comparable no errors mate, I get asked myself you seem like a good guy why don't you have a girlfriend? I just say I don't know, maybe the girls are the ones have the higher standards than guys
Nope All the good guys are not taken , they've got sick of the dating scene BS and decided its not worth the effort especially after the #METOO#BELIVEHER fiascos, where now men have a virtually permanent bully’s-eye on them even when they have done no wrong.
Because a lot of good guys are a bit invisible until they're in a couple. He'll start to be more outgoing with his new girlfriend, and that's when you see him for the first time.
Not true. It's just certain guy's flock to you. Not your fault. You just gotta see it with your mind first. They one you don't think you would not have a connection to. Would probably be the one that is right. And not talking about your friend zone friend either.
Because the grass is always greener on the other side. Especially when people always try to act like their relationships are doing better than they are
When good guys are remaining good... Doesn't catch your eyes... But when they tried to do some bad things... U girls treat them as bad... On the other hand, when bad guys do something to attract you, it's really adventures but end of the day adventures can't entertain life... So after that the question raise "why are all the good guys are taken?" 😉
i come to the conclusion they are not just not looking lol
i had a ex that obv didn't want a relationship but he was the most caring person ever needless to say it didn't work amazing how some guys won't give up sex
Said it in a earlier post but basicly, yes they, we are living life and not soley obsessed with the quest for the holy vagina. Dont get me wrong, I love women and all but but for some guys when they get passed over, they dont keep spinning the wheel of fortune, they dont get bitter and butthurt. They just do something they enjoy instead.
I guess they all may seem to be taken, but there are definitely single ones out their. It's just that they're not loud or easily found, unfortunately. Just be patient and you'll find someone that treats you the way you should be treated😊
Define "taken." With exception of one gal on this site, I'm not so much "taken" as unavailable. Not really with anyone, just have a lot to sort out before giving another girl a chance. The last five years, I've felt like a cat in a dryer.
While I am not 100% sure of the premise that all good men are taken after a certain age - Logic dictates that not every relationship lasts so therefore there will be periods when some of the "Good Guys" will be available again post a certain age.
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There are good guys out there but many of them are heart broken from women ghosting them, leading them on and cheating on them. And I scared them all because I was pursuing them and being by their side. When they weren’t ready and needed healing. Don’t rush anything, be patient with their time and go with the flow.
Girls don't ever take a guys time into consideration. Like for instance leading him on making him think she's going to go on a second date with him by continuing to respond to texts, then ignoring his request for a second date.
No I disagree with that statement I know plenty of disloyal men in relationships same goes for women too. .
Though thankfully I have found myself a top man, though I had to go on a fair few dates to find him. It was definitely worth the wait!
I mean, I'm gonna say the typical "I'd like to consider myself a good guy" comment and I wasn't taken a year ago. There are tons of good people in general out there. The trouble for most people is finding someone not only "good", but someone that has chemistry with them... similar interests, views, sense of humor, etc.
There is a tendency among women, statistically born out, for women to go after the irresponsible, fun bad boy type, when they are younger. Later when they want to settle down with a more responsible guy, when they are finally willing have a serious, long term relationship with a guy, they find that these guys are already in relationships.
Nope and I'm not even speaking for myself.
I have a couple of guy friends that are single and I know they're good guys because I hang out with them often enough.
And at the same time I know a few guys that's been divorced and has been single for a long time.
There’s still some good ones. You just have to take your time finding him. I know it’s like trying to find a needle in a hay stack. You’ll know it when & if you find him. Don’t rush into anything either.
I think the only taken they are is advantage of. All the "good guys" I came across are really messed up because a girl did then wrong at one point in time. A guy I currently know is in his 30s and was used so much he's simply settled for never having a family or something to really be proud of. he's such a polite guy too, its honestly sad.
Nope they are not all taken.
naw we are just taken for granted
I second that
@SAVAGEDANK big facts
i agree with you @Pinay_ako there are many good lookin guys still out there in the world
There not. And lots of the guy you see in relationships you consider good are behind closed doors total animals abusing there spouse and even kids. Live and let live treat everyone how U expect to be treated be honest and you will see good men everywhere the law of attraction will deliver to U what you deserve
Well said 💕
can't beet the truth
If you think all good guys are taken, get your eyes fixed or better yet drop the high standards BS, specifically you own perfect fantasy dream man, It'll take you a life time to find the 100% comparable no errors mate, I get asked myself you seem like a good guy why don't you have a girlfriend? I just say I don't know, maybe the girls are the ones have the higher standards than guys
Nope All the good guys are not taken , they've got sick of the dating scene BS and decided its not worth the effort especially after the #METOO #BELIVEHER fiascos, where now men have a virtually permanent bully’s-eye on them even when they have done no wrong.
Because a lot of good guys are a bit invisible until they're in a couple. He'll start to be more outgoing with his new girlfriend, and that's when you see him for the first time.
Good point 💜
Not true. It's just certain guy's flock to you. Not your fault. You just gotta see it with your mind first. They one you don't think you would not have a connection to. Would probably be the one that is right. And not talking about your friend zone friend either.
Because the grass is always greener on the other side. Especially when people always try to act like their relationships are doing better than they are
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When good guys are remaining good... Doesn't catch your eyes... But when they tried to do some bad things... U girls treat them as bad...
On the other hand, when bad guys do something to attract you, it's really adventures but end of the day adventures can't entertain life...
So after that the question raise "why are all the good guys are taken?" 😉
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i come to the conclusion they are not just not looking lol
i had a ex that obv didn't want a relationship but he was the most caring person ever
needless to say it didn't work
amazing how some guys won't give up sex
Lol 😆
Said it in a earlier post but basicly, yes they, we are living life and not soley obsessed with the quest for the holy vagina. Dont get me wrong, I love women and all but but for some guys when they get passed over, they dont keep spinning the wheel of fortune, they dont get bitter and butthurt. They just do something they enjoy instead.
I guess they all may seem to be taken, but there are definitely single ones out their. It's just that they're not loud or easily found, unfortunately. Just be patient and you'll find someone that treats you the way you should be treated😊
Define "taken." With exception of one gal on this site, I'm not so much "taken" as unavailable. Not really with anyone, just have a lot to sort out before giving another girl a chance. The last five years, I've felt like a cat in a dryer.
While I am not 100% sure of the premise that all good men are taken after a certain age - Logic dictates that not every relationship lasts so therefore there will be periods when some of the "Good Guys" will be available again post a certain age.
Nope, I’m still here and available. Just haven’t had any takers recently. I’m not a mind reader, you gotta step up.
I’ll give everyone a try, but I do know what I’m looking for. So, if she believes she’s up for the challenge, give me a try.😁