What can I do to not hurt his feelings next time? It's about his breath.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were having sex the other night. When we went to kiss and all. His breath was horrible. He had just left his friend's house. He even had those "crackers" in his eyes. It was gross, and slob was on his face from when he slept over there. What do I do if this happens again next time.

I had a terrible time kissing him but I didn't make it obvious or anything. I just went along with it.

[germanotaku]

Are you on good terms with one of his closer friends? Because this is the most easy ans safest way for you to solve things.

Other than that there is just the way for you to tell him. GO in with a nice line like "You know, last time was really great with you and I liked it a lot... BUT ..." and then comes your "BUT" ;-)

You may just tell it like here, that you know he's just finding himself in a new situation and coming out of a "boys" living, getting cleaner on a daily basis he might be unused to...

But honestly, cleaning on a daily basis has nothing to do with it. It's just gross for people not to clean them self. I mean brushing teeth twice a day is a must! Showering at least every 2nd day, too.

[mikess314]

Just tell him straight out. It won't hurt his feelings like it would yours. I had the same problem. When I saw my wife cringe involuntarily from my breath I wasn't hurt. I just realized "Holy crap, I don't want to be gross. I'll go brush up first."

Waking up and just going at it is awesome! But you have to take things like bad breath into account. It only takes a minute to fix all that. Yes, some of the spontaneity is gone at that point, so it's kind of a problem. If you want to have instant sex, just agree to certain terms that will avoid gross conditions. I think you can figure that out.