Guys, Why is he a jerk to me but is so nice to everyone else?

[Anonymous]

This guy who likes me is a complete jerk to me but is so nice to everyone else.. I've also noticed that he hates being ignored by me, if I do ignore him he gets mad and will find ways to ignore me back to get my attention.. but he is so nice to everyone else that no one would believe me if I told them that he behaves this way with me.. I don't get it why does he act this way only with me? I'm starting to doubt that he even likes me.. He's so nice to all the other girls and is quite comfortable talking to them but he gets speechless around me.. he just keeps doing things to get my attention all the time by hanging around me etc...

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by the way I know he does like me.. there's a long story behind this..

[Anonymous]

he's a tsundere lol. Well anyways, how would you know if he even likes you if he's treating you like shit? You deserve better :D

[Asker]

What's that? Lol :D

I know he does... it's a long story and he is a shy guy too

[Opinion Owner]

tsundere is a slang for someone that acts cold and brash, but in reality he is loving and caring on the inside :P

Well aside from that, is there anything else you want to add before coming to a conclusion on whether he likes you or not?

Do you like him back?

[Asker]

Well he just keeps staring at me when he thinks I'm not looking will look away really quickly if I do catch him.. we've locked eyes a couple of times.. he also finds excuses to hang around me all the time but just keeps staring at me without saying anything.. he also goes really quiet around me but is otherwise very talktative n outgoing n is very comfortable talking to other girls.. his friends also know that he likes me.. they all leave quickly and leave him alone whenever I'm near him.. there's a lot more but yeah I guess you've got the idea

I do like him back but his behaviour is just strange around me.. it's like he loses his marbles whenever he's around me..

[Opinion Owner]

Don't get me wrong. You must be drop-dead beautiful if he becomes speechless in your presence :D.
Man go for him. Maybe if you spend more time with him, he'll likely open up to you. Now when you say he's acts like a jerk around you, I'm not there to see if he's being playful and sarcastic or just pure acting like an asshole XP

[Asker]

Haha thank u 😁 actually I didn't want to sound full of myself but a lot of guys like me and everyone thinks I'm quite pretty.. even some of his own friends find me attractive..

He was being saracastic the first time I tried talking to him but was blushing really hard.. but well something happened before this I don't know if he was being sarcastic because of that

[Opinion Owner]

it could be that he's being sarcastic. If whatever incident happened between you two caused negative tension, I don't think he would even have a sign of interest in you xD

[Opinion Owner]

and most likely, he is experiencing love the first time (I could be wrong). If he is, then he just doesn't know how to manage actions when he's around the girl he likes. Also do you like him as a friend or more than that?

[Asker]

Would even have a sign of interest in me? I don't get it 😅

Yeah I think he's never liked a girl before (you think it's love? 😅).. it's quite obvious I guess.. he acts just plain weird around me.. looks completely crazy to me..

Actually I've had a crush on him for 2 years.. he has no idea about this though.. he started liking me a few months ago..

[Opinion Owner]

maybe you can try telling him you like him back and watch his reaction

[Asker]

Yeah I guess.. he seems quite childish tbh.. I'm kinda getting tired of his antics...

[Opinion Owner]

the choice is yours :). You can tell him straight up if you wanted to

[cchris989]

When girls I think to myself "how long am I gonna here this question" probably for the rest of my life.

[Chromekids]

His relaxed state is asshole.

[Asker]

Meaning? He's actually a jerk? And just pretends to be nice to everyone?

[Chromekids]

It means he keeps up a facade in public while he's angery inside. Be careful he's doesn't start to us you as a punching bag.

[TheUnknownMan]

No Doubt he likes u.