Is he an asshole?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

And sorry , i asked if he would like to meet by the way

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+1 y

I know.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, he has his priorities. Just because they aren't you, doesn't make him an asshole.

Now if he was dating you, and treated you that way, then he would be an asshole.

But expecting him to prioritize you, regardless of his interest in you, does make you come off as an asshole.

[Asker]

I’m not expecting him to prioritise me. But saying..”mby we’ll cross paths but im not going to go my way for it “ is rude

[Asker]

Go out of my way*

[BeMuse]

All the "visions" and "best self" sounds like he's reading some new age self help books to try to up his confidence. He's probably depressed or has anxiety and social issues. Thus why he's reading that junk food for the brain to begin with.

[Jccowen77]

Yes he's a self-absorbed little narcissistic prick. Probably jerks off in front of the mirror. You're better off not having anything to do with him.

[Googlemyahoo]

Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Journalling lol what kind if simp does that.

[inhua]

no. he's allowed to prioritize his life over others.

[Asker]

The way he said it. Like I’m not going to go out of my way to do so. Like to meet..

[Asker]

It’s rude

[inhua]

he's saying he has his own goals in life and won't actively try to get away from them.

[Asker]

Ok well we all have our different opinions..

[MementoMori777]

It could have been a way to reject you in a way he won't look bad, could've been worse, he could've kept you hanging for longer than he did or whatnot

[JamesDiaz11]

He's pretentious, but I don't know if he's technically an AH.

[bowenw]

Yeah, he seems very full of himself.

[Asker]

I know , seems like a jerk:’)

[bowenw]

Agreed.

[Asker]

Feel like he’s telling me I’mnotnworth it.

[CoolCatMar1]

Veryyy

[bowenw]

You don't need people like that in your life.

[Asker]

Yes I know

[Asker]

Not even going to take this badly cause he’s just an asshole. Im glad at least he exposed his true nature. And that we didn’t meet.

[Asker]

@CoolCatMar1 yep

[bowenw]

You dodged a bullet.

[BLP11520]

A jerk for sure