Which guy I should go for?

[Anonymous]

I met this A guy first, we liking each other, then I met the B guy, he's so fun.!

guy A, I feel difficult to talk everything to him since he doesn't respond much to what I talk about, he doesn't cook, he seems rarely talk about his days, I find difficult to tell jokes

guy B, I feel no shame and able to talk anything, he's good at cook, funny, he doesn't talk much about his days too, but he always respond to anything I told him even though I send him a long text , in his past he used to sleep with multiple women

[Cynicaldreamer]

Before I respond, have you went out on dates with both of them to see who you vibe with more? That would help.

Just based on your description, you sound like you want guy b: even how you described your interaction with him, it sounds like you like him more than the other guy.
I get where you might be apprehensive being with someone that's had multiple partners- to be honest, I would too!

That is why if you give him a chance, you need to be sure to discuss your concerns about that- such as, "Are you willing to settle down and be in a monogamous relationship?" Or is he okay having one partner.

Be sure to discuss that before sleeping with him or getting in too deep!

[Anonymous]

Have you asked these guys what they’re looking for right now? Because there’s no point going for someone who isn’t interested in the same thing. If you’ve already asked them this question and they both want what you want, then personally I’d pick the guy that is aligning with what I currently want. Forget all their pros and cons — every man will have that. So look inward and ask yourself what do you want and need from a man right now? Stability? True effort and not just words? Consistency? Humor? Go for the dude who’s not a fixer upper and gives you what you need right now.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah, let me clarify the 3rd sentence, it reads confusing lol. I’m being presumptuous but let’s say you want a relationship at some point, so you’re looking for a guy who’s open to dating and not just hookups or whatever casual thing. If you’ve asked them both what they want and they also want to work towards something, then that’s good. From there you should already have or try and get an understanding of other things you seek in a man, and which guy aligns best with those things. That should be who you pick.

[Guy13]

Which one is good in bed? One sounds gay and the other Narcissist. That don't leave you much to work with except... well... you know... Mr. Willy

[Ironic_Method]

Imagine being a guy who gets picked based on what a bunch of internet strangers thought. Whoever doesn't get picked is the real winner here.

[ShellyB]

From the description I am not sure why this is even a question tbh, I would not pursue A I don't think anybody could read the description and suggest pursuing him based on how you feel about him. I am not sure if I would pursue B but probably if you feel like you are a good match. To me the cooking would be a very minor factor and having prior relationships with multiple women would not be a negative unless there is drama, it is kind of a positive actually. Good luck!

[Summeroflove]

Probably guy B. I mean just talking alone. You seem to better connect to him

[maximumpower]

Which one do YOU want to go for?
This is a decision YOU need to make, not the faceless rabble on GAG...

[Imsmurter1]

B sounds better but how hot they

[Anonymous]

Definitely go for B.