Guys stare at the overweight girl in the gym or the fit pretty girls?

[SmandyCandy]

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Really appreciate all the responses!

[Cmasterson]

It depends, the other day I saw this over weight chick in the gym, normally I wouldn't be staring I suppose however she was wearing basically nothing and I guess i'm the type of girl who isn't comfortable wearing really short shorts and just a spots bra even if I have the body for it so I guess I was just shocked at how confident she was rocking it lol.

[Anonymous]

Usually it's the fit and pretty one. If they're staring at an overweight girl, they could be attracted to her, or maybe they think it's great that she is working out. There is no other reason why someone would stare at someone. They will never stare at someone they think is unattractive.

[SmandyCandy]

Thank you. That's a very polite answer

[wankiam]

a guy ma observe the big girl and think good on ya while he may also check out the hotty but for longer incase he can get 'the look' from her. i dont think any guy would just stare unless he is a steroid mentalist

[SmandyCandy]

This particular guy doesn't do that. He actually damn near gawks at my "overweight" friend and acts like he's nervous to talk to her but has conversations with the "hotter" girls.

[wankiam]

maybe he prefers big girls so feels more self conscious than with those run of the mill gym bunnies. i do suggest that next time you post a question that you make it a little clearer what you are getting at and perhaps you would get less sarcastic responses x

[SmandyCandy]

Lol the sarcasm doesn't bother me

[wankiam]

no but aren't you her to get serious input?

[SmandyCandy]

That's true, thank you.

[wankiam]

happy to help x

[Melcart23]

i dont stare at anyone whether she's 95 lbs or 400 lbs

[SmandyCandy]

Well that's not the case at all.

[DandelionGirl]

He's right about that actually, there's a really thin girl at my gym and she's gorgeous and myself included (with a nice figure) and I'm pretty. Guys don't pay attention to either of us. Or any girl for that matter. They focus on their work outs.

[Melcart23]

what do you think im lying?

[SmandyCandy]

@DandelionGirl that makes sense but someone told a friend of mine that just because a guy looks at her doesn't mean he's attracted it's probably because she's overweight. She's really not even overweight just has thighs and arm fat which is difficult to lose

[Melcart23]

lol.. so when i say it, you dont believe it, but when she comes here n says it, you believe it? haha

[Truthatanycost]

@DandelionGirl That's the way it should be... we are there to hit the weights... not on the women.

[SmandyCandy]

Actually that reply was to you lol. @Melcart23

[Melcart23]

oh lol... my bad.. I don't know i mean i notice people, but as far as staring, i dont do it

[SmandyCandy]

No he STARES a lot. I've gone with her before.

[Melcart23]

thats creeepy and awkward afffff

[DandelionGirl]

Maybe he likes her?

[Melcart23]

@DandelionGirl then he should grow a pair and approach her,,, were big boys and girls now, lets use our communication skills, ya know? lol

[SmandyCandy]

You have no idea how awkward it really is. He's walked right in front of her numerous times but won't say anything. If she moves from one area to the next he'll walk over to fill his water bottle but look around until he sees where she is.

She's spoken to him twice now and he seemed nervous the first and sarcastic and kind of rude the second.

[DandelionGirl]

guys at the gym dont really approach most girls because therye not there to meet girls unless he's a creeper.. im sure you know this.

[SmandyCandy]

@DandelionGirl I don't lol I rarely go unless invited

[Melcart23]

@DandelionGirl i guess,,, i dont go to those kinds of gyms so I don't know what goes on in there

[DandelionGirl]

Well in that situation I usually come up to the guy and ask what his deal is, Im very straight forward. He must like her then.

[SmandyCandy]

@DandelionGirl hope he didn't blow it

[Xfitchick]

Guys who really workout don't have time to stare. Those who stare are just there for show and macho behaviour.

[Xfitchick]

And anyway, overweight girls that go to the gym should be applaused. It means they want to work on it and have the guts to do it.

[SmandyCandy]

someone told a friend of mine that just because a guy looks at her doesn't mean he's attracted it's probably because she's overweight. She's really not even overweight just has thighs and arm fat which is difficult to lose.
It's not as if it's a one time thing... with this particular guy it's every time he sees her and constantly throughout his time in the gym.

