Why I've Never Cared About Having Small Breasts

[Stacyzee]

What has been all of this talk about women having small breasts?

I've always been contented with my mouthfuls.

For those women who wish their breasts were larger, I must say I've never been able to relate to them.

I've never felt "less of a woman" due to what my genetics presented me with.

If someone calls themselves a real woman due to the fact that they have big breasts, then I'm more concerned with the fact that they see themselves as a sex object rather than one of value.

How could the growth of something you have no control of make you "less of" or "more of?"

I spend most days, embracing what I do have rather than what I wish I would have had.

If I hated myself, If I dressed unflattering, If I spent every moment comparing myself to others and ripping myself apart , how far would it get me?

When you feel down about yourself, others have a way of noticing it and they too will pick on those insecurities you routinely shame yourself of.

What good does that get you?

I own my body type.

I am thin and I have a bubble butt that sticks out.

I know my figure so well, that I know exactly what clothing further compliments my

assets and brings it out more.

With the constant attention I get from men...I'd never think big breasts were even a thing.

In fact, men that approach me don't even seem to notice I have small breasts until I mention it.

The key to being okay with your small breasts is loving them the way that they are and focusing on the physical attributes you love about yourself.

Realistically, there's no such thing as being everyone's type, so listening to those who say they prefer this over that is further wasting your time.

Besides, one person's idea of "perfection" is another person's set of "imperfections".

Large breasts aren't appealing to every one and just that feature alone doesn't

equate to someone being attractive overall; there's other physical characteristics to take

into account.

Women with small breasts who feel insecurity, exclude the voices of others, and let yours be the loudest of all.

Again I ask, what is it you love about yourself physically?

Build on what you have and find ways to accentuate the curves of your body; whether that be

a nice round butt or legs that go on for miles.

When you find someone to love you the way you love yourself, the different types of women,

men prefer won't matter to you anymore.

I don't want to spend a single moment wishing I could change something about my appearance.

In a depressive state, all of the time spent ripping yourself a part could probably add up to days, weeks, months if not years.

That is precious time that you cannot get back!

I live for today!

I am happy with me.

You should be too.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Great myTake! I am a 32B. I used to be SO insecure about it. All the bullying I endured about it in high school (from both men and women) probably didn't help. I was also cheated on in a past relationship which I felt, at the time, was because I didn't look as attractive as other women, obviously breast size being a factor in that.

However, I've recently made a huge turn around in my self-esteem. Getting out of that bad relationship and focusing on myself has made a world of difference. I feel better about myself now than I have in years. I've just accepted my body for the way it is and I have a lot of great features that I love. Like you said, focusing on the positives really helps your confidence bounce back. :)

[Hannah591]

My cheating ex said I had small boobs lol. I didn't care. He was just sour because he'd lost the best girl he'd ever have.

[xHoneyxBeex]

@Hannah591 haha exactly, great attitude! :)

[martyfellow]

Right, a few inches here and there don't matter to most non-obsessive guys. The guys that do care about all that, you don't want to meet!

[Anonymous]

I applaud you for taking pride in your figure and who you are I truly do and bravo for you for trying to uplift the females with lower self-esteem or insecurities about their breast size. Here's the thing I don't want to sound winey or like a bitch when I say I'm glad that women are taking more pride in their bodies and who they are I mean it. So why are other girls being put down at their expense even if it's unintended or subconsciously?

Time after time after time again all you ever see on this site are mytakes, questions, opinons, and comments where guys and girls put girls with small breast on a pedestal and how having an ass is more important. They go on and on about how small breast are better which is fine you like what you like but some people go beyond that and are really cruel and just down girls with big breast. They act as if we don't have feelings to. Sure there's a within those my takes, questions, opinions, and comments a few people ay they prefer girls with big breast but I guarantee you at least not on this site that it's anywhere near as many people that are on team little breast.

