A little belly doesn't matter if you've got a booty to make up for it. Chubby girls with cute faces are great too. I would rather a big girl than anorexic girl anyway. It does matter, but there's guys out there that like all sizes and there's plenty that can compensate for it anyway.
Yes, weight matters. Do you know why you generally don't see a really attractive and fit person with a really unattractive and fat person? Because the one person cares so much about themselves and their appearance- there's NO WAY they're going to want to see those qualities they are disgusted by in their partner.
If you're heavier, look for a heavier guy. They're obviously going to be much more forgiving about weight. If you aren't attracted to heavier guys, and are heavy yourself- you might want to think about why you're not attracted to those guys, and take the appropriate steps in your life to attract the type of partner you'll be satisfied with.
I am 5'8'' size 28 in jeans, thin waist, 34 c boobs, and I weigh 157 lbs. it is like a medical mystery to me how I weigh so much but I'm in really good shape. does this whole weight matters thing apply to me? people look at me and guess I weigh 130. but I still feel like guys don't like girls who are heavy or hard to carry.
I'm 5'9 , 30 jeans (pear shape), 34 C (small C) and weigh 155...us tall girls always weigh more...look at a man who is 5'10...if he weighs under 170...he is thin...us being over 135 is considerer heavy...numbers don't apply to us tall women ;)!
Weight matters. It can be overcome but it still matters and I don't think its really fair to put all the factors for self loathing on guys because girls actually have HIGHER expectations of men in terms of what a male body should look like..men have to be lean AND cut to be considered having a nice body while girls just have to lose fat in the right places. And I think either you belong to the world that does care what other people think or the world that doesn't care what other people think so depending on where you are (figuratively) it matters.
I mean I think most guys want curves so fat in the hips and whatnot as where guys have to get rid of almost all their body fat so that their muscles show.
Stomach is the easiest place to loose wieght. its about the food you eat. female bodies arn't desighned to burn fat by building there but there are foods that do target that spot.
No, weight doesn't matter, it's all about personality. But I mean it is unhealthy to be overweight so that tells me that she makes unhealthy choices as well. Would I date an overweight chick? Yea if she is able to realize that she can change if she really wanted to.
Weight does matter. Its nice to have a tall thick girl who can be athletic, keep up and defend herself without looking up to other men or even women and being easily intimidated. Its most important that she is healthy, fit, then appearance.
It makes little difference and physical attraction is hardly a factor. Most girls are pretty and fat goes away.
Only to a certain degree; that is, don't look ridiculously obese or anorexic. Either extreme is a turn-off, but as long as your weight is 'healthy range,' (which is a fairly wide range) you don't have to be a super-skinny supermodel. If you aren't at an extreme with regards to weight/attractiveness, then in my opinion at least it all comes down to personality moreso than weight.
Yes, weight matters. It just does. Life's not fair.
Do not make yourself anorexic or anything. Because being so skinny you look like you have cancer is gross. But the truth is that guys are picky about girl weighing too much. Your waist should be skinnier than your butt, to create the "hourglass figure"
Yes and no. I would not leave someone for weight matters. However, I myself tend to be very healthy. I work out consistently, and I'm not asking for the same level of effort. But I would like someone who at least makes SOME kind of effort.
If someone is overweight purely for lack of exercise and sloppy eating, then yes weight really does matter. Because they lack total regard for their health.
i like liter to do more fantasy stuff like while am standing holding her while she filling me up (thats hard though) and sometimes weight has something to do with her pumping motion if she is thin which liter body then it means she's fast >=D
You know, every guy is different. However, if you are overweight (male OR female), and you aren't interested in working toward a healthy weight, what does this say about you? I think this is the heart of the question.
If you're not interested in working on feeling and looking healthy, that could send the message that you don't feel comfortable or confident in yourself. (By the way, the "I'm big and I'm proud" only works if it's not compensation for a low self-esteem). Guys want girls who take pride in their appearance, and who are confident in themselves both physically and psychologically.
The point: if you are wondering if your weight is the reason guys don't call, maybe it's not just your weight. Take a look at your own feelings in the mirror next time--you might realize there's more to work on than just that jiggle.