[Dtegesd123]

I'd peer your way after every set. But I do look at everyone once in a while. Maybe go up to the overweight girl if she was doing something with improper form. But definitely not staring because I enjoy her body.

[SmandyCandy]

Lol well staring happens. Every time she goes. E V E R Y time.

[Dtegesd123]

how big is your friend?

[SmandyCandy]

She's not really overweight at all she just has meaty thighs and arm fat.

[HeWhoPonders]

Fit pretty girls are common at the gym so I usually find it easier to single out fat girls and stare at them because they tend to stick out like a sore thumb.

[SmandyCandy]

That's not nice

[HeWhoPonders]

I'm not saying you shouldn't go to the gym, I'm saying people are going to notice the fat people more because they're not as common. Take a chill pill Jill.

[SmandyCandy]

Lol oh okay.

[NerdInDenial]

I'll look at the fit girl but staring is kind of creepy or sends out a creepy vibe

[pr3ttybr0wn]

guys stare at who they find attractive. so if a guy is staring at the overweight girl then he must think she's hot

[SmandyCandy]

Thank you sweet girl! Have you read the comments?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I read the comments, they're nonsense.

men typically ignore women they dont find attractive. A guy is not going to stare at a woman because he is disgusted by her fat. thats not how that works lol. If a dude keeps staring at you and is always watching you its because he really likes what he sees.

[SmandyCandy]

I agree. She really is a pretty girl. I was explaining to one of the girls but she didn't continue the conversation that..

We use to have a friend that would point out her flaws in front of guys and it made her extremely insecure it was only recently that we figured out the reason she did it was because she realized how pretty she was and was possibly jealous of the fact that she didn't have to have sex with guys or even act like she would have sex with them for them to like her they just did. She's the smart but goofy type of girl.

[SmandyCandy]

She really does get attention from guys she would've never thought would have even noticed her. With or without weight.

[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

I'm at the gym to focus on myself. I don't stare at girls at the gym, I'm pretty sure they would not like it.

[SmandyCandy]

Lol if only they were all like you.

[Sadie_G]

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[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

@smandycandy the guys? To each their own lol

[ihateheroicleishin]

Why do people post these idiotic 'social' experiments?

[SmandyCandy]

Because someone told a friend of mine that just because a guy looks at her doesn't mean he's attracted it's probably because she's overweight.

[joseyyywhales]

woman throw themselves at me

"Execuse me as I do dumbell squats right in front of your bench chair" LOL

[SmandyCandy]

That's not the situation

[joseyyywhales]

I don't care I feel like bragging. No we don't stare at overweight girls

[SmandyCandy]

Lmao

[cth96190]

A man is always going to look at the eye candy, so it will be the fit pretty girl.

[SmandyCandy]

And yet those are the ones he has some conversation with but not the one he stares at.

[Sadie_G]

I don't think guys or girls really stare at anyone at the gym. I mean if they do, they shouldn't. People should just focus on their own lives!

[Yumix]

definitely the fit/pretty girls. unless they have a thing for overweight girls

[Yumix]

it's simple. people stare at the one they are attracted to, and the majority of people are more attracted to someone who is fit

[SmandyCandy]

Safe to assume that you've already read the comments? Lol.

[Yumix]

only from one person. I don't really care what other people have to say except from the people I like and follow.

I open dozens of questions at once and just answer them all without checking other opinions. if I'd do that it would take way too much time

[SmandyCandy]

I understand that! The situation is that someone told a friend of mine that just because a guy looks at her doesn't mean he's attracted it's probably because she's overweight. She's really not even overweight just has thighs and arm fat which is difficult to lose

[Yumix]

of course, people stare for many reasons. it's not only in the gym like that.
gorgeous girl? people stare
accident? people stare
incredible dance skills? people stare
tumour in your face? people stare
...
etc.

but if we keep it general, then the vast majority of guys will stare at the people they are attracted to in the gym. a few might stare because they find something funny or disgusting, but those are the exceptions. usually they take a look, show some reaction but then continue and don't really stare. but that's just my opinion

[SmandyCandy]

Fine examples lol.

But I agree and from what I've seen and what she says it's an everyday, every time they see one another kind of thing.

[Anonymous]

Usually fit and pretty, but if they're SOOOO fat, sometimes you just can't look away! (jaw dropping obesity).

