Polls: Guy's Behavior

If you were interested in a girl, would you be discouraged from asking her out if you overhead her saying that she was trying to avoid places where her crush went, so that she could stop liking him? Would you be worried that even though she was trying to get over him, she might still be too emotionally tied to him to be interested in you? Or would you take the opportunity to ask her out, since she seems to be going through a vulnerable time of not feeling desirable?

I have a huge crush on a colleague that I’m close to. We flirt and have banter. We also make a lot of eye contact. Recently, there was a “moment” between us when he kept glancing at both of my eyes and my mouth, and then we were gazing into each others eyes while smiling.

This morning, I was eyeing up some sweets on the shelf. I said I was going to have them and he said he would fight me for them. I said “go on then” and he stood in front of me so we were facing each other. But he stood extremely close to me, so that we were almost body to body and we were both staring at each other for what seemed like a prolonged period of time. He is significantly taller than me and he was just staring into my eyes

Could this indicate that he likes me more than a friend?

it’s probably my overthinking but I’m worried that my colleague doesn’t like me in that way.

We have a close/flirty relationship where we tease each other. He does tease and joke around with other people though.

He has sometimes displayed signs of being slightly jealous (going quiet when I talk about other men, interrupting my conversation with another guy) and on a recent night out, we both confessed that we like each other (while slightly drunk)

He was teasing me about how short I am. I said, “I enjoy being short and cute”

He said - “I’m not commenting on that”

Me - “what did you say?”

Him - “nothing”

Me - “oh so now you’re disputing that I’m cute?”

and he didn’t respond.

Did he ignore me because he doesn’t think I’m cute or attractive?

I have a huge crush on a colleague. We admitted we liked each other recently (while slightly drunk) and we flirt/tease each other. There is always a lot of eye contact involved and he will always glance at both eyes as well as my mouth.

We were talking about heights and he teased me about being short. I said “I’m happy being short and cute”

He then said “I’m not going to comment on that”.

I didn’t hear him properly so I asked him “what did you say?” Any he kept saying “nothing”

I then said, “oh, you’re disputing the fact that I’m cute?” and he went dead silent and said nothing.

So now I’m being crazy, but because he ignored what I said, does that mean he doesn’t find me attractive or cute?

l’m worried that I’ve messed things up and I don’t know what he meant. Please help!!

i confessed my feelings for my online bestie the other day. we've known each other for about only one and a half months but i found myself already liking him that way and wishing we were together as partners, not just besties. this is rare for me, as i've rarely had a crush. we are very compatible and my intuition has been telling me he's the one. both of us havb never been in a relationship yet even though we're uni age. at the very begging, we used to be flirty and playful and he even said he might already like me romantically too, but after a few days, he said he rushed into it a bit too much just because he assumed getting into a relationship would make him feel better but he realized he'd first have to focus on himself through selfcare and improve his self confidence and stuff before getting into relationship and he's not ready for it, especially long distance. also, he said he doesn't know if he really likes me romantically and he's learned not to fall in love easily online from his past experience. i then asked him if there's any chance we could be together in the future after we meet up (probably next year, this December at the earliest but next summer is more likely, but neither is set so i can't be sure ) , but he said he doesn't know because the future is unpredictable to anyone, which is true and he also kept saying he doesn't want me to wait on him since when we meet up and he decides we can't date i'd get hurt and he'd feel bad for making me wait only to get rejected after all in the end and he just wants me to be happy. but i can't help hoping we can be together in the future. should i completely move on from now already ( it'd take time ofc, but i'm resilient so i think i can train myself over time to move on and just stay besties with him ) or is it okay for me to let myself continue liking him that way and secretly wait for him to judge when he comes to my country sometime hopefully next year.

This message was a few days before.
He literally told me he wanted to be my comfort zone the morning before he blocked me.
I have no idea how to take this, no information, no explanation, not even a fight. Literally nothing that could have prepared me for this.
We always told the other to be honest, clear and encouraged the other to speak their mind, no matter how difficult.
Now I haven't heard from him in three weeks and it hurts my heart.
Will I ever even learn?
Will he keep me blocked forever?

i have a male best friend that is currently traveling. We knew each other from school and got very close. He told me about the girls he went out with etc. At first we rarely texted each other however since he left school we texted for about 3 months. We flirted, sent pics, and stuff. All of a sudden he became distant and i knew it there must be another girl there. And im right. So I decided not to reply to his text. Somehow i get very angry cause he didn’t say anything about who he went out with, but at the same time i don’t think i have a right to feel angry.

I was walking out of a room but then I turned around because I forgot something. A guy was walking behind me and as I turned around, I noticed his eyes were looking down at my legs and then he looked at me.

When I came back into the room, he was sat down and he looked at my legs again.

My colleagues went down for breakfast but I didn’t feel like going.

One of my colleagues, who I get on really well with, said to me when he saw me “missed you at break” but he said it quite softly/quietly

Could this indicate that he likes me or am I reading too much into it?

Girl’s opinions are also welcome!

Do/Did you kiss your woman (wife, fiancée, girlfriend, partner, etc.) on the back of her hand and/or forehead?

It melts my heart whenever a guy kissed the back of my hand, because I felt that he was expressing affection and the kiss was non sexual. I like a balance between sexual/passionate kisses and non-sexual/affectionate kisses.

What I'm worried is whether it's something that a lot of guys commonly do, or only some do? I'm not worried by a lot, but I've thought about this question.