If she takes care of herself, is reasonably healthy, and is nice to me, then that's the "meat and potatoes" of a relationship (platonic or otherwise) but big, cuddly curves are the icing on the cake for me! :-9 And yes, women *can* be healthy and chubby at the same time. It all comes down to activity level, self confidence, and putting down the effing fashion magazines!
I think it's more physique than weight. I mean after a certain point weight does matter, but I am talking about severely obese people. If a girl has a good looking body, it doesn't matter what she weighs. Trust me, most guys aren't going to go after a really skinny girl with no curves at all. But also guy's don't exactly want a stick thin model. Some of them aren't even that attractive.
Yes. Its one of the ONLY things that matters to me.
I don't like lazy fat unmotivated greedy gluttons.
I have met many heavey girls that were cute and attractive its all about how your present and take care of yourself...personally I would date a girl that was over 170 pounds. give or take some but that's my limit I would think since I weigh 155 and I am quite slim so I can allow some leway lol
Man want smokin hot girl = probably wants a physical relationship And it will probably be a short term relationship too.
However in the future a man won't care much because most men want a women who will be good wifes who who will be good moms. But men do need something to catch there eye 90% of the time to want to get to know a girl.
I'm going to be 100% serious with this but yes weight matters.
I don't intend to offend anyone here but I couldn't bring my self to have a relationship with a bigger girl or even hook up with one. Its just the fact that you disregard your physical appearance is just a big turnoff, I have a lot of friends who I am very close with and I would be lying if I said I didn't care what they think.
I 100% agree with you.. BUT here's my opinion it defiantly matters (unless your a guy who likes fat chicks.. no offense) I'm saying it matters and I'm a fat girl (not very fat) .. and I don't want a fat boyfriend so I'm losing weight now .. hopefully in 1 month I will be normal sized and when I do become .. that's when I will get a boyfriend..
opinion from a fat girl :) weight matters and people care unfortunately :)
Unfortunately there is a fine line between people's perceptions of curvy and fat.
It really depends on how you work it but if a woman is properly curvy and doesn't just call herself curvy as an excuse for her weight it can be extremely attractive.
I know some people who are skinny as can be, smoke, drink and eat horribly but then I know some people who workout, and eat healthy. Even though the skinny person ways less doesn't mean she is better looking nor is she even healthy for that reason.
really I have to say no because there's so much more to a person then weight. but men to have there groups I guess you would say like so of use like chubby women some like skinny but over all if we get along with someone and like them were going to like them for who they are not there weight.
The actual weight doesn't matter. However, your physique does (in my personal opinion). Weight, in terms of on the scale, doesn't really matter much to me simply because of the fact that muscle weighs more than fat. There may be two girls who are both 135; one is all fat and the other is mostly all muscle. I wouldn't like the fat one, whereas I would most definitely like the muscular one.
I can handle a lot of flaws, but I've always been turned off by obesity. I don't mind if a man has a little extra weight, but not too much. Weight is just the one preference I have. I think it okay to have this preference because unlike other flaws we have, weight is something people can control, most anyway. I just like men too look healthy, they don't have to have a 6-pack & blazing pecs, just be healthy. I also don't like men that anorexic, but not as many men suffer from this as women.
It matters a lot if you want a girlfriend just to show off for your friends, but if you want a real partner, then it doesn't matter that much. Still, it matters, because what will make the first impression is how you look, so if you're too skinny or too fat, it could ruin some first impressions. What is important is that you look healthy lol
Visit 4chan and you'll see there are a lot of guys who like bigger woman (the people on that website are constantly posting hundreds of pics of what they call "chubbies"). Personally, I prefer petite woman, but in saying that they don't have to be scrawny. When the thighs start getting celulite, that's too big in my opinion.
Cellulite is not just caused by weight, very petite women can get cellulite too. All it is are fat deposits that are just under the surface of the skin and its can be caused by several things like hormonal factors, genetics, and even the type of clothing you wear
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A little belly doesn't matter if you've got a booty to make up for it. Chubby girls with cute faces are great too. I would rather a big girl than anorexic girl anyway. It does matter, but there's guys out there that like all sizes and there's plenty that can compensate for it anyway.
