I can agree. Even though mines is already big I just think it looks huge because I have a narrow shape because I'm suppose to be small like my brother and sister but I just ended up gaining weight. So I'm pretty sure it won't look so huge if I was tall, wide, and big.
I am with you all the way. I like small breasts A, B, possibly a C. But reading your account I see your problem from the other end and the disadvantages of big breasts,,, thank you !!!
Thank you for your opinion. I know a lot of guys that likes that size as well, I mean yeah they like huge ones too but still prefer small, if I was a guy I would prefer small and average size as well. And you're welcome! Nothing good about having huge breasts unless you're the type that likes attention from guys, but even if a girl does, it's not really worth it.
The fact that I'm not tall and I'm not wide looking because of my weight that's the only reason it looks so huge on me because I'm only 4'11. I think if I were like my friends who are tall, big, and wide its possible that it wouldn't look so huge. Some girls who are a D will still say they wish theirs were bigger so I agree with you about proportions.
Thank you! And yes same here. I honestly didn't know it will be so bad. I always knew about back pains but the more it grew. More problems has happened.
I also think they are very attractive anywhere from huge to dead flat. Different sizes look nice in different ways. Petite girls are cute, and think the cute youthful feel is just as hot as the kind of feel big ones have. Size doesn’t matter to me. For me, bigger is better mostly for hair length. lol Hair can be sexy too, and I’m hoping for a girl who likes having super long hair more than one with super big boobs. rofl
Wait... M cup? I didn't even know that was possible to have natural breasts that big. Sorry, but you saying that isn't gonna make me feel any less secure. I'd be happy even with a B. I just want boobs. But I'm basically flat.
I've got one friend who is a DD. I am jealous. I mean, I don't want as big as her, as she sometimes complains about them being too big (That or it's because she's just a whingy pom) I just want around the same size as my girlfriend. And I know that anything too big will get in the way. I just wanna look SEXY~
Tbh it's ways you can still look sexy. One of my best friends has an A cup and she has the best body ever and I'm honestly jealous of her because she's fit and every thing is toned even her butt. She even does modeling now.
I honestly don't care if I have no boobs, I was already born with health problems, I overcame a rare disease that gave me second degree burns and hair loss for 3 years and now I'm having major problems because of my boobs. So if I had a chance I would choose to be a A cup.
But I understand what you are saying and at times I will get upset because my friends are lucky getting a guys attention without having a big butt or boobs. I tell my friends all the time. While they're acting jealous because I have big boobs and I'm jealous of them at times.
If I read your question correctly: I prefer guys not looking at me. That's why I look in the mens big and tall section to find sweaters, jackets, and shirts that will hide my boobs. I don't like the attention. Seeing and hearing guys saying " fat and overweight women are unattractive " or " I will never date a girl who is fat " So what makes me so different? I weigh 200 pounds at 4'11 why are guys still trying to flirt with me? Maybe it's all in my head but I constantly think it's because of my boobs. And what do you mean? About your last statement there are worse reasons?
You know what sucks? When you have rather smaller boobs with bad shape and noticeable difference. Can't even go braless so implants are still a go for me.
I understand what you are saying. But realize that not only do many guys love smaller, but most of us are aware of the size differences and it does not bother us at all.
I do not doubt that you feel it looks terrible. And to many it probably would. But to many others, it is perfectly normal and actually gives the gal something that makes her stand out in a good way to an interested guy. I would not be bothered at all if a girlfriend had what you describe and would be happy with her going braless.
I understand what you are saying. I really do. I just wanted to point out having huge breasts isn't as something to feel proud of, but I don't know if you will have the same problems as I do or other women who has large breasts. So you might be fine since it's implants.. But I can relate because my body shape is bad for my size as well nothing is cute about having grandma boobs. At first I laughed but now it's just sad when your boobs are compared to a watermelon or a sack full of potatoes.
No I can't to risky, I already came close to losing my life once due to a rare disease that can easily come back if I take the surgery so this time I don't know if I will get lucky again. So It's to much of a huge risk.
Another problem is finding the right top. Especially with button up shirts. Mine just keep popping open or I have to buy a shirt twice my size and not the right fit
Right exactly! The only way I can wear button up shirts is in the men's section but I have to still find tbe biggest size. Because lately mens tshirts and sweaters are starting to feel tight and it's uncomfortable for me.
