First of all you are not the problem, he is. He seems very insecure and manipulative af based off what you said. So Captain Dildacorn seems like he is hung up on the past and he wants you to think that you are the problem when you are not. This is a form of emotional abuse. From girl to girl I hope you find an ounce of courage to talk to someone. You deserve more, so much more. This isn't healthy and you have been patient with him from the sounds of it. Sometimes I stop to ask myself why are some men so cruel? It’s all about neediness. He needs you to admire and approve of him, but hates himself for what ever reasons thus resulting him to be toxic with you.
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Because he is toxic and abusive. Leave.
The real question ypu should be asking is why would a woman such as yourself put up with that kind of shit. Now to answer your question. He acts that way because he is an asshole. Its like when some people get drunk they are dicks, its not because they are drunk its because they are dicks. Kick that piece of crap to the curb and find a guy who wakes up in the morning and asks himself "how can i put a smile on my girls face".
If you're trying to help and he's not trying with making excuses, leave. If he's doing a "I'm traumatized" while doing an "accept me for who I am", then don't tollerate his bullshit. Let him get a bitchy girl if he wants to be a bitch.
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Why are you still with him is my question?
If he still has personal hang-ups, that's a red-flag and tells me that he is nowhere near ready to pursue another relationship. It isn't fair for the woman to take on his baggage.
Unless... if you're a Fixer. Do you typically take men in that are this way, fix them with their issues, and tire of them or they leave you once they're better?
Anyway, his ex could have potentially damaged him to where he is so bitter. (There are people on here that are evidence of that). But he could also be using it as an excuse to be immature and cruel. Either way, I wouldn't tolerate it. Dump him--you can find a man who will treat you respectfully.Here is a solution for you, dump the asshole. You suck ass long enough, you end up choking on shit. Don't stay with someone just cause you are scared being single again. You might actually enjoy being single.
b/c he wants you to be his ex. indulge him. life is too short to spend it with assholes.
I don’t understand why you’d put up with that kind of behavior. Break up with him.
If it pisses you off then tell him so, I don't know what you truly enjoy in your relationship, seems like nothing
Why are you together?
The real question is : why are you still with him in the first place?
He's living in the past. Leave him
wtf break up with him. damn.
He sounds toxic I wouldn’t waste my time
Obviously you like and attract that type of guy.
Cause you're a pushover
Break up with him!!!
then leave?
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