Yes, weight matters. Do you know why you generally don't see a really attractive and fit person with a really unattractive and fat person? Because the one person cares so much about themselves and their appearance- there's NO WAY they're going to want to see those qualities they are disgusted by in their partner.
If you're heavier, look for a heavier guy. They're obviously going to be much more forgiving about weight. If you aren't attracted to heavier guys, and are heavy yourself- you might want to think about why you're not attracted to those guys, and take the appropriate steps in your life to attract the type of partner you'll be satisfied with.
I completely agree +1
I am 5'8'' size 28 in jeans, thin waist, 34 c boobs, and I weigh 157 lbs. it is like a medical mystery to me how I weigh so much but I'm in really good shape. does this whole weight matters thing apply to me? people look at me and guess I weigh 130. but I still feel like guys don't like girls who are heavy or hard to carry.
To hersheyxoxo :
I'm 5'9 , 30 jeans (pear shape), 34 C (small C) and weigh 155...us tall girls always weigh more...look at a man who is 5'10...if he weighs under 170...he is thin...us being over 135 is considerer heavy...numbers don't apply to us tall women ;)!
Weight matters. It can be overcome but it still matters and I don't think its really fair to put all the factors for self loathing on guys because girls actually have HIGHER expectations of men in terms of what a male body should look like..men have to be lean AND cut to be considered having a nice body while girls just have to lose fat in the right places. And I think either you belong to the world that does care what other people think or the world that doesn't care what other people think so depending on where you are (figuratively) it matters.
This is true. we like guys with muscle... so, the only fat guys don't look for tho, would be stomach fat (the hardest fat to lose)? just curious....
I mean I think most guys want curves so fat in the hips and whatnot as where guys have to get rid of almost all their body fat so that their muscles show.
Stomach is the easiest place to loose wieght. its about the food you eat. female bodies arn't desighned to burn fat by building there but there are foods that do target that spot.
No, weight doesn't matter, it's all about personality. But I mean it is unhealthy to be overweight so that tells me that she makes unhealthy choices as well. Would I date an overweight chick? Yea if she is able to realize that she can change if she really wanted to.
Weight does matter. Its nice to have a tall thick girl who can be athletic, keep up and defend herself without looking up to other men or even women and being easily intimidated. Its most important that she is healthy, fit, then appearance.
It makes little difference and physical attraction is hardly a factor. Most girls are pretty and fat goes away.
Only to a certain degree; that is, don't look ridiculously obese or anorexic. Either extreme is a turn-off, but as long as your weight is 'healthy range,' (which is a fairly wide range) you don't have to be a super-skinny supermodel. If you aren't at an extreme with regards to weight/attractiveness, then in my opinion at least it all comes down to personality moreso than weight.
Yes, weight matters. It just does. Life's not fair.
Do not make yourself anorexic or anything. Because being so skinny you look like you have cancer is gross. But the truth is that guys are picky about girl weighing too much. Your waist should be skinnier than your butt, to create the "hourglass figure"
Thats what guys like.
Yes and no. I would not leave someone for weight matters. However, I myself tend to be very healthy. I work out consistently, and I'm not asking for the same level of effort. But I would like someone who at least makes SOME kind of effort.
If someone is overweight purely for lack of exercise and sloppy eating, then yes weight really does matter. Because they lack total regard for their health.
it depend on me but not too over weight =D
i like liter to do more fantasy stuff like while am standing holding her while she filling me up (thats hard though) and sometimes weight has something to do with her pumping motion if she is thin which liter body then it means she's fast >=D
You know, every guy is different. However, if you are overweight (male OR female), and you aren't interested in working toward a healthy weight, what does this say about you? I think this is the heart of the question.
If you're not interested in working on feeling and looking healthy, that could send the message that you don't feel comfortable or confident in yourself. (By the way, the "I'm big and I'm proud" only works if it's not compensation for a low self-esteem). Guys want girls who take pride in their appearance, and who are confident in themselves both physically and psychologically.
The point: if you are wondering if your weight is the reason guys don't call, maybe it's not just your weight. Take a look at your own feelings in the mirror next time--you might realize there's more to work on than just that jiggle.
