How many of you girls will give a bigger guy a chance? Why or why not? Also what's the biggest you'll go?

[Anonymous]

Question above poll below. Also if you don't like a smaller size for some reason feel free to say why on that too.

Skinny

Average

Chubby

Fat/Obese

Don't care/Will give any guy at least some chance.

Updates

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Oh and the he doesn't care about himself thing for fat/obese is stupid reason. Give me a real one. Just because a guy is big doesn't mean they don't care about themselves health wise and underweight people have just as many issues.

[blondie_girl]

Honestly my best relationship/ guy I have been the most compatible with - he was a bit overweight. Upon first meeting him I had zero interest because he was loud, super outgoing, and of course - overweight. And then I kept seeing him around and we got to talking and I realized what a stupid, superficial judgement I had made. We got along so well, the greatest feeling to just click with someone and not have an explanation why; you just do.

Anyway, he became more attractive, in my eyes, physically because I already liked his personality. We come in all shapes and sizes and I learned my lesson from that experience alone, that no one deserves to be written off simply because of their outer appearance. Best of luck to you in finding someone, but don't feel too down about it because anyone can have issues finding someone - even seemingly perfect-looking people. We all deal with the struggle.

[Asker]

Gorgeous and from WI. Gives me hope that I might actually have a Girlfriend someday. :D I live in GB. lol

I'm not saying the girl has to be gorgeous but at least attractive btw.

[blondie_girl]

Haha, really?! It's a small world. GB is the best, I lived there 4 years and went to school there. Also, there's lots of good looking people in GB I'd say :P Do you go to school? That's the best place to meet someone

[Asker]

I don't and even if I did it would be NWTC that place is not a social school. lol It's just go there and be done. Plus there's a ton of old people.

[Asker]

So yeah I'm just at home like 24/7 besides work bored off my ass.

[blondie_girl]

Haha that's where I went, NWTC, I love that school!! There's lots of students there, and good looking ones, just have to go on busy days like tues-thurs. How are you going to meet a girlfriend being home 24/7?!!

[Asker]

IDK :( I don't wanna go out alone. It's so weird feeling and awkward. I rarely hang out with my friends. I know you're gonna say ask your friends. lol

[sw3etnsour2630x]

I believe that everyone deserve a chance so I don't rule out guys who are bigger. I prefer guys to be bigger than me actually I would feel weird with a smaller person. But I always look at the person's personality like if he can make me laugh at any time or if we can have serious conversations with each other then I don't see why I should not like him, you know.

There are so many other qualities in guys that are greater then looks like

1) Honest

2) a great listener

3) a person who can make a fool out of themselves and not care about others opinion

4)Is spontaneous.

5)Enjoys what he does [whatever that may be].

theres so much more but you get it right?

[Asker]

Nice answer. :)

[sw3etnsour2630x]

Thanks, it was simple to write about how I felt about the situation

[chari804]

i don't mind at all giving a bigger guy a chance. I myself am 5'5 and 138lbs but I don't discriminate at all. they are just as cute and gentlemen like as any other guy.

[Asker]

You say that like you think you're big? You're not. More like perfect.

[chari804]

Perfect. lol no one's perfect.

[Asker]

Lol No but close enough.