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If my boyfriend doesn’t find me physically attractive anymore, does that mean he is cheating on me?
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I'm not sure what would logically connect not finding you attractive to cheating. That's a huge leap. While it is obviously a devastating feeling to not be attractive to someone you care for anymore, I'm not sure why people so often feel the need to find a reason behind it. In almost all cases it literally is what it is. He liked you once, but now he doesn't. It brutal and sad but true nonetheless.
What is far more likely than cheating is that either you two have lost your personal connection, so all attraction period has been lost, or he thinks you are out of shape/don't care about health or trying to be the vest version of yourself anymore. That doesn't make it true, but that is my guess for explaining what is happening.
Or the other option, which is still more likely than cheating, is that he never actually liked you as a person and only used you for sex. Maybe he only thought your body was hot, and now he wants someone younger or something. It's awful, but this is in the running for being the most likely reason.
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It doesn't mean he's cheating. For some guys, it might increase the probability that they will, but not most. There were times when my girlfriend let herself go and I wasn't as attracted to her, but I never cheated on her because I loved her.
Physical attraction is important, but it's not everything.
If you're concerned that he's cheating, I can tell you this. Most guys aren't very good at hiding it, so if he is cheating on you, you'll catch him eventually.
The reason I say that is because when our dicks are overriding our brains, we fuck up
How do you know he doesn't find you attractive anymore? If that were indeed the case, he'd probably be an asshole toward you or just plain out break up with you. Most (okay I don't know if most, but I know a lot), don't usually want to hurt women's feelings. They wanna spare them because they hate seeing a woman hurt, especially someone they are going out with, but stupid them thinks of stupid solutions so instead of being honest and thinking that you (a matured woman of grace), can handle it, they'll usually take the coward's way out and yeah, start being a direct asshole to you, become more distant, or yes, maybe cheat on you. But that's something that you have to investigate yourself, either through how he is acting, rather than what he is saying. Heck, even can be what he is saying... if he is less affectionate! Just ask and if he's a decent person, he MAY just be honest about things!
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No it doesn't mean he's cheating, his taste in women could've just changed. Sometimes you crave something else, your appetite changes. This sounds like one of those times, but I could be wrong. It just depends on what's been happening and what's been said.
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Let’s be for real, yes interior does matter but let’s face it the first time we see and judge a person is by their physical appearance, but he is with you for a reason. Cheating I don’t think so but I would say it would make the relationship bumpy since I am not a guy but in my opinion they care a lot about physical appearance but the final choice will be based on personality wise.
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That depends on if he believes in commitment of a relationship.
If he doesn't he was never you boyfriend, and frankly you should just drop him like a rock as he will you.
Unfortunately in the toxic 'modern' western culture a lot of people are extremely self-centered and care only about their own feelings. Most don't even beleive in the vow of marriage anymore.Theses people are in reality incapable of any kind of relationship and need to be avoided.
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Not necessarily. Have you asked him "why"? The most common reason among men is seeing their partner's shape change, usually weight gain or weight loss. It could also be a general appearance change. Why don't you find out the specifics instead of assuming he's cheating? Maybe it's not all about the physical, either.
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possibly could mean that but not entierly but mite be a good chance that he could be cheating but he mite leave you first then find someone but there's a 60 maybe 50 percent chance it could be that he's cheating
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Over time, interests change. Time to sit down and start adapting to change, to stay together.
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So long as you make sure his belly is full and balls are emptied before he leaves the house each day he will never cheat on you
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Not necessarily. Why doesn’t he find you attractive did you change (weight is the most common for this)? If he told you this maybe he is just letting you know he doesn’t like the change but could still love you.
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There is not enough context to properly answer this. Are you assuming or did he tell you? Is it because you let yourself go or because he only likes women under 30? Did he change?
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Where are you getting the idea that he isn't attracted to you anymore? Did he tell you that?
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No necessarily, but it does mean that it’s time for the relationship to end.
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All depends on his mood I say ….
And how the relationship is between them
He might have fallen out of love with her….
But that doesn’t mean he’s cheating - 1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Usually the thought process is opposite. My husband is cheating, does that mean he doesn’t find me attract?
How do you know he doesn’t find you attractive?
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It depends if he is an asshole or not
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No. You could have changed and his taste did not.
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yes. yes it does. i don't believe the poll...
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Not exactly. If he told you that, that means he wants to break up.
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It could just mean he is bored or you stopped looking the way you did when he met you.
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It means he's not your boyfriend
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this..
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No it does not mean that.
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