Polls: Guy's Behavior

Say you asked him "why do you like me"? And he responded "because you're pretty".

My boyfriend of 4 years, relatively a good and loyal man. He has a group of friends since high school. Two of them got married (guy and a girl) but divorced. Anyways the girl texted him asking if he remembers a concert in which they all went to way back in high school to which he responded with yes I do remember. She said oh so and so didn’t remember you being there and he responded with I remember a lot of half naked girls dancing on stage and kass saying to me “did you get a chubb watching that” to which i said I lowkey did. I was immediately offended and heartbroken to why he would mention that memory to her and it was entirely inappropriate. I mentioned to him and he said I understand why you would be upset I’m sorry I was just remembering a memory and it was a long time ago we weren’t together and I said not the point it’s the fact that your mentioning this to your female friend and he said she’s my best friends ex wife and my bestfriend I don’t look at her that way. To which I stayed silent and he asked if this was “resolved” I said I don't know I’m bothered and that’s it. Am I overreacting?

Everybody keeps telling me that I should forgive about my crush and that his stares don't mean anything because "if he was into you he would approach you". Do you think it is true? Because no guy has ever appraoched me and I myself would never approach a guy I was attracted to because of my own insecurities even if I was dying to talk to them for years.

I've seen so many women (mainly online) say that they think it's weird and gross and that these guys are trying to fulfill some kind of sick fantasy. While, on the other hand, there are some tall women who are exuding this weird jealousy and saying short women are just "taking" all the tall guys for themselves.

What do you think?

I was talking to a guy I went on 2 dates with, during our chat I shared how I and my ex used to take crazy pics with each other during sex.

He asked me if he still has those pics and I said, "Maybe, I haven't talked to him since last 2 years".

And now I can see he is showing disinterest in me. Giving short replies and avoiding to talk on call or to meet.

One of my guy friends get grossed out whenever I talk about my period. I don’t go into deep details about my period but I literally just tell him on my period and he gets grossed out about it. He says it’s not normal and hates when I bring it up.

He is much older than me and has two daughters who will get to this stage.

I have recently developed a crush on this guy in my friend group. We have been hanging out a lot recently. Last time we hung out he met me at a bar after work. He got me some drink and we were both pretty drunk, Teasing each other a lot. Every time we hang out someone has asked us if we are together, I have a lot of male friends and I don't get asked this unless I'm with him. Our friends think we should go out but I'm not sure if he is interested. Later on that night, we were talking about who is stronger. So we had several playfights in the middle of the street at like 4 am. He won and very easily pinned me to the ground. I'm pretty sure he let me win the last time.

If I ask him to hang out he tends to reply quickly but when I text him with something that isn’t a question he doesn’t reply. He also lives with his ex-girlfriend, they broke up in the summer and they both seem happy to be apart but I'm not sure if he is completely over it.

I feel like there is something between us and I want to see where it goes but I don't love that I always ask to hang out and he doesn’t. He is like that with everyone tho. Am I being delusional or is something there?