I think my boyfriend is a little too nice. Opinions on this please?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were hanging out and some random number texted him. He asked who it was and some lady sent pictures of herself, which is whatever. But he kept texting her to mess with her and joke about who he was, which is fine. But when she wouldn’t stop texting and kept asking questions, I said that I would text her from his phone “stop texting, leave me alone” he said that’s too mean and he doesn’t want to be rude. Is that not what you’re supposed to do? This just got me thinking if a lady flirted with him in public he’d be too nice or not know how to handle it. He always says if someone ever flirted with him he’d tell them to fuck off and etc. He has a very tough ass mentality and doesn’t really give a shit about other people’s feelings (excluding me usually) So I think it’s a little strange that he said it was mean but am I overreacting?

[starfoxxy64]

On all truth that seems like more then just being so called only nice. Because from my whole experiences with my whole ex boyfriend who actually was completely narcissistic and had been gaslighting me and even now I 😂 because he and a username called something like ( NiceguysSean ) which he had been under lies and even after 10 years of my whole life was completely wasted and which I would be very cautious about your own personal situation since. It not going to be easy even if you have all the proof of him aka your boyfriend just seems odd not to just block her number and still try to use his own sad ways to manipulate you.

[Account]

He is not nice. He knows what he is doing. Oh how I dislike it when people play dumb.

[ohsheeT]

No he's not being a little too nice he's been a little bit mean to you and wishy-washy he should have told the girl right then and there that he was in a relationship and for her to stop it goes a little bit deeper than him just messing with her I think he is not being honest with you and he's doing it for his own pleasure whatever you can get from the deal if he truly loves you he would have told her to f*** off already instead of just keep playing around because he's trying to flirt with her is what it is

[RebelinSteel]

Two ways of looking at this, he knows exactly what he is doing and is simply using you over this.

Also, he got a random text, then checked out the attachment… yeah that’s likely his mobile infected with malware, infostealer.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I don't think he's nice at all. He was being a jerk to two people at the same time. He should have texted "Wrong number" and not messed around.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

That's one of the reasons I got turned off with a guy before. Your boyfriend should've ignored this woman.

Your feelings are valid. The reason is valid. I feel the same, an untouchable man is much rare and hot..

[dustybiker2]

It's more how you would act in front of a female friend not someone you are in a relationship with. Normal reaction would be an initial "wrong number". Done. I question him being "too nice" to him exercising opportunity as an *ss in front of you.

[avery58]

Your boyfriend was the one that joked with her in the first place, she has no way of knowing about you... Should have just answered it's not who she was looking for and kept it going, that's what 99% of people do for wrong numbers.

[Dinklex3]

He’s not being “too nice” he’s being disrespectful and inconsiderate.

Sounds like he’s the type to cheat and play it off like it’s no big deal

[Billlewis]

His behavior does warrant some suspicion, in my opinion.

[Alex-Snow]

He really should have blocked or ignored this unknown person. Are you sure he did not know her? Was the texting sexual in nature?

[Asker]

I mean she asked if it was Dave (which isn’t his name) and if he remembered her. And I have gotten weird texts like this before too so i’m not entirely sure if he knows her. He claimed he didn’t. She also said she lived quite far from us

[bobalife]

Definitely sus. It’s okay to hold boundaries. He definitely knows what he’s doing and it’s not cool.

[BoopBoopBeep]

"It's mean" because she's hot and he wants to keep her as an option.

[Tamera952]

Maybe he’s more bluff than action — maybe more passive aggressive than you realized?

[RedInnocent69]

He wouldn’t tell her to fuck off. He’d flirt back, and probably leave with them. He was doing it right in front of you.

[hisstarrr]

Because he was attracted to her. That's why. Sorry it's the truth.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a former escort hire.
Probably needed a quick $200.

[Dvious1]

you are projexting

amuway f you

[Anonymous]

Ur boyfriend should block the lady