Girls, if a guy opens doors for you, does he score points, lose points, or it doesn't matter to you?

[OlderAndWiser]

I have the idea that most girls appreciate a guy opening and holding doors open for them, though they don't necessarily expect it, but maybe I'm out of touch with younger people. That's what some people claim.

Does a guy who opens doors for you score ponts, lose points, or does it really just not matter to you?

A guy who opens doors and hold doors open for me scores MAJOR points!

A guy who opens doors and hold doors open for me scores some points!

A guy who opens doors and hold doors open for me doesn't score points but he doesn't lose points, either!!

A guy who opens doors and hold doors open for me loses points!

A guy who opens doors and hold doors open for me loses MAJOR points!

[meetkitty123]

chivalrious gents are very sexy. I adore 🥰 polite men. A man with class and manners is the best kind.

[annabananna]

I think it’s a nice thing to do. It shows he has good manners

[annabananna]

Thanks for MhO!

[Red-Blaze]

Yes its apprisated and not excpected
Even then how and when is importent
Like lets say leaving a car, I had someone walk around and as I just open and went out my self they got aggrivated on that, like I did not know they wanted to do it, and it really felt like its point collecting and not done from wanting to do it
Had someone else that seen them doing it for old pepole, and if they see someone come right behind they try to keep the door open a momment more, thats good points as they show its what they want to do, and not doing it for points or the like alone

[Quackthulu2]

It depends interlay on the context. If it’s a door we are both walking into and he opens it and holds it for a second, yeah that’s cool. If he goes out of his way to open a door when it would have been easier for me to do it myself that’s weird.

[WhitneySnow]

I totally agree with this

[Quackthulu2]

@1UwishUknew Lol, okay let me make sure I understand what’s happening here. So I point out the fact that context matters in the OPs question, just like it does in most situations. And I give an example to support my perspective. Then you come in, unprovoked and accuse me of being in what is quite clearly your own situation. Except in your case I would suspect you have slipped and fallen on your latest Bad Dragon toy and haven’t managed to get it extracted yet.

[WowwGirl]

Mic drop

[Emiliamazing]

I still enjoy the chivalry, even after all these years. I thought it was very gentlemanly when we were dating.

[ShellyB]

I like it, I don't demand it, and it can go too far, like if you have to stand and wait while they come around the car or something like that. But overall I like it and it does get points! JMO.

[Emerald55346]

I love it so much, it says a lot about a guy if he doesn’t open a door for me 🚩, I like men that dont want one of those super independent women, I like to depend on my partner to a certain extent and a lot of men are becoming less chivalrous/finically stable and still expect to give a women just as much emotionally as they would if they were working a full time job.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Some points sounds about right. I will appreciate the gesture. You didn't have to do that, but you did and thank you. It won't be the deciding factor, but I'll remember that.

[Sour-rose]

Any guy who does this does score points as a gentlemen and I appreciate his soul. <3

[AmyHew1tt]

It's just a polite thing for anyone to do, and I would certainly appreciate it.

[melanieeeB]

Doesn't matter, I open doors too, it's just a polite thing to do

[Nikki1989]

It is a nice touch. Good manners are always a bonus.

[ilikesnow]

it's a nice act of kindness and it shows the guy has good manners.

[Rebel-Angel]

it shows that he wants to care for her to me

[Anonymous]

it should be expected but since it isn't anymore, it is always surprising when they do. sadly.

[WowwGirl]

I like having them open for me in any situation

[Haha456]

what kinda guy actually opens door for girls anymore? do you really think young guys are like you?

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, I do, and I spend much time around a college campus.

[annabananna]

Guys would do that all the time at my college. I graduated four years ago.

[Haha456]

@annabananna

Yea continue lying

[OlderAndWiser]

@annabananna and I aren't lying. Perhaps you simply hang out with a different class of guys. I spend time with fraternity men on campus and we teach them to be gentlemen!

[annabananna]

Lol I have no reason to lie about that.

[illalwaysloveyoumore]

I think it is very attractive and chivalrous for a guy to act like a gentlemen, as long as he doesn't try and massively over-do it.

[Anonymous]

Score or lose? Really? You’re gonna keep tally lines in your behavior. How many tally lines do u need to get this or that?
Simply so, a guy is to just be nice period. So kind things and gestures, period.

[OlderAndWiser]

"Scoring points" is not intendd to be taken literally and everyone else who has responded understood that.

[Animallover3742]

It's fine but it's not going to make THAT big of a difference.

[douride2]

If he opens a door it's simply a nice gesture.

[sheenagwapa]

i find it to be really attractive

[WhitneySnow]

I think it’s really sweet

[Agape93]

Doesn't matter to me

[Quackthulu2]

I’m back bitch!

[Agape93]

... you bitch I fucking missed you!

[Agape93]

Lol welcome back to hell

[Quackthulu2]

Okay, but who the fuck made you a mod?

[Agape93]

No idea lol but I'm making it useful

[Quackthulu2]

It sure is fun… tell you piss off the admins too much. Although that’s fun too. I can’t DM you because I’m only level 1.

[Agape93]

That's ok, add me!
Oh may make you happy to learn, Emma lost her mod status lol

[Quackthulu2]

Always good to hear… I remember when I lost mine for abuse of power… good times.

[Agape93]

Lol she did for that, multiple accounts and harassment xD

[Quackthulu2]

I’m trying to behave this time around. Even started seeing my therapist again. Don’t worry, I’m still a sarcastic bitch.

[Quackthulu2]

Did you accept my request?

[Agape93]

Didn't get one

I would expect nothing less lol but I glad you're doing better.

[Quackthulu2]

Just sent another…. I’ll give you the details in private if we can get this shit working. How are things here though? I haven’t seen a single dick since I came back, so that feels like an improvement.

[Agape93]

Sounds good!
Yeah this isn't the first time this has happened, I have no idea wtf is going on with it

Yeap, Priya, cupcake and I have gone on a routine mini genocide of them lol but by and large things are going alright. Sites still a shit show but that's expected

[Quackthulu2]

I should hit level 2 before long, maybe that will help.
Wouldn’t be the same if the admins actually did something to help. I don’t remember most of the people on here. You @WowwGirl. @Gwenhwyfar who I see deactivated a while ago.

[Agape93]

Wow girl is here more now, she had a kid not long ago. But haven't seen Gwen in nearly a year I think

Should help yeah

[Quackthulu2]

A kid? Wow, I’m sorry to hear that. Judging by her profile pic she still looks pretty good though. But yeah, it was probably about a year when I left last. Changed jobs a few times, finally graduated, and got myself a real job. Like with good pay, medical, dental, and vision insurance and a mother fucking retirement plan. Bad news is the job is in California… so I’m stuck here a little longer.

[Agape93]

Lol hey she's happy, and it's not ours. So I'm good lol

Awesome congratulations!!
Sucks that it's in Cali, I'm stuck here too if it's any consolation. What do you do now?

[Quackthulu2]

Not giving too many details, but it’s a local government district under Cal EPA and CARB. We regulate air quality. I get to deal with all the fun stuff like lead, landfills, and asbestos.

[Agape93]

Oh joy lol but i won't pry in public. But jokes aside, I'm proud of you

[Quackthulu2]

Thank you. I am too. It’s a long way away from working graveyard shift security.

[Agape93]

As you should be. You busted your ass and earned your pay. :)

[Quackthulu2]

$26.50 an hour, plus expenses, company car, phone, computer, and credit card. And so much freaking PTO.

[Agape93]

Goddamn hon, yeah safe to say that's a good job

[Quackthulu2]

Still on probation till August (one year) but they are kinda short staffed so I’m not too worried. And the HR rep who called to let me know I got the job and check my references said I was number three out of like 25 people on her list. So im not TOO worried. But still have to behave.

[Agape93]

Hey you got this:) I believe in you

[Quackthulu2]

Hands down the best job I have had. Great people I’m working with, none of that customer service bullshit. Occasionally people will have a problem with me being there so I smile while leaving, write my report, send it up the chain of command and laugh knowing they are getting a violation.

[Agape93]

Lol a bit of schadenfreude to lighten the day. I'm very happy for you:) you deserve it

[Quackthulu2]

For sure, but ttly. I’m off to bed, gotta get up early to go hiking before there are too many people on my trail. Fucking mountain bikers.

[Agape93]

Lol I feel you. Well be safe, enjoy and have fun! Probably should too, it's almost 130am here lol

Also Priya says welcome back as well. She doesn't know you but that doesn't matter to her lol

[Quackthulu2]

Yeah, go get some damn sleep.

[Agape93]

Lol will do. Night hon, welcome back:)

[WowwGirl]

@Quackthulu2 awww hugs, how ya doing buddy

[Quackthulu2]

@WowwGirl Substantially better. Also I got a 12 gauge bullpup

[WowwGirl]

@Quackthulu2 that's good happy for you

[WowwGirl]

@Agape93 you're a moderator... does this mean we can't be friends anymore?

[WowwGirl]

They don't like wowgirl

[Quackthulu2]

@WowwGirl When I was a mod it didn’t stop me from talking shit… although they did kinda take that away from me.

[WowwGirl]

@Quackthulu2 you were a horrible Rouge mod lmao no offense.

[WowwGirl]

When mods go wild

[Agape93]

Lol hon don't worry about it, mod doesn't change shit except what I can do on here. They don't dictate who I'm friends with

[WowwGirl]

Don t tell on me lol

[Agape93]

Lol I won't

[OlderAndWiser]

@WowwGirl I know of at least one other moderator who feels very favorably towards you!

[WowwGirl]

Well that wasn't counting you sir

[OlderAndWiser]

@WowwGirl :) :) :)

[WowwGirl]

Hugs

[OlderAndWiser]

@WowwGirl Ditto!

[elizamichale1]

He definitely scores