So if that's the case yes originally a lot of flat chested females were in secure and weren't sure of their self but that is the hot topic on girlsaskguys it's one of the few things we ever tall about where are the people uplifting large breasted females where are our mytakes? Even better right my takes uplifting both saying women with little or big breast are beautiful take pride in what you have and not go the extra mile parading what you have and shoving what others don't in their face? When we state our preference if we have one leaving it at only that and not saying what we dislike about the other?

The same goes for butts, ass, or whatever you want to call it. I think it's clear that guys prefer females with an ass and a big one at that well everyone simply just isn't as lucky. While people are constantly wrotting my takes about boobs and how you should accept yourself even if it is small how about boosting our self esteem on that. Trust me it'll do wonders!

Nonetheless I received the heart of your mytake and it was still great. I just want you to know that this isn't directed specifically towards you it really applies to everyone.

[Stacyzee]

I agree.
The whole message is love yourself.
Find what features you like and accentuate that whether it be an ass, legs etc.
I just spoke of my body type which I learned to love.
I wasn't always skinny with an ass in fact I used to be flat everywhere.
I had to choose to live for myself and not for others.

[Rainie_]

I used to be insecure about mine since they weren't exactly big (but certainly not small), up until quite recently I've been rocking many braless tops and dresses.
Maybe Im just having a mind change when it comes to fashion but I really like the no bra look these days (which obviously makes your boobs look much smaller), not only is it more comfortable but makes your outfit look more flawless and fashionable (no bra straps on show here and there, no straps digging into the shoulders etc), and it is sooo much comfortable, finding myself going braless almost on a daily basis now to be honest.

And whats even more strange is that Im oddly having more guys hitting on me than usual... Maybe its just my newfound confidence or maybe its the realness of my body - going out there proud of my body as it is, maybe its something completely else, I don't quite know. Im not complaining though. 😜

[Stacyzee]

It's most likely the confidence.
When you feel good about yourself, you carry yourself a whole different way.
Cheers to the no bra look.
I rarely ever wear one!

[akadatank44]

If they are at least boobs and I can see them I'm fine. But a flat chest sorry ladies it ain't getting me going. I love both ass and breasts and a lot of women have both so y'all spoiling me lol. Yes I do prefer larger ones, Cs and Ds, but if they are proportionate to your body they will look good.

[Stacyzee]

Flat chest is different from small breasts.
Small breasts can "appear" flat chested depending on the type of clothing a woman selects.
You sound like a boob guy mostly.
And by the looks of a lot of a women, not every woman is blessed with a nice big round ass like you say... but if we are literally speaking, yes all women have asses in reference to anatomy.

[akadatank44]

Yeah I lean towards boobs more. Yeah not every woman but a lot of them that I am attracted to and dated are blessed you coukd say.

[Stacyzee]

If a woman is gorgeous overall , usually men don't break a woman down feature by feature just like I wouldn't with a man. I could prefer light skin with hazel eyes, but then every so often a man with dark skin and dark eyes will attract me because hey he's attractive and who cares? :)
I've noticed men mostly stare at my face, legs and ass.
I'm seeing boobs not getting so much hype as they used to.
There's other qualities a woman can have that can make her attractive.
But hey, everyone has a type.

[akadatank44]

Yeah I agree with you. I don't date based on looks alone. And i dont nit pick them either like some dudes. Just saying I've been blessed. Plus many women want a nice ass so they work on it at the gym. Thats probably why I noticed is cuz I've usually dated active women. Not that I've ever looked for it but it just happens.
Oddly enough I'm not a leg guy lol.
She can be a 10 in looks but has a terrible personality we won't be getting past the first date.
What about guys with dark olive skin and hazel eyes?😉

[Stacyzee]

I don't think there's such a thing as a ten... because no one is walking perfection :P
But yeah, someone can be very attractive but all of that flies out of the window if their personality sucks.
Yes, I love olive skin too.
The thing is I find certain types of men attractive but I don't have a set type.
I was just hypothetically speaking.
I'd clearly like a fit guy because I am physically active as well but if a guy has a nice face that's really all I need.
I could careless if he's a little chubby or not extremely toned.

