Polls: Guy's Behavior

Why?

Do you think most men didn’t also train legs until they visually SAW how ridiculous and weird it looks when they saw the Wolverine post this?

are you one of those that didn’t realize legs were important until you saw this?

there's this guy I've been talking to since I was in the hospital in December, which is where we met. Or so I thought. But then once I got home, he's been super aggressive with the texts, always asking how I am, and saying things like "I miss you", which is odd considering he barely knows me, and "I want to "see you again"/when can I see you again. My question is, what sounds more "friendshippy" vs which sounds more "Lets date/bang!", "I miss you/I want to see you again" vs "I want to hang out/Let's hang out!"? Is saying he misses me when we only hung out for like a week in person even normal? Or am I completely overthinking everything? If you can, please explain your answer. Also, not sure if this makes a difference but he's liberal. As well, I definitely do not want more than friendship.

This is my gfs account I found her stuff on here and want to ask these questions

My girlfriend who is turning 30 next month asked me when I am going to propose and I told her not for another 5 years and she said thats too long and that we've been together 4 years. I told her that I want to have everything together mentally and money wise before that happens and she says she can't wait that long because of her biological timeline. I understand but she needs to understand that i need money before we have a kid and a stable house. She said that she wants me to propose next year or go to fertility appointments. I told her I dont see the purpose in getting her a engagement ring because you get married soon after and I want it to be special and not a memory of oh we were so broke and poor. I want to give her a amazing wedding and honey moon and she said she would do court house and camping. But I am not mentally prepared or ready for kids or marriage and I told her I already call her my wife to other people so I dont see the point. She says im being selfish and that im throwing her chance of motherhood away because im uncomfortable. I told her I would give her a kid first because I want it too badly but I need to be stable. What do you think i should do or say to her

Let’s say there’s a room empty save for 10 men, and they’re all talking about various things. One man makes a derogatory joke about women, the usual thing where the punchline is women are stupid/sluts/only useful in the kitchen.
Three men laugh at the joke, because a good joke is a good joke! They’re not going to let political correctness stop them from enjoying a good laugh.
The remaining 6 men are made uncomfortable by the joke.
Three of those six still laugh in a sort of uncomfy chuckle, they don’t want to be left out of the group even if it’s kinda gross.
The other three remain silent, they don’t want to encourage that kind of behavior by laughing at it. They change the subject.
At the end of the night, all ten men go home, the joke is not mentioned again. Who are the good men?

Can narcissistic abuse affect you even if the connection only lasted three weeks? Is it normal to still feel impacted by how someone treated you?

I experienced every stage of narcissistic abuse with him — the idealization (studying me, learning my trauma, saying all the right things), the devaluation (disrespect, throwing my vulnerabilities back in my face), and the discard (ghosting me and acting like I never existed). This wasn’t a normal “we talked and it didn’t work out” situation. It was deeply damaging. My mistake was being open about my mental and emotional wellbeing from the start, and he still chose to proceed anyway.

Or is this a normal dating thing? I’m so curious to know

so I happen to be a small chested woman, not flat chested but small chested. and I feel super insecure about it. sometimes I feel like showing off and wearing things such as a low-cut neckline, but I'm afraid I'll just look ridiculous, because I feel like I don't have much to show anyway and I barely have a cleavage which I especially feel bad about because I feel like im supposed to have a cleavage, I feel like a part of me is missing and seeing a gap instead of cleavage just makes me feel so bad.

so I don't really know what to do, will I look bad? will I look ridiculous? do you like the look of small boobs in low cuts?