Girls, how do you view the act of a guy opening your car door for you on a date?

[Still-alive]

You're on a date with a guy, he drives you to a place and he walks all the way around to your car door and opens it for you. How do you view this gesture?

Romantic

Sweet

Unnecessary

Infantalizing "i can open it myself thank you. im not a baby"

Too much effort

Expected

I have different thoughts about this (say what you think)

[Bethany22]

I voted sweet. It's really nice and considerate :D It shows he's not yet become cynical about women. I think that nowadays, with the MeToo movement, you don't need to start worrying that a guy is superficially charming to cover up abusive behavior coming down the road in the same way you used to.

[Sour-rose]

Sweet. many times a dude opens the door for me. I tell them thank you every time because... i see your action, i appreciate it, my guy. by the way, these are total strangers, and they just... do it. So at least I should thank them, they could have just whistled at me while walking into the establishment.

[ShellyB]

It is sweet. I wouldn't want it to go overboard, like if my hand is already on the door handle and he's like "no no no" and comes all the way around the car, that would be a little weird and maybe annoying. But if it's natural in how you walk up to the car, it's sweet and welcome. JMO!

[Red-Blaze]

Sweet, like candy in the back of a van :) they really want you to get the hell mocing already
I just hope I get my chance to do the same to them, to make sure its done from just being sweet and not something diffrent that for me makes it some what uncomftruble when it happens

[menina]

I honestly think it's unnecessary. I would thank him, but I would also let him that he didn't have to open it for me.

[Still-alive]

is it turn on or a turn off for you at all?

[menina]

*let him know

[menina]

It's a turn off, but not the biggest one.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think sweet & romantic describes it. Any other word would be gentleman.

[Lucy68]

Sweet, romantic, chivalrous, and unexpected honestly

[LovingJo]

Sweet, and that he's brought up with respect and manners. 💯❤️

[Ms_Facesitter]

Sweet, yes of course it's sweet. I'll definitely remember that.

[petitedollbabee]

Unnecessary but I appreciate the gesture anyway.

[Still-alive]

is it turn on or a turn off for you at all?

[petitedollbabee]

Neither, it doesn’t make me feel any sort of way sexually.

[Razp_Sorbet]

I would find that so uncomfortable and awkward

[Still-alive]

How come?

[Razp_Sorbet]

Would make me feel like a child, is he gonna strap me in too and give me a juice box so I don't scream the car down?

[Still-alive]

Do you like chivalry at all from guys in dating?

[Razp_Sorbet]

Of course. But chivalry is really just basic human decency and respect.

[Still-alive]

Ok so what acts do you like on dates? How about opening a door for you at a place allowing you to walk in?

[Razp_Sorbet]

If he got to the door first sure. But I would do that too. I would do it for anyone who was near the door. Basic human decency

[douride2]

It's unnecessary in my opinion.

[Still-alive]

is it turn on or a turn off for you at all?

[douride2]

It is neither. It's a nice gesture though.

[TacosRAwesome]

Kinda weird and confusing.

[Still-alive]

Why confusing?

[TacosRAwesome]

I don't think I ever had it happen to me. I usually just open my own car door.

[Stressyalaire]

Sweet. Consider me impressed if you do that.

[xxmacky]

Makes me think chivalry isn’t dead.