Girls, what do you think of a guy who holds doors open for you?

[Anonymous]

[Cuteusernamehere]

I don't know where you found this one but leave here there! I can not believe any woman would say that to you.
With the exception of the crazy few most women appreciate a man that opens doors, pulls out chairs, Orders you a drink etc. it show assertiveness, confidence and attentiveness to the women which boils down to real genuine interest. I've never hear a women complain in a long term relationship "he pays to much attention to me or he's to polite to me". My husband does all these things for me still after almost 20 years. Yes I can open the fooor for myself and carry my own bags, obviously I do it all the time when he's not around.
As for the full time job, how did she think you were going to pay for taking her out?
Don't stop being a gentleman because of one nut job. It's not sexist as some will have you think, it's called good manners and being polite. My own 6 year old son will hold doors open for girls whenever we go out in public and enjoys it! We appreciate it 😊

[SarahsSummer]

It’s almost like two different women are responding to your texts. I always appreciate a guy holding open or getting the door to the restaurant for me. To answer her question of “who does that?” Mature, chivalrous guys do that. but if you are not allowing a girl out of the car until you get out, walk around and open her door, that is weird. If I were you, I’d move on from this rude chickie.

[layla1234]

I almost don't believe this is legit, if it is and it's not pulled off the internet for silly conversation on this app the girl is probably using that as a excuse to bounce because let's face it being a gentleman is never a problem so keep up the good work the next woman will appreciate it. Don't let snobby chick like her break your confidence.

[Jo1991]

I would have thought it's polite. But I guess every girl is different so you have to find out what they like and don't like. But in this case if she hadn't said anything about it before then that's really unfair. Also it seems a bit extreme to break up with someone over something like that

[Hilltellall]

He lose man that chick doesn't deserve your time or consideration.
In my experience girls love to have the door opened for them. I don't know why this chick is so goofy.

[Annie_Mosity]

Erm... I would find it weird and annoying if you kept opening the car door for me... that is a bit much. I'd feel you were making a spectacle of me and I don't like shit like that.

Holding normal doors open as you approach them together? No worries... I do that for people all the time, it's just a nice polite thing to do.

[missthonac]

boy i feel so bad. who ever this girl is, you dont deserve her. this shows that chivalry isn't dead and that you are very sweet and respectful and she just doesn't fully appreciate it. drop her dude and she could have at least found a better excuse but i mean cmon what a bitch

[blubblubblub]

probably just using that as a way to soften up the following part about the 'just wanting to go cause you paid', or has other things holding her back. or just had a bad day or sth, cause she sounded fine before. either way, nothing wrong with holding doors, it's quiet a gentleman-ly, and a sweet thing to do.

[witherwing]

I agree it's absolutely annoying if someone starts to carry my bags, open car doors etc for me like I can't do it myself. But to hold a door open is common courtesy to do for anyone, strangers or people you know.

[Goodwifie]

I went on a date with my husband and we got to the restaurant, I stood at the door and my husband said to me "what are going to stand there like an idiot " 🙄.
Lucky for him he has since lifted his game.

[LalaIbby90]

What the actual fuck?
No wonder there are no more gentlemen in the world!!!
So immature. Bloody hell.
How is this even real?

[arieanya]

She dumb yo. You deserve better and you’ll find a girl that will cherish you for the gentleman you are

[ShaunaM95]

I think it's really romantic! My boyfriend opens doors and holds them for me all of the time when we go on dates. It's very gentleman-like.

[cinderelli]

this can't be real lol.. I can open the doors myself but if I guy does that for me.. I'd be like aww.. he's such a gentleman and I'd just wanna melt in his arms xD if that makes sense

[fauchelevent]

I think it's just being polite? I hold doors open for my partner or friends or even strangers, it's just basic courtesy

[Precise]

Yo i suggest that you should talk to that bitch anymore, just saying.

[taleswapper]

IT's unlikely that this is a real conversation, but let's assume it is. It's a lie. She's not breaking up with you because you hold the door open. She just doesn't want to say why.

[Nina12345]

its cute , not when my dad does it lol but you get me.

[kla097]

stupid little bitch should be grateful and not leave him hanging. at cancel the Date

[Rescue22]

If that is a real text conversation you (or someone else) had, I wouldn't have even responded to somebody that ungrateful.

[derboy]

It's pretty good, but it does depend to some degree why she's there in the first place and where her sights are set for, at the "end"of the evening?

[harryish]

this question should be reached to all the girls on GaG who asks where good men are.

[noraaenots]

Not enough of us do this

[noraaenots]

You're a bitch, just saying

[noraaenots]

Shes*

[Sylvesterstweets]

is this a joke?

[Asker]

No :/

[Sylvesterstweets]

If it isn't, I'm just speechless. Sorry. Guys who holds open doors are considerate and kind no matter who he opens for a girl/guy, an elderly or a child. It is still impressive. I hold the doors open no matter who.

[Asker]

What about other acts like giving you his jacket, or pulling out the chair for you? Do you think it's too much, or do you appreciate it?

[Sylvesterstweets]

I dont expect it, but if he does it just because he felt he wanted to show me his way of caring and being so present in the moment, making memories of the lasting kind. It is sweet and kind.

[mooky06]

WOW just wow D: