1. Don't tolerate it. Every time he does this, ATTACK! Call him out on it, call him a whiney little bitch, whatever. Make it clear that you won't stand for it.
2. If your boyfriend won't step up to defend you and tell him to keep his opinions to himself, then you REALLY need to reconsider why you're with him. Things like this are strong indicators that he doesn't "have your back", and if he can't support you against a relatively minor issue like this, what's going to happen if something REALLY important happens?
This is one of those examples of people being in denial and wearing blinders when it comes to their SO's bad behavior, and then, one day, they're somehow shocked when this bad behavior gets turned towards them - as it if was the first time this person ever acted this way.
A relationship should be a TEAM, and while team members can criticize each other in private, in public, they ALWAYS support the team, no matter what, to outsiders, maintaining a united front. Your boyfriend has utterly failed in this regard, and that's bad news.
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Tell him to get a life and a girl and stop being a homo trying to steal your man. Even go as far as offer him to help him get a girlfriend of yours so he will get off your jiz. He's obviously jealous and wants you to be the blame of his unsuccessfulness. Verbally abuse him, he's not allowed to touch you if you don't touch him. that's wrong for him to lash out at you and be mean to comfort his discomfort watching you and his best friend. Play the song that's me in the corner from REM and dedicate it to him for being so pathetic. 😘💯
a) he wants you for himself and his plans are already afoot with ploys that have worked for him before
b) he is successful in getting into people heads & working them like puppets, so is trying to puppet you into doing things precisely to counter his jabs, while he is entertained... perhaps even titillated over these
c) the old standby truth - best friends are always jealous of the time/attention stolen from them... the new GF/BF counters by giving them so much attention when all together, it forces the sweety to avoid their own best friend to finally get the solo spotlight = you win
Is he single? If he is then make him feel like an ugly, worthless piece of shit. He's only jealous that his mate has a girlfriend and he doesn't. If he does have a girlfriend then tell her how nasty he is. or if you really want to be a bitch, tell her he's been saying he can do better.
Sounds like he's either jealous of the time u take away from him n his friend. But some guys do that rude behavior as a way of masking how they feel. He may like u n want u. U just have to sit down with him alone somewhere public n try to hash it out.
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Do and say this: "If you don't shut the f*ck up, I'm going to poison you!" Then stare at him seriously, then laugh and say that you're joking, then say "Or am I?", then laugh again and say "No I'm just joking. Ehehehe.. Ehehe.. E-he..". Problem solved.
Its unfortunate but lets face facts: Thats your BFs best friend. Its not a bond you can just break.
Possible reasons:
Maybe the friend is gay. Likes your boyfriend
Maybe he really thinks your boyfriend could do better. Thats looking out for his friend
Maybe he is in love with you. Boys do act weird to girls they like
Your boyfriend is the one that determines what happens next. He may leave you, or he may knock his friend down a peg. Just hope he chooses right.Darling he clearly wants you and is jealous of your boyfriend. Seriously. Just tell him: ''Honey, you can try all you want to compliment me, but there is no way in hell I will go out with you.''
If he really like you, then he will do what you tell him to do. Ask him "Do you like me?" If he says "yes," then say "then please do what I asked you too do. If you think there will be bad consequences, then tell me." He should think of you as the most important person in the world.
Don't tell him to just stop. Have a real sit down conversation with the friend and ask him what the issue is and what can be done to go about fixing it.
Your boyfriend cares about you , tell him like this to pick him or pick you cause
you're tired of the childish behavior. You better watch that guy isn't teasing you
cause he got a eye for you but that would be a shitty way to do it ,Your boyfriend should be the one to stop it. He should talk to the guy if he doesn't stop after him telling the guy to. Otherwise he does not sound like a great boyfriend, nor like he cares much.
Tell him, in these exact words:
"I'm sorry your dick is so obviously tiny that you need to bitch about me every second of every day, but would you kindly fuck off out of my business?"Tell your boyfriend he could get better friends in front of him
I think his friend might actually like you...
It's like how in elementary school boys were mean to the girls they were intoLol why is he bestt friends with so, meone who doesn't respct neither him or their partner. Thats a nasty friend
Tell him to shut the fuck up and stop being a bitch. It's that easy
He's jealous of you being with his best friend so he's trying to break you two up. I think you should ask your boyfriend to talk to him about it.
Start by peeing on his toothbrush... slash his car tires.. slowly do random stuff and eventually he'll realize your a psycho and leave you alone
Don't allow him to pick on you!. That. happened to me. I told him to fuck off my boyfriend didn't really defend me but I told him too. I told my boyfriend it hurts! I told him to defend me or I'm done causeit hurts. He did but me and the friend can't see each other face to face or I feel like I'm going to hurt him. We HATE each other.
he likes you. been here... it sucks as you will never be able to do anything right :(
Find him a women... then he can be an asshole to her :)
He should not ever be a dick when dating your bestfriend, that is extremely wrong! tell your bestfriend about how you feel about him
If he's a sphincter towards you, why do you call him "best friend" instead of "this acquaintance"?
Tell to your boyfriend about what's going with his friend and make to say, "Tell your friend he must respect me or end it with him"
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