I can’t go to the men’s section because next thing you know, I’m wearing the exact shirt the boy in my class is wearing and that makes me uncomfortable. I just stick to wearing them in cold weather s so I could wrap a sweater around my neck and pull it to cover my chest so when the shirt unbuttons, it won’t be visible
Tbh I don't mind having small boobs, it's really painful going through all of the pains I mentioned everyday and I can't do anything about, I can't even take any medication for pain because I'll get sick. If girls with small boobs goes through pains as well? In that case I didn't even know that.
Thank you for posting this. I’m short with big boobs and a butt and clothes never fit right. Anything cute looks slutty and covering up makes me look fat. Also, other women are the worst. I expect it from guys, but women are awful.
You're welcome!, I'm short as well ( 4'11 ) and yes exactly, I honestly gave up either I go to the women section for older women or the men's section. I would rather get stares from guys than getting ugly and mean stares from women.
No it's really nothing I can do. I'm accepting it but just want other girls and women know to be glad that you don't have bigger breasts because it's to many problems you will have to deal with.
Yes it's really something no girl or woman should deal with. Everyday I hope that when I do have children I hope my daughter doesn't take my gene from my dad mother side of the family.
2 is the worst for me, but I use baby powder to soothe the pain. Also vapor rub. Yes, at first my parents thought it's possible that it could be my weight but then my dad forgot that it's hereditary because his mother had big boobs and her other female relatives on her side had big boobs especially his grandmother hers were the biggest, so that's where I got it from. Mines just started growing at an early age. I wish I was DDD.
You're 4'11 and rocking an M cup? You should at least you'll proud if you have to suffer through all that because men are going to love you as much as women love big penises.
Nothing great about them. Every guy that came to me I didn't believe that they liked me. Only reason I believed my boyfriend because the men's winter jacket I used hid the fact that I had huge breasts and only thing that was bad was because it made me look like I weighed almost 300 pounds. Also going through pain all day and everyday isn't something I want to go through for the rest of my life and it seems like it's heading that way because I was going through all of this since I was 13.
People are often attracted to people based on their physical traits first and then they get to know them as a person later. No need to get hung up on the fact that people find you attractive.
And by the way bbws are popular. I *like* fat women..
Right!!! I try to tell girls I knew in school and even their friends from college but sadly it's like everything is going through one ear and out the other and the only thing they want to hear is the attention I get from guys.
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I haveard of women having these problems which can wreck havoc on ones life.
I can agree. Even though mines is already big I just think it looks huge because I have a narrow shape because I'm suppose to be small like my brother and sister but I just ended up gaining weight. So I'm pretty sure it won't look so huge if I was tall, wide, and big.
I am with you all the way. I like small breasts A, B, possibly a C. But reading your account I see your problem from the other end and the disadvantages of big breasts,,, thank you !!!
Thank you for your opinion. I know a lot of guys that likes that size as well, I mean yeah they like huge ones too but still prefer small, if I was a guy I would prefer small and average size as well.
And you're welcome! Nothing good about having huge breasts unless you're the type that likes attention from guys, but even if a girl does, it's not really worth it.
Women are beautiful, but nature makes you suffer sometimes.
Exactly!
"My cup size is a "M" cup."
Well, there you go! "D" is one thing, "M" is something else!!! And on a petite frame, "D" would look freakish.
It is a question of proportions, rather than absolute size per se.
The fact that I'm not tall and I'm not wide looking because of my weight that's the only reason it looks so huge on me because I'm only 4'11. I think if I were like my friends who are tall, big, and wide its possible that it wouldn't look so huge.
Some girls who are a D will still say they wish theirs were bigger so I agree with you about proportions.
Great Take!! I've experienced everything you said from being on the big side of things
Thank you! And yes same here. I honestly didn't know it will be so bad. I always knew about back pains but the more it grew. More problems has happened.
yeah all the girls who wish they were bigger how no idea how lucky they really are!
Omg, no words
lol wtf.
Kids say the darndest things
Hahahaha kids are so funny.
That's great.
