Guy I work with (with a girlfriend) has been acting extra hostile to me and my boyfriend, ?

[thtsouldoesntexist]

So I have this guy who used to be my friend and is a coworker who had a very BIG crush on me, like harassment level and then he got a girlfriend, he started acting more hostile toward me during that time and then I got a boyfriend who also works with us.

My boyfriend says coworker is more distant with him than he used to be and coworker is also acting hostile towards me. I don’t know why he’s being such an asshole to me all the time.

There isn’t a day that goes by where we don’t have some sort of argument over work and I’m over it. I’ve stopped talking to him but he just is mean. We used to friends too I don’t know why he feels the need to be an asshole

[Charly05]

things change, it's okay
maybe just try avoiding him as much as possible or issue a complaint for his behaviour. Or you could try to talk it out with him but i don't think you are totally up with that given that he almost like had a harassment level crush on you back then?
i say, leave it i understand that you want to a be friends again but friends don't treat the other ones like shit.

[Anonymous]

Don't put up with bullying at work. Make a report.

[Avicenna]

If he can't be reasoned with, you might have to get management or HR involved

[Iron_Man]

if you need to know the answer, you have to sit down and set up a talk about

[KrakenAttackin]

Just be professional and keep moving.