[Stacyzee]

And by the way, I said "blessed with a big butt" because unlike other girls I literally did nothing for mine. I just have one haha.

[akadatank44]

Lol I agree was just using exaggeration to express my point lol.
Well thats me olive skin and hazel eyes 😉 haha
I agree I'm attracted to a lot of different body types. Basically not the extreme, way too thin or obese. If she has a good personality and face as well as a smile and eyes I'm golden lol.
Lol well lucky you. I guess I'm lucky too I was born with broad shoulders lol.

[TheTrinityDenied]

I'm sorry, C's and D's are not large in the universal scale of things, whether you focus on body type, push up bras or how large they appear to the naked eye it does not change the fact that logically if bra cup sizes A-Z exist, A-D are the low end, including the average sizes B and C. Even comparing a natural D cup with a natural G, H, I or J+ cup and you'll see what a difference there is, and what LARGE is.

[HandsomeRaj]

Have always wondered what and why all this ado about small and big breasts...

I sure always thought and still do, always will that A & B are the BESTEST <3

There is nothing about concentrating on the 'better parts of the body' - there is nothing bad about small breasts in first place, I sure think those are HOT and awesome + much less trouble for the owner than those with big breasts.

[HandsomeRaj]

Thank you for liking my opinion young lady :)

[Stacyzee]

<3 No problem

[AnayaWilliams]

I've always been a bit insecure about my breasts. I'm tiny though so they might not grow much anymore, who knows. I've been insecure about the size of them. My left is a bit bigger than my right and I know that's normal but they haven't grown in about 7 years, I hope they're not done growing. Sometimes I wish they were just a bit fuller and bigger just a bit. But I've also learned that this is my body and I'm going to live with it for the rest of my life so I might as well start learning to love them now.

[4465loveyou5577]

I think it's great that you have no insecurities about having small breasts and I wish more people were willing to accept their genetics the way that they are. I'm large chested (and tiny in pretty much all other aspects) and I've lost track of how many girls (not even those that have small breasts) have said "OMG I'm so jealous I wish I had your boobs".

Which is also Ironic given that I have the BRCA1 gene :S

[Anonymous]

I have bigger than average boobs yet i've always wanted smaller boobs. They look more elegant. Also, the ladies with smaller boobs don't always have to wear a bra which i'm soo jealous of. They also don't get as many stares from the creeps. Honestly, you're lucky. But, in the end all breasts are beautiful ❤️

[Stacyzee]

I wish I didn't get as much stares , lol.
I get hit on by at least five men a day.
A hot woman is a hot woman , period.

[Opinion Owner]

I was talking about your breasts getting stared at not you in general lol

[Opinion Owner]

That's something no woman can escape if she's attractive haha

[Stacyzee]

You're right , no one stares at my breasts lol

[Stacyzee]

In a odd way I can relate though. I've had men almost bump into poles staring at my ass.
I've told my friends I have big breasts but on my rare. So I can relate in a odd way.

[Opinion Owner]

Dude i have the flattest ass yet men still stare so my point is incorrect now lol

[ElissaDido]

I really don't care about having small boobs and wonder why other girls feel insecure about them, there's much more to a woman than the size of her breasts, and her looks.

[Stacyzee]

You are so right!
Unfortunately, the first thing that is seen is someone's looks so that is what is constantly being judged 1st hand.

[gobsmacked3]

All breasts are majestic, but small ones cast a spell over you, leaving you captivated.

Also, selfishly from a sexual sense they seem to be so much more sensitive to touch. Meaning you can sincerely pleasure a woman and blow her mind more easily through lavishing them :P

[Brokenheartedx]

I used to think that way.. but guy I was really into dumped me for women with bigger breasts and put my body down so much that I'm ashamed of it and never went near a man since. I feel unwomanly and just feel disappointed that I lack the one thing that would make me feel better about myself

I am not stupid that only men with childish brains make nasty comments on boobs etc but that doesn't help how I feel inside. I went from a secure person to someone that can't stand to look at herself in the mirror.

