Polls: Guy's Behavior

i confessed my feelings for my online bestie the other day. we've known each other for about only one and a half months but i found myself already liking him that way and wishing we were together as partners, not just besties. this is rare for me, as i've rarely had a crush. we are very compatible and my intuition has been telling me he's the one. both of us havb never been in a relationship yet even though we're uni age. at the very begging, we used to be flirty and playful and he even said he might already like me romantically too, but after a few days, he said he rushed into it a bit too much just because he assumed getting into a relationship would make him feel better but he realized he'd first have to focus on himself through selfcare and improve his self confidence and stuff before getting into relationship and he's not ready for it, especially long distance. also, he said he doesn't know if he really likes me romantically and he's learned not to fall in love easily online from his past experience. i then asked him if there's any chance we could be together in the future after we meet up (probably next year, this December at the earliest but next summer is more likely, but neither is set so i can't be sure ) , but he said he doesn't know because the future is unpredictable to anyone, which is true and he also kept saying he doesn't want me to wait on him since when we meet up and he decides we can't date i'd get hurt and he'd feel bad for making me wait only to get rejected after all in the end and he just wants me to be happy. but i can't help hoping we can be together in the future. should i completely move on from now already ( it'd take time ofc, but i'm resilient so i think i can train myself over time to move on and just stay besties with him ) or is it okay for me to let myself continue liking him that way and secretly wait for him to judge when he comes to my country sometime hopefully next year.

This message was a few days before.
He literally told me he wanted to be my comfort zone the morning before he blocked me.
I have no idea how to take this, no information, no explanation, not even a fight. Literally nothing that could have prepared me for this.
We always told the other to be honest, clear and encouraged the other to speak their mind, no matter how difficult.
Now I haven't heard from him in three weeks and it hurts my heart.
Will I ever even learn?
Will he keep me blocked forever?

i have a male best friend that is currently traveling. We knew each other from school and got very close. He told me about the girls he went out with etc. At first we rarely texted each other however since he left school we texted for about 3 months. We flirted, sent pics, and stuff. All of a sudden he became distant and i knew it there must be another girl there. And im right. So I decided not to reply to his text. Somehow i get very angry cause he didn’t say anything about who he went out with, but at the same time i don’t think i have a right to feel angry.

I was walking out of a room but then I turned around because I forgot something. A guy was walking behind me and as I turned around, I noticed his eyes were looking down at my legs and then he looked at me.

When I came back into the room, he was sat down and he looked at my legs again.

My colleagues went down for breakfast but I didn’t feel like going.

One of my colleagues, who I get on really well with, said to me when he saw me “missed you at break” but he said it quite softly/quietly

Could this indicate that he likes me or am I reading too much into it?

Girl’s opinions are also welcome!

Do/Did you kiss your woman (wife, fiancée, girlfriend, partner, etc.) on the back of her hand and/or forehead?

It melts my heart whenever a guy kissed the back of my hand, because I felt that he was expressing affection and the kiss was non sexual. I like a balance between sexual/passionate kisses and non-sexual/affectionate kisses.

What I'm worried is whether it's something that a lot of guys commonly do, or only some do? I'm not worried by a lot, but I've thought about this question.

The title may be off.

What I mean is how do you act, what kind of girls do you go after when drunk? Standards do probably get a little lower when drunk, but I can't imagine that a normal guy (no simp, no sex-withdrawn dude) would go and cuddle/kiss/have sex with just ANY girl.

I believe he must find her attractive, at least face-wise if not anything else. Am I right?

Sorry, I posted this question earlier but didn’t really put any context in it.

I have a crush on a coworker. We have a flirty relationship and we get on really well. We have been there for each other through difficult times. He has shown mild jealousy at times and is affectionate outside of work when we’ve had a few drinks. He was the one who organised my birthday presents and card (for my 30th)

Recently, on a night out, I admitted to him that I like him more than a friend. I asked him if he felt the same way and he kept saying “you’re a lovely person”. When I asked him to answer the question, he said “yes I do” and sounded annoyed.

He was hot and cold with me at work after that but things have gone back to normal. In fact, when I was on holiday, one of our coworkers asked if he misses me and he said straight away “it’s very quiet”

Today, we were just chatting and it was just the two of us. I said to him “well you clearly hate me a lot” to which he said “yes…. immensely”

I’ve heard guys say the opposite of what they really mean when teasing. Was this him saying that he likes me?

We never talk and we never were on any projects together. Yesterday he asked me if I was in the office yesterday when he was in Home office and if I would come tomorrow. This might be the second time he talked to me in 4 months so it’s not like we are friendly.