What should I do when my boyfriend has become an unbearable asshole?

[acarpxoxo]

I'm a stay at home mom with our 1 year old and in the past 6 months my boyfriend has become such an asshole.. He gets mad at anything I do, holds it over my head that he pays the bills even though I have tried to go back to work and he doesn't want me too ( I have also supported him in the past) and when we start to argue he just calls me names tells me to shut up and tells me to leave! I just don't know what to do anymore. I want it to work for our daughter but I don't think I can take the way he treats me. I try asking him why he is being this way lately and he just says "i don't have to give you any reason.."

[OzFarmer]

You need to get out of there for a while, i have seen the results of fighting parents with a couple of my friends, they have grown up and think thats its normal a relationship is like that!
So anyone reading this, however you act in front of you kids, ie how to treat each other, how you talk to each other, body language and how loving you are to each other and the children sculpts the child.
If you wanna bitch at each other all day, your kids will do that to everyone else too, makes for great relationships in the future and happy homes for kids doesn't it?
Some care and respect.. Respect is earned and expected..

[SunDevil11]

If he is going to be that insufferable and does not wish to work it out or talk about it there is not a whole lot you can do :/ maybe try to see if someone else he trusts will talk to him and see what is going on?

[AnnicaCrespin]

leave him!!! keeping your child in that type of toxic environment isn't doing her any favors, its actually harmful. it teaches your child that it is okay to be treated that way. and it can also be viewed as a form of child abuse and you can have her taken away. be careful. i am speaking from experience.

[Prettygurl12]

Leave.

You've worked in the past. You can work now. Maybe move in with a friend or your parents for a couple months while you find a place and get a job. But get out of there. It's better for a child to grow up in a single parent home than to grow up in one and only see anger between parents.

[Anonymous]

Leave him. It will force him to take you seriously.

[vet31bSoldier]

I am in almost the same damned boat... le sigh.

[Sexualchrist]

Core his arse.