Why does my boyfriend feed me like I’m a baby?

[Anonymous]

at first I thought it was something sweet he was doing, it is common for boyfriends to feed their girlfriends every once in a while, when my boyfriend did it too me I thought it was the sweetest thing ever he even read me bedtime stories to go to sleep ( he loves to read bedtime stories to everyone so that part isn’t weird it’s just something he likes doing” but it’s got to the point where he told me if I can sit on his lap so he can feed me I felt uncomfortable but told myself he just wanted to be nice and I didn’t want to rude so I said yeah of course! But while he was feeding me he made the airplane noises you know like the one parents do to their little kids to make them open their mouths. I started to get weirded out but again I told myself I was overreacting I then thanked him. Sometimes he does feed me at times and calls me his little girl ( because he’s 6’1 im 5’1 not sure if this is a kink of his or because he’s taller than me” am I overreacting? Is he weird?

He’s a pedophile and has some kink for it

He’s just trying to be nice and sweet

[SteveSmith1985]

You are definitely not overreacting. This is definitely not normal. I don't know if he's a pedophile (because I don't know enough about the kink frankly) but... I do know the kink exists and not... crazy uncommon (not common, don't get me wrong. I just mean... this is "a thing".

You need to look into DDLG relationships (can't remember what exactly it stands for, but Maybe Daddy-Daugter-Little Girl maybe?)

At any rate. All I know is, that it's essentially an adult couple where the girl pretends (roleplay, but I think it's like an outside the bedroom dynamic too. DOn't quote me on that though)
But it's... basically girls with like bibs and diapers and soothers and shit.

I don't know much more about it. Oh, I do know the 'little girl' is called "a little". Like if some girl describes herself as "a little" that's what she means.

So it's a strange kink for sure. Now again, I really don't know the psychology behind it. I wouldn't immidiately jump to pedophile. Part of the reason I say that is just because of how "open" or "available" those communities are (go to reddit). It doesn't seem to be like "hidden" at all. It's just like any other weird kink. But I feel like if it was inherently pedophilic, people wouldn't be as open as they are about being into it.

But this guy has to have that kink. I mean... that's what it IS... it's treating your girlfriend like she's... a toddler.

Find out more about that kink. Most kinks aren't exactly what they seem (or for the motivations you would assume immidiately).

I know this has to be weird as hell for you to read/find-out. But... don't freak out before you find out more about it. People are into some fucking weird weird weird stuff. And for the most part, it's harmless. Hopefully this is too. But DDLG is the acronym. I DO know that much for sure.

You should look into that. Or rather, whether it's a healthy normal fetish or if it actually means he wishes you were an actual child (I have a feeling it's not that straightforward. Or people would be hiding this more I would think)

Anyway. Good luck, and try and keep your 'non-judgmental hat' on at least until you find out more.

[pergamon300]

While im not 100% certain, I think he may just like being affectionate and enjoy looking after you and taking care of you.

Im saying that because Im abit the same (I dont make airoplane noises though lol), but depending on his culteral background, he may make baby noises as some cultures tendy to baby kids (or in your case, a small female whom he finds cute).

Also if your his first real girlfriend, that could be the other reason he's overly affectionate, as you seems extra special to him.

Just my theory.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a low key daddy dom/little girl fetish to me

[OneViewpoint]

Dude sounds like he hasn't matured properly. That is NOT something a normal adult male should be doing with a normal adult female. The fact that he doesn't seem to recognize his behavior is aberrant is concerning. How was he raised? What was his childhood like? Those are the questions I'd be looking to answer. At a minimum, it would be embarrassing if he did that in front of friends or family.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He’s a pedophile and has some kink for it

[Heterosketero]

he's a foot taller and at least a half foot deep, he fetishes your stature. If you want to confirm pay close attention to see if he checks out young ladies who can't vote yet.

[jshm2]

Could be the age gap. But as long as you both are of legal age, go at it.

[F4meforlifee]

So weird. I have a girlfriend yes I do feed her but airplane noises? Way too much he definitely has some sort of weird kink stay away from him I’m warning you

[AngryCarl2]

It sounds kinky and/or weird, but unless you're a small child I can't guarantee that he's an actual pedophile.

[Guy13]

No idea. Ask him.

[PepePatriot]

That is strange

[F4meforlifee]

I agree, feeding your girlfriend is quite normal but airplane noises? Has to be some type of fetish!

[LittleStupid]

That's really cute

[Anonymous]

he's a pedophile