My ears are always dirty?

[awesometjgreen]

I am a very clean person but this has gotten to the point where I'm pissed. you know how I used to be bullied (sorry I keep bringing it up) they used to make fun of my ears saying they were dirty. one kid even jammed a fork into my ear saying he was gonna clean it. long story short I'm self conscious about my lots of things but my ears are a big deal. i wash them 50 fu#!$ng times a day and they just get dirty again. to be specific I'm talking about the, "cymba conchae" and the, "cavum conchae" (see diagram below). now my ears produce a lot of earwax as well but I wear my headphones a lot so I think that's kinda part of it but still.
*yes I know go see a doctor but everytime I get an ear exam they say everything looks perfectly fine even when I ask.

[Wonderer89]

You're cleaning them too much. Our ears need a certain amount of wax and use it to trap things that shouldn't enter our ears, if you keep cleaning it out it's going to produce more and more to do its natural function. Just use a tissue to gently wipe any you can see/feel with your biggest finger in the conchae once a week. If it continues to produce too much see a doctor and get a swab done to make sure there is no medical reason for the excess production

[RedVulcan]

You have progressed into an unhealthy obsession about the state of your ears. I'm no psychologist but if you are indeed washing them 50 times a day then you merely believe they are dirty. They are not actually dirty.

[Sasisen]

Wax factory pretty much.
May I suggest that you buy a good pair of earphones instead of headphones as headphones are basically a gestation pit for bacteria?