Polls: Guy's Behavior

So if a guy and girl were in a relationship for 4 years and only saw eachother once a year for 4 years due to COVID and visa issues what do you think the guy would do? Im just focusing on the guy here.

I had a huge crush on a guy for several years. I’ll refer to him as “A”. We used to flirt like crazy and I could tell he was into me. It was all in the intense eye contact and the body language. He also displayed jealousy if I was “flirting” with someone else.

A couple of years ago, I met another man to who I am now engaged. The first time “A” saw me with my partner, he completely ignored us and presumed he was just a friend. When he found out we were together, he constantly gave him dirty looks and was icily polite if he had to talk to him.

When A found out I was moving in with him and getting married to him, he became quiet and moody in his interaction with me. I saw him today and he barely said a word. I asked him if he was ok, and he said “yes, everything’s perfect”. He said it quietly gave me a fake smile.

Is he upset by the fact that I’m with someone else? Is he obsessed/in love with me?

Within 10 months, he went from being his normal happy go lucky energetic guy to being grumpy, than not showing up for things he said he would attend and finally ghosting everyone and not answering to messages. He however still hangs out with his work colleagues. Obviously we are worried he may be depressed but it might really be any reason… he might be offended for something we didn’t realize would offend him, or I even suspected he might have found out he’s gay and his work colleagues are more “open” than many of the boys of our group in this respect. Curious to hear if anyone had past experiences with this.

I had a pre op operation and a male doctor had to come in and examine the lymph nodes in my groin area (didn't have to expose that area completely.) I'm mid 20s, he was probably 40 or 40s. The nurse in my pre op sent him a message to come in to carry out the test explaining I was very fit in general for the surgery to him. I assume I'm in good shape as I cycle, run and even do a bit of soccer. He probably knew I was in mid 20s (25-26) also if said my age on the records but maybe he didn't see that. I don't know whether this would be classed as a younger female to him. He came in mega flustered and fumbling on his words and said how the nurse told him I was very fit for surgery and then after dashed out after doing the test. It's possible he could've been attracted to the nurse also but they probably see each other daily so it was quite an extreme reaction if that.

I mean do guys leave their partner from them losing weight?

Are you just being chatty

Or you really like chatting with that female friend

Or you like her?

I'm 27 and a Christian and basically grew up in my church. I love it. Last year, I met a guy named Isaac. He's a year younger than I am. For the past year we would say hi to each other but would be too busy to have an actual conversation. Two weeks ago, we actually had our first conversation in person even though we met a year ago. He said he wanted to get together and go eat so he asked me for my number. I gave it to him. I wasn't eager on texting him because I didn't want to get my hopes up. He text me that same day but didn't respond all last week. I saw him yesterday at church but he was just on his phone and he was looking at me and smiling. I thought it was weird because he would get close to me but not say hi, he just kept doing that... Yet he didn't text back ( and I text him once last week after he didn't respond and nothing). After service, he said hi to my brother and THEN said hi to me. He told me he was sorry to not text me because he has two fellowships he leads and two ministries he's a part of. Plus, he got a new job. He did text me more last night and this morning but I'm confused. Why would he ask for my number if he's acting like this?

Is he interested?