I hate guys that say sh*t like girls always go for the bad guy type
If you have enough about you, enough confidence in yourself these things aren't even a barrier.
The most common misconception is that because a guy is
nice
quiet
shy
thoughtful
sensitive
and can sit through marathons of sex in the city that girls should be flocking to them. They get annoyed about the so called bad, jerk guy who constantly beats them to the punch. However its more a matter of the confidence these people have which is the real factor of what draws hate from the nice guys. The jerk or bad guy has confidence in abundance, in himself, in his personality and in his goal to be able to capture what he wants.
Guys need to understand that however sophisticated the 21st century is the attraction with men and woman is simplistic as it is in the jungle.
Guys need to stop pitying themselves, nothing worse than seeing a question on here with some guy complaining about how he constantly gets knocked back or keeps losing out to the bad boy...I meaning moaning because you got beat to a girl by another guy is probably exactly the reason why that kinda thing repeatedly happens to those individuals. Instead of moving forward they just sit their and cry because the world isn't fair.
strong survive, that's the reality of this world
So many people on this site are concerned with "bad boys". Who cares. Be a good guy and get the girl. It's really pretty easy. Can "good guys" not be charming? I don't think anyone realizes that yes they can and do. Instead of constantly bitching about all these "bad boys" get the girls! Get some. I'm really tired of reading about people's theories and justifications on why women like a certain type of man. It's not true 90% of the time. Have confidence. This is not a "bad boy" trait. It's universal and anyone can have it if they want.
My boyfriend is the definition of a nice guy. He brings me home flowers for no reason. He cooks me dinner when I work late. He stays up late and talks to me about anything and everything. He does anything in his power to solve my problems and make me happy.
He has his jerk moments, of course, but I have my bitch moments too. But as everyone tells me, he's the sweetest guy.
there's some guys who say they are 'nice guys' but they really are not nice guys.
one guy I went out with said if I didn't have sex with him in the first week, he'd dump me; that guy called himself a 'nice guy'. he isn't, he's just a piece of sh*t.
nice guys are rare.
LOL even though my ex-boyfriend Dumped me 3x in just a month due to shallow reason"Im too good for him and no time for me" still I choose B because at times he's nice at times acts really weird lol... but can't deny I still have feelings for him :))
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Here is the perfect answer for all you ladies. A good man will treat you good but will not let you walk all over him. If you try to take advantage of his good will he will tell you that it ain't write. Then we can argue about it or you can see where you were wrong. Just like when we "get the girl" you want a little challenge. If once in the relationship they let you walk on him then there is no challenge and that's where the nice guys lose. Sometimes a man's gotta grab his package and say "this is how its gunna be. So its not that jerks get the girl its that winney little men don't get the girl and then say only jerks get the girl cause they are weak. Nuff said!
while girls might prefer a nice guy, they notice and they are attracted to strong, confident, assertive, dominant guys who often treat women and less masculine guys like trash.
This is the pretty much the definition of being masculine. (look it up if you don't believe me)
The fact that the asker chose Light_Yagami's answer as the best answer says to me that she is attracted to masculine guys and can't help it. I'd hazzad a guess that she's been involved with a jerk before
Also in the poll I'd say that a fairly sizable portion of the girls are kidding themselves in to thinking their Boyfriend is a nice guy.
I believe all guys have an innate sense of being both. How we express it, on the other hand, is entirely different. Even many guys who are players are that way as a result of having tried a serious relationship at one point, and the girl losing his trust. I know many guys (though I don't approve of their actions) that seemed they were genuine enough to commit and be nice, but the girl tore them apart and the guy resented it and stopped caring about "nice-ness"
I myself consider myself a nice guy with jerk-like tenancies; however, I joke around and any time I say something "mean" its out of fun and I never cross the lines or intend harm. She calls me a jerk every so often (out of good fun), but I can't help but smile when she does :)
There have really only been 2 nice guys in my life. One would be my best friend & the other would be the guy I'm with. They're both great guys. Nice guys are sometimes hard to come by. Most of the guys I went to school with were jerks or major tools. I'm lucky to have such a nice guy to love me =)
C, he was definitely a jerk. A wolf in sheep's clothing.
Hartmut said what I was thinking...
"No matter how d***ish a guy acts towards his girlfriend, if she's still with him, then she's not gonna say that he's a jerk. Otherwise, she'd have left already."
So for people who voted "B: 50/50", their situations are more likely to appear to be '25% nice, 75% not nice' to the outside observer.
Although I would love to say that my boyfriend is a nice guy, he isn't. Never romantic, never gives compliments. He's kinda just there. And when he's not just there, he's a mean person. Sad story. But I think guys who are not "nice" guys are the ones that girls go for, because we feel like we haven't completely won them over yet. Nice guys seem to be all in, which can scare me away (ha). Just my opinion.
I do'nt know what to vote...
he used to be a jerk until we started dating.
and for anyone out there who's gonna be all like "he's playing you" or lying to you or whatever, I used to be a bitch until I met him.
Some people are just worth changing for!
Women miss the point here. Assholes and jerks aren't mean to women's faces. They cheat on their girlfriends and rarely get caught, and are disrespectful to all women behind their backs. They are perfectly good at being two-faced and acting charming in front of women, in order to get them to have sex more quickly.
True players and assholes rarely date a woman for more than a few months tops. The women that do knowingly prefer these kinds of men prefer to have sex with them, but not to date them. But I will contend women do like assholes.
Because assholes don't care what anyone thinks about them, because they don't care about other people at all. Which is a definition of confidence.
He's the nicest guy in the worrrld.
My ex was a really nice guy, too.
My other ex... well he pretended to be nice for a really long time :P
my boyfriend is super nice to me and that's all that really matters ha ha sure he treats others with respect but he can be kinda so-so with others. But he treats me amazingly so that's all that I care about (:
He's a "nice guy" until they break-up, then he automatically defaults to a "jerk".
She's a "nice girl" until they break-up, then she automatically defaults to a "b'itch".
Everyone's a jerk in the last resort. The trick is not to be scraping the bottom of the emotional barrel too hard or too often so that people get sick of you.
I voted 50/50. Sometimes, he's the sweetest boyfriend in the world. Sometimes, he's a real jerk and I can't stand him one bit.
Most girls won't go for nice guys because they're scared of falling in love and wana avoid the greater pain of a break up rather than after a fling with a jerk which they can easily forget. ;-)
No one in the real world can be NICE 24/7... Being in a relationship means knowing both sides of a person and accepting him for who he is.
Everyone in society likes to be respected, looked at with admiration and have a name. If you are someone to be proud of then you will have a special someone in your life. People come in all shapes and size.
depends on who you're talking about. the guys I go for tend to be jerks to other people, but cool with me.
im not really into "nice guys." no thanks, I'm sure some girls are, though, and they need to find each other. :)
I would consider him to be a nice guy. Although, that's probably as biased as it can get, right?
He cares... a lot. I think that says loads about the kind of person that he is.
If my boyfriend is a jerk, I'd leave him. So, if you're asking about CURRENT boyfriends most girls will say they're nice. Although if you are asking about boyfriends in general I'm sure all girls have experienced at least one jerk in her life.
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