I also think they are very attractive anywhere from huge to dead flat. Different sizes look nice in different ways. Petite girls are cute, and think the cute youthful feel is just as hot as the kind of feel big ones have. Size doesn’t matter to me. For me, bigger is better mostly for hair length. lol Hair can be sexy too, and I’m hoping for a girl who likes having super long hair more than one with super big boobs. rofl
Wait... M cup? I didn't even know that was possible to have natural breasts that big.
Sorry, but you saying that isn't gonna make me feel any less secure. I'd be happy even with a B. I just want boobs. But I'm basically flat.
Yes but it's not really common..
Well wanting a B cup is fine. This was more for girls who wants really huge ones like bigger than a D cup.
I've got one friend who is a DD. I am jealous. I mean, I don't want as big as her, as she sometimes complains about them being too big (That or it's because she's just a whingy pom)
I just want around the same size as my girlfriend. And I know that anything too big will get in the way. I just wanna look SEXY~
Tbh it's ways you can still look sexy. One of my best friends has an A cup and she has the best body ever and I'm honestly jealous of her because she's fit and every thing is toned even her butt. She even does modeling now.
I have a below average butt. And my body doesn't seem to understand how to put on muscle.
It takes time. Even for my friend. But your body will get use to it and soon you will notice changes.
Lol but I'm lazy.
Well grass is always greener on the other side.
If you go from all boobs to no boobs then you will attract the lolicons or boobless support legion.
Or just see the look other guys make at other girls and feel angry for some reason.
I honestly don't care if I have no boobs, I was already born with health problems, I overcame a rare disease that gave me second degree burns and hair loss for 3 years and now I'm having major problems because of my boobs. So if I had a chance I would choose to be a A cup.
But I understand what you are saying and at times I will get upset because my friends are lucky getting a guys attention without having a big butt or boobs. I tell my friends all the time. While they're acting jealous because I have big boobs and I'm jealous of them at times.
Yeah sometimes you just need to take a laid back attitude.
Do you prefer guys not looking you because you are boobless and buttless or do you prefer them to try hitting on you because of your boobs and butts?
Coming from a guy, there are worse reasons for a guy to get into a relationship with a girl than her being an all boob knock out.
If I read your question correctly: I prefer guys not looking at me. That's why I look in the mens big and tall section to find sweaters, jackets, and shirts that will hide my boobs. I don't like the attention. Seeing and hearing guys saying " fat and overweight women are unattractive " or " I will never date a girl who is fat "
So what makes me so different? I weigh 200 pounds at 4'11 why are guys still trying to flirt with me? Maybe it's all in my head but I constantly think it's because of my boobs.
And what do you mean? About your last statement there are worse reasons?
You're 4'11 and weight 200lbs? Hmm... Yeah those guys must have a fetish or something. It's not the boobs.
That I am pretty sure.
It's because your belly is growing into pregnant sized territory. Normally that would make your boobs less attractive and guys tend to avoid that.
Haven't thought about that and thank you do much for opinions and I understand now, thank you.
You know what sucks? When you have rather smaller boobs with bad shape and noticeable difference. Can't even go braless so implants are still a go for me.
I understand what you are saying. But realize that not only do many guys love smaller, but most of us are aware of the size differences and it does not bother us at all.
@Red_Arrow But it looks terrible. Without bra at least. Can't feel confident and nobody likes insecure people.
I do not doubt that you feel it looks terrible. And to many it probably would. But to many others, it is perfectly normal and actually gives the gal something that makes her stand out in a good way to an interested guy. I would not be bothered at all if a girlfriend had what you describe and would be happy with her going braless.
I understand what you are saying. I really do. I just wanted to point out having huge breasts isn't as something to feel proud of, but I don't know if you will have the same problems as I do or other women who has large breasts. So you might be fine since it's implants.. But I can relate because my body shape is bad for my size as well nothing is cute about having grandma boobs. At first I laughed but now it's just sad when your boobs are compared to a watermelon or a sack full of potatoes.
I know a girl who has A K cup bra size and almost everything you listed here applies to her. She says her life is hell right now
I'm sorry that she's going through this, because it reallu sucks and yes I totally agree with her.
*really.
Yeah she hates herself for it even though it’s not her fault
I understand how she feels..
