Plus I've been rendered really weak at times when I had broken bones, for example, and was on crutches. I didn't find it embarrassing. I found it frustrating but not exactly embarrassing.
What might make me feel ashamed is if I grew weak and soft due to sheer laziness and neglect, like letting myself go. In that case, maybe I would feel something like a shame because I can actually blame myself for my frail condition. But I don't think I would if the circumstances were beyond my control, like if I was hit by a car and became frail that way. I'd have an easier time accepting that and not feeling ashamed since I figure it could happen to the best of us.
Plus I'd be constantly embarrassed if I felt a need to be the strongest guy in a room. I once arm-wrestled a local sumo wrestler here in Japan who was around 2 meters tall and he nearly tore my arm off without flinching. My arm was sore for like a week after. :-D So I'm screwed if I was insecure not being the strongest guy in a room. But I figure if I had to race the sumo wrestler in 100M dash, I could effortlessly beat him there at least and run circles around him. So I can find some pride that way and avoid feeling embarrassed, and instead pat him on the back and compliment him for how strong he is and admire his strength without feeling like some lesser man as a result.
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Why? What is attractive about them? Only thing I can think of is you liking to overpower them.
@ThisIsMyOpinion I don't know how to explain it... maybe it's for the same reason guys like girls being weaker than them? I think it's cute, I like the idea of wrestling a guy and being able to pin him down. Maybe it's more like a fetish? I don't know though. I've also never found muscles attractive on guys. I remember way back in highschool me and some friends passed by some muscular guys working out. My friends were saying "ooo I wish I had one of those strong men to carry me onto the bus!" and I replied "meh, I wish I had a cute guy I could carry onto the bus!". They did not understand lmao
Well we all have our preferences I guess xDI don't know if you have since you are Anonymous, but if you haven't leave that opinion here please. Guys would you date a girl stronger than you? Girls would you date a guy weaker than you? ↗
@ThisIsMyOpinion commented! I just copied and pasted some of my comments lol
I see xD
Smaller guys are usually less intimidating from a psychological/physical point of view
@LeahBaby is that a good thing? They also look less reliable in both senses as well.
I personally don’t find it attractive, but I understand why some girls do
I'm extremely weak & I find it embarrassing.
But your a girl i think thats ok :)