A girl I really like is considering plastic surgery?

[Anonymous]

she's thinking of lip filler (he lips are already full!) Not sure if thats surgery but its still FAKE! I would like to dissuade her from doing so.

She is sooo gorgeous I can hardly handle it! I dont want her to think I think her choice is stupid... I do think its stupid, but its her choice... who am I to say anything?

I dont want to judge her or make her feel like she's being judged. but she doesn't need to have ANYTHING done. NO girl needs to have any plastic anything. It really kills me when I see a girl changing her body like that.

Maybe Im being selfish...

[JackieGraves]

You can't change her. It's her choice. You can tell her that personally, you feel she is beautiful, and want to make sure she isn't making a brash decision, but as someone who cares about her, you'll support her decision. I don't feel a lot of women need it, but if it makes them happy, it's their choice. She has to make HERSELF happy first... not you.

[Asker]

I know its her choice, I support all her decisions really. Thats why Im so hesitant to even say anything.

[JackieGraves]

Just be sweet about it: Tell her that you find her beautiful, and as someone who cares about her, you just want to make sure she isn't going to make a decision she is going to regret. Just ask her if this is what she really wants and why, and remind her that you'll support her.

[Asker]

Well thank you! This was sort of the approach I had planned hah

[matheus_mb]

Selfish? No, I don't think so. It's just your opinion about it. Try to tell her how good she already looks. If it doesn't work I can't think about anything else.