Holy shit, you’re her size? I can’t imagine. Sorry :/
Just by two cup sizes more even though a K is still big. But I would rather be that size than a M. And yeah it's really depressing
Wait. You’re even bigger than her?
Yes. My cup size is a M.
Have you spoken to a doctor about a reduction?
Did you read the take? Obviously not
@MsMusic ok
very first paragraph ;)
@MsMusic oh thank you😝
No I can't to risky, I already came close to losing my life once due to a rare disease that can easily come back if I take the surgery so this time I don't know if I will get lucky again. So It's to much of a huge risk.
Another problem is finding the right top. Especially with button up shirts. Mine just keep popping open or I have to buy a shirt twice my size and not the right fit
Right exactly! The only way I can wear button up shirts is in the men's section but I have to still find tbe biggest size. Because lately mens tshirts and sweaters are starting to feel tight and it's uncomfortable for me.
I can’t go to the men’s section because next thing you know, I’m wearing the exact shirt the boy in my class is wearing and that makes me uncomfortable. I just stick to wearing them in cold weather s so I could wrap a sweater around my neck and pull it to cover my chest so when the shirt unbuttons, it won’t be visible
Women with small boobs want bigger boobs and women with bigger boobs want small boobs. There's also plenty of reasons you don't want small boobs
Tbh I don't mind having small boobs, it's really painful going through all of the pains I mentioned everyday and I can't do anything about, I can't even take any medication for pain because I'll get sick.
If girls with small boobs goes through pains as well? In that case I didn't even know that.
Yes I do get pain, probably not as much as someone with larger breasts but I still get it
Well in that case, I guess we all go through them probably just not as much as women with bigger breasts. Thank you.
Thank you for posting this. I’m short with big boobs and a butt and clothes never fit right. Anything cute looks slutty and covering up makes me look fat. Also, other women are the worst. I expect it from guys, but women are awful.
You're welcome!, I'm short as well ( 4'11 ) and yes exactly, I honestly gave up either I go to the women section for older women or the men's section.
I would rather get stares from guys than getting ugly and mean stares from women.
It's a natural gift from God that comes free of cost to increase ur cost. U can't do nothing about it.
No it's really nothing I can do. I'm accepting it but just want other girls and women know to be glad that you don't have bigger breasts because it's to many problems you will have to deal with.
My mom is an H I guess. And she suffers a lot. I'm glad I didn't get that end of the deal.
Yes it's really something no girl or woman should deal with. Everyday I hope that when I do have children I hope my daughter doesn't take my gene from my dad mother side of the family.
2 and 14 irk me so. And wow u were DDD at 13? I was a C cup then. Im DDD now at 23
2 is the worst for me, but I use baby powder to soothe the pain. Also vapor rub.
Yes, at first my parents thought it's possible that it could be my weight but then my dad forgot that it's hereditary because his mother had big boobs and her other female relatives on her side had big boobs especially his grandmother hers were the biggest, so that's where I got it from. Mines just started growing at an early age. I wish I was DDD.
I miss C cup. But yea my dads side of the fam have big boobs too
You're 4'11 and rocking an M cup? You should at least you'll proud if you have to suffer through all that because men are going to love you as much as women love big penises.
Nothing great about them. Every guy that came to me I didn't believe that they liked me. Only reason I believed my boyfriend because the men's winter jacket I used hid the fact that I had huge breasts and only thing that was bad was because it made me look like I weighed almost 300 pounds.
Also going through pain all day and everyday isn't something I want to go through for the rest of my life and it seems like it's heading that way because I was going through all of this since I was 13.
People are often attracted to people based on their physical traits first and then they get to know them as a person later. No need to get hung up on the fact that people find you attractive.
And by the way bbws are popular. I *like* fat women..
I totally agree! Mine is GG. Big doesn't necessarily mean that they're better or beautiful. Who wants pain all the time? :s
Right!!! I try to tell girls I knew in school and even their friends from college but sadly it's like everything is going through one ear and out the other and the only thing they want to hear is the attention I get from guys.
I don't know my girlfriend has huge tits and I love them but she does complain a lot.
I understand that guys like them, girls who are smaller shouldn't want them. It's not worth it.