It's nice ur confident but on the other scale u are lucky uve never met a man that will bully and berate you to the point u feel less than what you are

[Stacyzee]

Do you really think it was all because of breast size or your insecurity?

[Brokenheartedx]

I was a confident person once felt secure but as stated I was made to feel unworthy and it's somethin I struggle tryin to get past to this day

[Stacyzee]

Sorry you had to go through that. No one deserves that.

[TheTrinityDenied]

I enjoy your body positive message for Women with smaller sized breasts, you're right every Woman should own, and enjoy what they have without ever seeking surgical augmentation or reduction to attain some other obviously unnatural ideal. However I'm not sure that focusing on another part of your body, and thus transplanting your focus onto another area is the solution. Including any validation you may receive from male attentions proving that indeed "men desire many things." Shouldn't the message to Women be to focus less on their physical appearance breasts, butt, legs etc. as a whole and to transcend the value placed on Women's appearance in this culture? Equally shouldn't Women look more toward themselves than to a male or female gaze to provide comfort or validation for not being 'ideal'?

[Stacyzee]

I would love to say focus less on physical appearance. However that doesn't get you anywhere in the real world. You will not get a job or date if you don't look a certain way. You will be judged and ridiculed if you are society's definition of unattractive. See hate crimes? The only reasonable solution is love your physical self regardless.

[TheTrinityDenied]

I think the real world only functions according to these standards because it is accepted as 'just the way it is' instead of rebelled against by more people who accept their roles and play along. I mean should society's ridicule and judgement really be what matters to motivate you to do anything? Women from alternative to mainstream styles, and body types have never been hurting for dates small or large breasts, small or large rears, as you pointed out as a whole men and Women have a wide variety of preferences. There are men who like thick Women of abundance and thin, chiseled, 'fit' Women, and anywhere in between as you said in some of your comments, focusing on any one area (breasts) alone excludes some other highly appreciated area (rear legs etc) so there really is no one certain way to get a date, in your own words. I agree love yourself if you can manage, definitely don't love or look toward others (jobs, partners, friends, society) for validation.

[Spermdumster666]

I have big breasts but im under 5ft. The really great thing I've noticed about guys and we girls don't give them enough credit for is that they are so indiscriminate when it comes to dating. Like they will date short girls like me tall girls, big boobs, no boobs, skinny, curvy, chunky, blonde, brunette, redhead and any race just as long as they find you physically attractive and with guys thats almost every girl.

[NatashaJ]

Its nice to see someone who secure with themselves. I have issues where so call "friends" would try to put me down to feel better about their smaller breast sizes. Its stupid what some women would do. I remember a friend in grade 5 or 6 use to always tell me guys would only like me because of my breast and nothing else and I know that's true she was too insecure about herself. She try to make me feel bad to make up for what she doesn't have.

[NatashaJ]

know that's not*

[aWes0MeNeSs]

My friends have done that to me too. Just remember, people only try to put down people they are intimidated by.
I've gotten shit about my curly hair, big boobs, long legs, etc. I don't care, because I love them and I realize that the people going out of their way to put me down are insecure about themselves and intimidated by me just because I was born with something they weren't.
I've been told no guy would want me because I don't have a big ass. It is just average sized. You know what? If all a guy looks for in a woman is ass, I don't want him. Same goes for if all he wants is my big boobs. The only person I have to please is myself. Everyone else, guys included, can take a backseat.

[NatashaJ]

@aWes0MeNeSs Thank you! I"m so tired of insecure people like women like my friend or people whinging about how no one wants them its annoying. Like deal with it or change yourself I get it I am insecure in some things now a days I don't anymore because I know someone out there for love me for me or like me for who I am as a friend. I don't need people to tell me what people don't want from me I need people to say what makes people want to be with me.