If she takes care of herself, is reasonably healthy, and is nice to me, then that's the "meat and potatoes" of a relationship (platonic or otherwise) but big, cuddly curves are the icing on the cake for me! :-9 And yes, women *can* be healthy and chubby at the same time. It all comes down to activity level, self confidence, and putting down the effing fashion magazines!
I think it's more physique than weight. I mean after a certain point weight does matter, but I am talking about severely obese people. If a girl has a good looking body, it doesn't matter what she weighs. Trust me, most guys aren't going to go after a really skinny girl with no curves at all. But also guy's don't exactly want a stick thin model. Some of them aren't even that attractive.
Yes. Its one of the ONLY things that matters to me.
I don't like lazy fat unmotivated greedy gluttons.
I have met many heavey girls that were cute and attractive its all about how your present and take care of yourself...personally I would date a girl that was over 170 pounds. give or take some but that's my limit I would think since I weigh 155 and I am quite slim so I can allow some leway lol
Yes and no
Man want smokin hot girl = probably wants a physical relationship And it will probably be a short term relationship too.
However in the future a man won't care much because most men want a women who will be good wifes who who will be good moms. But men do need something to catch there eye 90% of the time to want to get to know a girl.
I'm going to be 100% serious with this but yes weight matters.
I don't intend to offend anyone here but I couldn't bring my self to have a relationship with a bigger girl or even hook up with one. Its just the fact that you disregard your physical appearance is just a big turnoff, I have a lot of friends who I am very close with and I would be lying if I said I didn't care what they think.
I 100% agree with you.. BUT here's my opinion it defiantly matters (unless your a guy who likes fat chicks.. no offense) I'm saying it matters and I'm a fat girl (not very fat) .. and I don't want a fat boyfriend so I'm losing weight now .. hopefully in 1 month I will be normal sized and when I do become .. that's when I will get a boyfriend..
opinion from a fat girl :) weight matters and people care unfortunately :)
how about curvy girls?
Unfortunately there is a fine line between people's perceptions of curvy and fat.
It really depends on how you work it but if a woman is properly curvy and doesn't just call herself curvy as an excuse for her weight it can be extremely attractive.
health matters for sure over weight.
I know some people who are skinny as can be, smoke, drink and eat horribly but then I know some people who workout, and eat healthy. Even though the skinny person ways less doesn't mean she is better looking nor is she even healthy for that reason.
;)
Sadly there are some people that can't do anything about it and it's genetic, I'm not saying I am one I'm just saying there is a such thing.
really I have to say no because there's so much more to a person then weight. but men to have there groups I guess you would say like so of use like chubby women some like skinny but over all if we get along with someone and like them were going to like them for who they are not there weight.
The actual weight doesn't matter. However, your physique does (in my personal opinion). Weight, in terms of on the scale, doesn't really matter much to me simply because of the fact that muscle weighs more than fat. There may be two girls who are both 135; one is all fat and the other is mostly all muscle. I wouldn't like the fat one, whereas I would most definitely like the muscular one.
I can handle a lot of flaws, but I've always been turned off by obesity. I don't mind if a man has a little extra weight, but not too much. Weight is just the one preference I have. I think it okay to have this preference because unlike other flaws we have, weight is something people can control, most anyway. I just like men too look healthy, they don't have to have a 6-pack & blazing pecs, just be healthy. I also don't like men that anorexic, but not as many men suffer from this as women.
Kind of...
It matters a lot if you want a girlfriend just to show off for your friends, but if you want a real partner, then it doesn't matter that much. Still, it matters, because what will make the first impression is how you look, so if you're too skinny or too fat, it could ruin some first impressions. What is important is that you look healthy lol
Visit 4chan and you'll see there are a lot of guys who like bigger woman (the people on that website are constantly posting hundreds of pics of what they call "chubbies"). Personally, I prefer petite woman, but in saying that they don't have to be scrawny. When the thighs start getting celulite, that's too big in my opinion.
Cellulite is not just caused by weight, very petite women can get cellulite too. All it is are fat deposits that are just under the surface of the skin and its can be caused by several things like hormonal factors, genetics, and even the type of clothing you wear