[SmandyCandy]

Well that's not the case but someone told a friend of mine that just because a guy looks at her doesn't mean he's attracted it's probably because she's overweight.
But she's not really overweight at all just has meaty thighs

[PlzJustDie]

No offense, but this question is kind of stupid.

[wankiam]

and thats being polite ;)

[SmandyCandy]

@wankiam that's your opinion. Why?

[BarbaraP]

They stare at each other's biceps usually

[SatyricLord]

No point in checking anyone out.

[SmandyCandy]

Some do.

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Neither too busy minding my own business.

[Peskyn3gr0]

You want some fries with that salt?

[SmandyCandy]

No thanks

[truthbeknown]

Fit girl all the time.

[SmandyCandy]

Thank you for your input.

[GrapeJuice]

Whales are not attractive.

[SmandyCandy]

Don't be rude

[bcromartie]

If the booty jiggles right...

[SmandyCandy]

It definitely does that lol

[bcromartie]

Men look at many things.

[SmandyCandy]

Like yourself

[bcromartie]

Men do not look at me @_@

[SmandyCandy]

Lol no

[Deadpool7699]

... kind of an obvious answer here

[SmandyCandy]

Is it?
Because someone told a friend of mine that just because a guy looks at her doesn't mean he's attracted it's probably because she's overweight.

[Deadpool7699]

He may give an unattractive girl a glance but if there is a sexy, fit girl in the gym, that's the one you stare at

[SmandyCandy]

No she's REALLY pretty and not really overweight just has thighs and arm fat.

[Deadpool7699]

kind of depends what angle he saw her from and what that part of her body looks like, if he can only see her from the back then it depends if she has a nice ass, if he can see her face and she's really pretty then it's deffinitley because he likes her

[SmandyCandy]

I'm not even just saying it as her friend. She's really pretty she gets attention from guys not even she would think would approach her and most try to get out of the friend zone but she categorizes all of them as brothers.
But the times I've gone with her she never has her back to him, always facing him and he angled himself in ways that he could still see her.

[Deadpool7699]

yeah he deffinitley sounds like he likes her then

[SmandyCandy]

Hopefully he didn't blow it then.

[Deadpool7699]

Why, what did he do?

[SmandyCandy]

She's spoken to him twice now and he seemed nervous the first and sarcastic and kind of rude the second.

[Deadpool7699]

ah ok

[SmandyCandy]

Just have to wait and see. Lol

[somebodysaycheese]

What do you think?

[SmandyCandy]

I think I don't know because someone told a friend of mine that just because a guy looks at her doesn't mean he's attracted it's probably because she's overweight.

[somebodysaycheese]

I think if a guy is staring at an overweight girl and she has a cute, beautiful face he is probably thinking their may be potential in the future. or he is staring cause he is judging

[SmandyCandy]

She's really pretty just has some extra meat on her thighs and arms but that's it

[somebodysaycheese]

Most likely waiting to see what she looks like in the future

[SmandyCandy]

Thank you.

[somebodysaycheese]

Never settle for a man who makes a move when your socially acceptable. If he into you now he doesn't need to wait for the lbs to come off. plus fat girls with pretty faces become gorgeous.

[SmandyCandy]

I'm gonna tell her exactly that because she really is very pretty. We use to have a friend that would point out her flaws in front of guys and it made her extremely insecure it was only recently that we figured out the reason she did it was because she realized how pretty she was and was possibly jealous of the fact that she didn't have to have sex with guys or even act like she would have sex with them for them to like her they just did. She's the smart but goofy type of girl.

[Zendrya]

fit and pretty

[Robb761]

Whoa!!

[Anonymous]

Don't stare at anyone.

[SmandyCandy]

You're 1 in a million

[Opinion Owner]

Wow really? O_o

[SmandyCandy]

Definitely!

[Opinion Owner]

I'm gonna feel a little bit weird the next time I go to a place like that knowing that everyone's staring at each other. -_-

[SmandyCandy]

Lol just pay attention and share if you notice it.

[Opinion Owner]

If I pay attention (by looking at them) wouldn't it make me one of them?

[SmandyCandy]

Just the one time like when you walk in or walk out

[Opinion Owner]

Lol okay XD

[Iamweasel]

R u overweight?

[SmandyCandy]

No sir

[GrapeJuice]

Yes she is

[SmandyCandy]

@GrapeJuice I'm actually not dickhead!