[Brokenheartedx]

My friends had large boobs and always pretended to be smaller than they were... didn't really help the cause.. one way I'm glad for my small boobs and don't mean this as offence but mine won't sag until a lot older that's a small mercy.. I feel sorry for younger girls ESP ones on here that ask at 18 or 19 if there boobs look saggy and people goin yeah they are there gross etc... bein dumped for lassies with boobs hasn't done a thing for my confidence and one thing we all got in common it's men that make us feel like shit.. it's men that put us off against each other

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Yes, exactly!

[NatashaJ]

Agree or if a woman is insulting a other women and using men as a excuse just mean she wants to make the other women insecure so she won't even be competition is what I think. Like me and my friend I think she try to make me feel not to even try dating or I be competition for her.

[Brokenheartedx]

OBly time I've insulted a woman wasn't for her breasts but her being an overweight bespectulated retard... she and her boyfriend were hounding the daylighting out of me.. basically slaggin me off and when I found out what he looked like I gave her a taste of her own medicine! She didn't kno me but decided to put me down for no reason other than her joke boyfriend was stalking me.. no clue if she has big boobs but if she has that's all she has got goin for her... so that was her purpose to make me insecure about myself... so I kno how u feel... my looks my body even my ou if hair was topic of hilarity for her... until I found out she was fat and well ugly!!! lol so trust me those that out u down are either jealous of u or just jealous... I don't have breasts but somewhere out there a girl is havin hers removed from cancer... see now how lucky we are? big small whatever they are healthy regardless... that's an outlook we should all be thankful for

[Brokenheartedx]

**pubic hair was a topic of hilarity**

sad really...

[JRICHARDS1996]

I have never been very attracted to breasts in the first place so my opinion is not worth very much, but I have always preferred smaller breasts opposed to really large ones. In either case, it is good to be happy with yourself and particularly the aspects outside of your control like breast size. Your Take has helped me to come to peace with my shortness.

[slimstiffy]

This. Can't agree more.

[kittenmitten]

You respect yourself and are proud of who your are, of your genes, and rightfully so. You don't let society dictate its shit rules about women with huge tits, bentley cars and other BS. And yes you're a cool lady. Your attitide is a total win. Great job. :)

[fanggirl5]

I have small boobs and I love them. But I get so many comments from other girls, and some guys, about them. I find girls always putting me down, and I've even been told that I need a boob job. I have perky A cup boobs and I in no way need a boob job. I wish that other people wouldn't comment on them. I don't tell people to get a nose job or lipo, but yet people feel they can comment on my boobs

[mistixs]

Good take!

I made a take on small breasts too: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a29478-embrace-your-small-breasts

[Stacyzee]

Cool, I'll check it out

[SensualScribe]

There is nothing wrong with small breasts and nothing wrong with large breasts. To me, it is not what makes a woman more or less feminine. I am attracted to all different body types, especially if a woman is confident and comfortable with the body they have. There is no reason why any woman should feel inferior because of her breast size.

[Hannah591]

We're the same! Small boobs, big butt. Every guy I meet has been more interested in butts than boobs and they're in love with my bubble butt! I've never wanted bigger boobs. My boobs don't bother me or cause me any pain or discomfort so why would I want to bring that on with bigger boobs? I am who I am and I love who I am. I still get boyfriends and second glances. ;) Models always have smaller boobs too. Our genetics is simply telling our bodies to store fat in our thighs and butt. :P

[NJ_Casanova]

True, Small breast don't have to worry about them sagging/looking bad. You also can go without a bra... which is extremely sexy, "seeing nipples through a T-shirt;-P

For me the main thing is how the whole package comes together. I wouldn't want a 4'-8" girl that weighs 90lbs to have EE as she would look like a freak.

I'm more of an ass man anyway;-)