hey guys! my boyfriend and I had been arguing recently and he told me last night to leave him alone so I did, he was pissed at me today still. I decided to be the bigger person and apologize even though it was not even my fault, and he chose to hold a grudge against me and be rude so after I apologized he seemed like he had calmed down. he was sitting playing video games and yelled at his computer, which startled me so I told him and he said yeah tell me about it and I playfully say heyyy now and he instantly SNAPPED and kept saying why I said hey, and insisted I must be trolling him even though I was just being playful, and kept accusing me even after I told him this. He asked me to leave him alone and I said ok. Then, a second later, I was very quietly and quickly chucked under my breathe at a text my friend had just sent me and he instantly says "WHAT" and kept insisting I must be trolling him or scoffing at/laughing at him and no matter how many times I said no, I was laughing at a text my friend sent, he sarcastically said "sure, I'm sure that's it" and was adamant that I was laughing at him for whatever reason. I tried to stay calm but gave him the same energy back and walked over to him sitting in his chair and with attitude told him it's not right for him to continue to accuse me of something and he just said "get out of my face bitch" (which I know means he was raised by one so I did not take offense but it was just such a disgusting thing to say) and then he said to leave him alone, and I said ok for how long, is until Friday enough for you to cool down and stop accusing me of trolling you? and he kept talking over me chanting LEAVE ME ALONE then I tried to reason with him and ask why we couldn't just eat dinner the next day together and he says BECAUSE YOU won't LEAVE ME ALONE SO IT'S PUSHED TO Sunday NOW SAY ANOTHER WORD IN THE NEXT FIVE SECONDS AND IM PUSHING IT TO Monday. then he proceeded to countdown from 5. what is wrong with this guy
Is my boyfriend an asshole, what is wrong with him? does he sound like a psycho jerk to you?
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No the better question is what is wrong with YOU. If there were any more red flags here it'd look like a Chinese National Army Parade or something. FFS he sounds immature as hell and potentially volatile. Get outta that ist before you end up the lead story on the nightly news.
You don't have to name it to know you don't want to live with it. He seems to think he's the adult and you are the child. Dump him and date someone who is in control and wants a partnership.
You need to get away from that guy. It's nice you didn't take offense to what he called you. He'd have gotten a slap in the face and that would be the last time he ever said anything to me.
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