If I have a large frame does that mean I will never be skinny?

[Anonymous]

yes or no?

[Annette83]

A large frame means that your bone structure is large. You might have broader shoulders or larger hands or wider hips than many of your friends if you are large-framed. A large-framed person can still be skinny. A large-framed person who weighs the same as a smaller-framed person will look way skinnier than the smaller-framed person. But a large-framed person won't ever be as small as a small-framed person. For example, my shoulders are quite broad and no matter how much weight I lose, I will never fit into jackets that are made for people with narrow shoulders.

People often use the term, "large-framed" to refer to people who are heavy or overweight. It's basically a polite way of saying that someone is heavy.

To give you examples that you can look up, the super-models from the 1980s (like Cindy Crawford) were large-framed. A lot of athletic women are too (like Serena Williams, the tennis player). All of these people are quite skinny though. They would probably look very gaunt and unhealthy if they tried to slim down to the size of smaller-framed people (like most models who are popular today), but they are still very skinny.

So the bottom line is that you can be skinny and large-framed. A lot of large-framed women are very attractive.

[etcase]

Yes, and with both my four year relationships that was the reason they lasted so long. If they didn't have the awsome personalities they did it would have been a lot shorter. But one of the other guys is kinda right, on some level you do need the initial physical attraction to get you to go talk to someone.

[Mink90]

I've been attracted to women, who weren't all that good looking, because of their personality. Beauty truly is only skin deep.

[Stuarto]

Yeah, looks are teh first thing you notice when you first meet the person, but once you get to know them you can fall for them.

[Kostakis]

I've only liked girls because of their personality. The fact that they might be pretty and I was attracted to them for that is a whole other story.

[Amrit]

What is your height & weight ?