Guys which do you think would be more difficult to live with today: being a trans straight man, or being a cis gay man?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

And before anyone asks, cis is the opposite of trans meaning you identify with your assigned sex

Trans straight man

Cis gay man

[Kaneki05]

Why do people keep contradicting their term of cis? Cis does not mean opposite of trans.
Cis means identifying with your assigned sex.
Please note Gender-fluid and Non-binary aren't synonymous with been trans and they certainly aren't identifying with their assigned sex. Therefore not cis but also not trans, so cis can't just mean opposite of trans it also means to not be Non-binary or Gender-fluid.

And I for sure would take the option of trans straight man, it's not gender-fluid but it's more closer to me than just a gay man.

[Kaneki05]

Also I am taking the harder path I think. Surely gay men are more accepted than trans.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I agree gender fluid and other non-binary gender identities are not expressly trans however they fall under that umbrella term category of “not identifying with assigned sex”

[Kaneki05]

Yeah so they aren't cisgender which is my point. But people keep saying it as if cis only applies to that of whom aren't trans.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Cis DOES apply to anyone who isn’t trans. Nonbinary and gender fluidity is being trans, cis strictly applies to those who identify with their assigned sex and nothing else. Not every trans person gets surgery to change their bodies, and some nonbinary people do, and some gender fluid folks take hormone therapy. Cis is very strictly only the men and women who identify with their assigned sex

[Kaneki05]

As someone who is genderfluid I hard disagree. I do not see myself as trans at all, i have never once described myself as trans nor ever want to transition. It's true some do some try to change themselves.
But it's not the same, there is a reason why the flags are different. Otherwise by such logic there would be no point in a different flag if we are all just trans anyway.
Just the same way I wouldn't say someone who is Bi is gay because they aren't, there Bi it's a different thing because they are both straight and gay not just gay.

[Kaneki05]

Also by such logic I am trans by been genderfluid then I already am trans straight male.
But I would disagree with that, as a trans straight male is someone who transitions to be a male from been a female, not someone who was already male that don't make much sense.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

Being a cis gay man. It is a digression from common norms to an even larger extent. One is a person who took hormone pills to transform into what they want to be. Once they have completed the gender reassignment process, they will lead a heteronormative relationship just like heterosuxal cis-men. The other one will always be stigmatised since two men holding each other's hands is less likely to go unnoticed.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I think the trans straight man would be more challenging. I just can't quite wrap my mind around having female body parts, but identifying as a man.

[Bl0n6eguy]

No.

It's disgusting to stack people in terms of pity. Stop using the slur "Cis" while you're at it

[Still-alive]

Anything trans is undergoing a huge amount of unfair scrutiny in our era. So ill choose them.

[NathanDavis]

I'm just a man...