Polls: Guy's Behavior

Attractive is probably not the right word to use, but I'm blank. I mean it's not like you go after a girl that's like your mother but she says and do stuff that reminds you of her. Is that a good or bad thing. My boyfriend tells me frequently I remind him of his mother when I say certain stuff. So yeah I'm wondering is that good or bad?

How do you tell the difference between a shy/nervous guy losing interest vs just becoming comfortable around you?

If you are more confident to go up to a girl and talk, but you don't flirt as obvious/awkwardly and you act more outgoing and friendly, would that be a sign of lost interest?

OK well I was seeing this guy, kinda open relationship, or friends with benefits but we did more than just sex. Well my dumb ass ended up telling him I loved him.. Which I do, it hurts to think about how I can't have him. He has always been kinda distant because he was hurt by his only wife of 6 years, she cheated, now he don't trust anyone it seems. Well I have never got him to tell me he loved me back, he was always just good to me, kissed me on my hand and tells me he appreciates me, and my shoulder, just an all around great guy.. Well the only thing is he seems reserved! and after loving him this whole past year I'm trying to move on because I really don't think I could go through that much pain, I'm trying to bring it down to a friends level... so I don't get hurt.. so I basically get back with my ex husband and trying to fix my marriage with him, all the sudden I tell the other guy and now he is like saying stuff to me like "be careful dear" "If I wasn't working sweetie I would love to be spending my time with you" or If I tell him somewhere I am at he always says "I wish our schedules weren't opposite, I really miss you" ummm you guys! this dude has never been like this, so since he knows I love him to death is he messing with me because he knows I love him? is this just a head game? I have never known him to play head games.. he is a very serious person, but always the funnest to be around. I love him and we have everything in common but how come at the point I'm telling him I love him he had nothing to say, and now that my attention is for my husband he is saying all this stuff to me? is it just a tease? does he maybe love me and trying to express it before its too late? I'm really lost, he seems so different, I like it, but how come he wasn't this way before? by the way don't point fingers, my husband used to drink heavily and we had a lot of domestics and I figured one more chance for him... basically trying to make myself love my husband again, this other guy has really got me bad!

Guys, do you like women with broad shoulders?

Not bulky, but broad shoulders and proportionate to her body.
Example:

Example of narrow shoulders:

I catch him looking at me, quickly turns away.

Blushes when I'm in his view.

Will stare into my eyes until I look away.

Fidgets around me.

Lingers near me when talking with another group of people.

Laughs and repeats what I say in meetings.

Shows up for my meeting.

Looks under his brow into my eyes and gives a half smile, sly smile like.

3 years at work this has been going on. I have fallen for him. Too shy to do anything. He seems a lot like me.

Is this just the way he is or does/did he have a crush/thing for me too?

I noticed over the years that every time a guy in my social circle has had a choice between a serious/shy girl that genuinely likes him and the school flirt, he will pick the bimbo that is digging him, dates her for three weeks, then it's over and then he claims he is incapable of relationships.

I don't understand.

My brain is like a large ocean of questions and answers. I've just been answering unanswered questions for about an hour and I've realized that holy sh*t, this site is intense sometimes.

Of course, you've got the million-bazillion (I was never good at math) questions about:

"OMFZ! DOEZ HE LIKE ME OR AM I JUST LIKE SEEING THINGZ"

"AM I A WHORE BECAUSE I HAD SEX SEX WITH HIM TOO FAST"

"DOES MY EX STILL THINK ABOUT ME, OMFGZZZZZZ"

Then, you have your cantankerous, crude, premature ass-wipe that is just trying to stir up controversary.

"Why are ALL girls so jealous of me!?"

"Why are black people disgusting?"

Which includes the asshole comment-or who comments on everyones responses, assisting the first abrupt ass-wipe.

I'm actually just really bored and I have taken the day off for the first time ever, and honestly, I have nothing better to do than to post some bullsh*t, pointless, ill-humored "question".

Why is it that girls are SO interested in what the male race thinks of them? I understand, I'm a woman, I love d*** just as much as the next bitch, but give me a break. Move on, get over your stupid ex, and go on to the next guy, someone maybe that has something in common with you, or wants to spend time with your pms-ing ass.

Have sex with whomever you please. But, don't be silly, wrap that willy! Sex is fun, stress-relieving and STOP THINKING ABOUT IT SO MUCH! It's been happening before the cave men existed, you'll f***in' figure it out!

As for you premature, insulting, juvinelle asses who think it's funny to post to some young girl that she's ugly and she needs to hide her face because "you're a ten and can't stand seeing her." (with no pictures of yourself on your profile picture) We all know what you're up to. If you were really a ten, you wouldn't be wasting your time, get a life, go masturbate or something. Try squirting p*rn, that one gets me off.

As for all of you that are reading this, even though I clearly warned you, and clearly I knew someone out there would deal with my abrupt bullsh*t-- Thanks, I hope you enjoyed my rant. That's all for now.

I hope your day is full of f***ing smiles.

(:

Usually?

If they have liked you and they are distancing themselves CAN it mean that they got to know your personality more and didn't like it? Or does it usually mean they don't want to get led on..and all that?

I was hanging out with this guy and we were holding hands. I told him I put lotion on before hand and he freaked out. He pulled his hand out of mine and was like " ew, I hate lotion."

I then said " what? ha ha you don't like lotion? You're just lucky my hands are soft :) "

He then replied with " Excuse me for being a guy. :P"

Do most guys not like lotion? Why not if you don't?

OK, so what if you meet someone and they have different morals than you do? Then you fall in love, do you continue to date them or not? Why?

What happens if they like to steal?

Or smuggle drugs and sell them?

Or do a lot of different illegal drugs?

Or they don't take care of themselves (bad teeth, bad odor, bad clothes)

Or they talk a lot of bad things (like curse a lot and swear words?)

Or they are like a whore or prostitute type life? Or they like to do bad things with sex?

Or anything that might be immoral to you? What happens if they do bad and mean things to other people (egg people's house, tire slashing, stealing people's dogs or cats and killing them etc)

You know what I mean, what happens if their morals are different from yours? Will you still be in a relationship with them because you love them? Or NO, and why?

What happens if they want you to approve of their bad behaviors? What happens if they want you to also do it with them? Will you go ahead and approve, or do it with them? Will you still date them if they did not stop? Will you date them if they do stop? What do you think?

By the way I'm with a guy whom is a great guy, but he does some immoral things I don't like. He says what he does is not wrong, and that I should do it with him some times. He did these bad things with his ex, and I totally disapprove. I'm so afraid that he'd do it again and what happens if he gets caught and go to jail. He could get a federal offense like my friend did! And what happens if he makes it seems like I did it? If I get caught with the stuff he does, I could go to jail! Am I naive to be thinking this or worrying for nothing? What do you think? Should you worry if you were with someone who's immoral more than yourself? Help! Thanks!