Polls: Guy's Behavior

My fiancé keeps criticizing my body. He says I need to lose more weight and get laser and do something different with my hairstyle, etc. But then he also desires and wants me physically. We both don’t believe in pre-marital but he has stared and touched and expressed what he wants when he is in the mood. Not sure what to make of this. When he criticizes basically everything, it seems like he isn’t attracted to me and doesn’t want me but then he also acts very different when he is in the mood and he still wants to marry me so it is very confusing. I am working on myself as much as I can — I work out every other day at 5am, I follow the calorie deficits, I am working on laser — but he feels like I’m not doing it fast enough. And I don’t think I’m hideous or he wouldn’t want to marry me and I wouldn’t have multiple people interested but he still berates perpetually and at this point, I am starting to hate myself so just trying to get some clarity on his behavior to try and rationalize. Is this a normal behavior?

My best friend is 34 and I am 48.

He sometimes falls asleep while texting me on Whatsapp. We always text 4-5 hours each night from 10pm-3am. He said he is so tired and I should be flattered that he forces himself to chat with me as he only sleeps 4 hours everyday. He said he can be so tired that he even falls sleeps while riding his motorbike.

He has been unemployed for 7 years and only plays computer games, watches videos or plays guitar everyday.

Should I be upset with him for falling asleep while chatting with me? He has fallen asleep like 6-7 times in 7 years so I asked him to stop forcing himself already and go find someone who won't make him fall asleep to chat with.

Soo most of y'all know this but here is more information

* I was in the office getting my interview done and he knock on the door to get a cup off the desk ( so weird right )
* Then when I went for my orientation he was sitting there looking right at me. We eyed each other the first time
* He offered to train me
* We talk here and there
* We kissed
* Made love
* Hug
* Cuddle
* Held hands
* He comforts me
* He explains things to me
* He opens the door for me
* And etc

Like today he opened the door for me he said hi to me he gave me a ride back to where I stay at... and he said he couldn't talk / hangout this week.


He said he is not interested in me
But.. he did say I can fulfill his affectionate
But he does get jealous af when I'm around another man and he won't quit eyeing at me / protecting me

I've recently started hanging out with this guy I think I might like. For context, I'm 17F and he's 17M. We hang out pretty much every weekend, and during the week, too. We have a class together and talk in the mornings and after school. I'd say I interact with him 16+ hours a week.

Every time we hang out, or even when we stop by each other in the halls and talk to each other, he always hugs me afterward. It's not like a side hug, either, it's a full-on squeeze hug, every time. Even if it was like.. a 5-minute conversation. I swear I've gotten over 50 hugs, just this week. (It's Friday while posting.)

Is he clingy? Touch deprived? Or does he just like me?

Ask in the replies if you have any questions, and I'll respond as soon as I can.

This guy and I have been friends for a few months now and lately we got closer. We have been hanging out some and we text all day everyday. Last night we stayed up all night talking and he kept asking me deep questions about myself and then gave me advice on some things. Would you do that with a girl you just saw as a friend?

*In a romantic sense, but I sense they're not serious.

I don't mean in like a pedo way, I mean within 1-5 years of age difference. My guy friends say they would feel weird dating a girl who is older than them. What do you think?

Will a guy compliment a women if he doesn’t really mean it? Especially if he knows that sex is off the table with this woman.

Why do guys choose ‘girl characters’ as their player?

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I see perfectly beautiful girl with brown and black hair and they dye it blonde it don't even suit them. It don't make sense to me

Or sensitive, but I'd say gentle is the right word here.

What I'm talking about is they act all tough, sometimes to the point of seeming arrogant (even macho), talk sh! te and when they go on about sex topic they bolster about rough sex and the number of girls they've had, but once you're with them/date them and it's behind closed doors, they turn into these cuddly, mushy, gentlemans... it's crazy :D

My friend says most guys are naturally p*ssies like this. xD

I've had 2 boyfriends and both were like this so this is what I'm also coming from.

My ex was the sweetest on our first dates, he was kinda big as in tall and heavy but not exactly overweight (simply looked like a teddy bear) but was gentler and softer with me than I could have ever expected. Sh! te, I miss him.