How do I get some rest? I have been drained emotionally and physically since two of my friends betrayed me. Now I can't seem to be able to recover?

[Anonymous]

No matter what I do or how much I sleep I'm still bushed. I can't seem to rest up for some reason.

[lexandra22]

😭if you have already given them a second chance and they still betray you or make no efforts to correct their mistakes or to be your friend, then:
1-stop hoping that they'll come back or that everything will come back to normal. AND ALSO... IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT THAT THEY BETRAYED YOU! !
2-cut all ties with them (at school, Facebook, etc)
3- As time goes by it will hurt less, but it will always hurt or make you cry when the subject is mentioned.

4- SOLUTION : MAKE NEW FRIENDS. Paint or draw your emotions, write them down, hug a pet, etc

Ps: I have personally experience this myself 10 years ago (they we're my childhood friends😭) but it was only 3 years ago that I managed to put this away in the past by following the steps above.

AND I TELL YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART ' IT WILL GET BETTER "!!!😊😊😊😢😣

[Asker]

Thanks Lexandra for the advice.
I'm not hoping that they will come back I'm just hoping to keep our mutual freinds. Which might not be possible because women always side with women and they usually don't even consider that what happened is her fault. They usually just blame the guy and continue on.
I wish that I could break all ties with them but I'm still going to constantly be running into them at least once a week. Some times it is hard to remember that it was not my falt and that they conspired against me. Some times those maybes just seek in.
I wish that there was a quick fix because it is affecting my life and I'm doubtful that it will eventually hurt less right now.
4 I wish that it was easier for me to make friends cause I'm shy but I am socializing more. As an artist I normally do but because I'm in such a delicate art and it has affected my self confidence and it constantly draws my mind to it. I can't even draw a straight line right now.

[karahiri]

:( maybe you can recharge by hanging out with family, or other loved ones.

[Asker]

I did and it did help me get out of it emotionally but that only helped for so long. I just feel like I don't have any energy to do anything. Nothing seems fun and to make it worse I just did a hike with friends and I got poison oak.

[karahiri]

just try to do things that make you feel happy... i think over time, you'll feel better. can't really rush this, it's hard to get over betrayal.

[Asker]

I hope that I can get enough done to last till the end of the semester. My energy barely lasted till spring break but that did not help any. If I can't rush it then I guess that I will just have to try and live while slowly running down.

[Anonymous]

Dont stay alone for long and hang with your close friends and you're not alone a lot off people think they have real friends but they're not with time you will feel Bette no doubt and take your time to deal with that stress but you will be fine it's not serious

[KaranSharma55]

You just stop thinking about what happened and keep focusing on another thing keep busy yourself you would be alright soon

[Asker]

The problem is that right now I really don't care about those things. I have lost confidence in my art and my line work is suffering for it. I'd game but I can't find a really good game to get into. I'm not busy at work and I hate my school work. I just had spring break a whole 3 days and I'm still out of it.

[KaranSharma55]

Try meditation

[Asker]

I did while I was sitting in bed all day. It did not help. Prayer and reading my bible helped more.

[KaranSharma55]

Good keep reading dude

[Asker]

Thanks I will. Thank you for the comment.

[Asker]

PS not sarcasm or me being mean ^ Thank you

[KaranSharma55]

Thanks my friend

[Asker]

Your welcome

[RicanEyes]

One of the worse pains been through that believe me.

[Asker]

I highly agree that it is the worse pain that you can feel.
Thanks for your comment.

[RicanEyes]

You Welcome!