Unsure? He like me or not?

[Anonymous]

So after me and my ex broke up about a few years later I slept with his cousin. (We shall call him Dean) I don’t regret it. Fast forward to a few years later. We live in different states and have continued to talk to each other as friends, we do send nudes and shit and we are there for each other when we’re having a bad day. I asked Dean if he feels bad that we still talk to each other even though I’m his cousin’s ex. He said no and that he guess his cousin had a chance to be a good man. We have tried to stop communicating but it doesn’t happen for long. The only excuse he gives me is that things won’t work out because of the distance and his son is in his state so he won’t leave. Does he like me or not? He also won’t say if he likes me or not.

Yes, he likes me

No, does not

[DaisyM23]

i mean obviously i'm not getting the whole picture so i could be wrong, but it does sound like he likes you but i respect that he puts his son first

[Zandoval]

Are you banging other dudes while doing this?

[Asker]

We both have seen other people and have been in relationships and when we are dating other people, we don’t cross boundaries

[Zandoval]

So you continued to sleep with other dudes while sending this guy nudes?

[Zandoval]

This is confusing. Mind if I message you privately so I can understand the context of this? Or you can explain here if you'd like...

[Asker]

Yeah and?

[Zandoval]

I see. Cool. It makes sense. Leave it.

[Asker]

Now you are confusing me. What do you mean leave it?

[Zandoval]

So you like this guy and want to be with him, so much so that you are sending him nudes and whatnot, but at the same time are sleeping with other guys?