Ladies, are abs important for a guy to have?

[Liamthethird]

Updates

+1 y

I have had the feeling that abs are the most important thing on a guy's body. What is more important than abs then?

[becks3]

I find overly muscular guys not that attractive sexually. I do look at them in awe because I admire the hard work and dedication they put in but for a partner I would prefer a mildly trained partner or just normal figure.
I find it attractive if you can see a little outlines of abs but just mildly. The guy in the pic would be pushing it for me.
What I find very unattractive are overly trained Popeye arms and legs. Like when you can see the calves.
Abs are way less important than men think mostly. They focus to much on this one thing. A proportionate figure is much more important. Which you can also train for.
The most physically attractive atributes for me in a guy are broad shoulders and maybe a bit of pecs would be nice but I'm not really trained myself so I'm not in a position to demand anything lol.

[Blabster]

It's attractive yes. But is in no way necessary and definetly NOT the most important. Everyone is different so obviously this is just my opinion on it. To me the most important thing is personal care. That includes multiple things such as: shaving, good hygiene, no extremely unhealthy weight (so not morbidly obese and not skin and bones either) and a bunch of other factors.

In a sense i guess having abs shows someone takes good care of themselves but I know abs are not always there even if someone takes care of themselves.

Hope this helps a bit.

[emmily2396]

Abs aren't the most important. I don't find guys with abs but biceps and pecs weaker than mine attractive. You don't even need to do abs specific exercises to get them, you just need low body fat on your belly. Exercise is to make them bigger which would indeed increase the chances of them being visible, but a person who naturally has low body fat there could get them with minimal effort.

A balanced physique is hot. The guy in the pic is hot because he trains his whole body and he would still be hot if he gained a bit of fat and his abs wouldn't show as much. Would he be hot if he had no other muscles showing other than abs? Everything has to look balanced

[IAmRedThunder]

I think abs are a bonus when dating a guy, but I wouldn’t date a guy just because of his abs. On a guys body, I think the most important thing is a nice defined back. I don't know why. But I go crazy for a guy with a nice back 😂😂😂 I like the V shape in the swimmers backs. Other than that, I like a decent jawline too

[Liamthethird]

When you masturbate to males online, what body part gets you the most wet?

[IAmRedThunder]

I don’t masturbate to that kind of stuff. So I don't know

[michelle312]

i backs too! favorite part on a guy ngl

[IAmRedThunder]

@michelle312 yesssssssss. A man with a nice back is so sexy

[inchesfrommadness]

Brains are better than abs. A lot of guys with defined abs spend too much time working out to get them there. All that time at the gym would mean they don't have as much time for you. They also tend to be more arrogant about their looks because they know other girls like abs.

[Redbee]

Can I share a phrase from my country?)
A man has to be just a bit more nicer than a monkey!

It means: your behavior and actions are much more important in relationship, than your ouside look.

I like big guys (to be taller and wider than me), I love abs as well. But no one of my exes had it, neither my boyfriend now. I have 6 pack, it's enough for me😁

[LunaS]

It's not important, it's just nice to look at. I don't like when a guy is super buff either. The guy in the picture is hot too cos his abs go well with his arms. Honestly, as long as a guy doesn't have a big belly, he has a chance with me.
I usually find eyes or a smile attractive in a guy, before I get to know his personality. Abs are a bonus

[sapphireruby]

I prefer toned, though I wouldn't mind a little pudg. The problem with abs is they're to hard (or it at least they look it) I want to spoon with a guy not a rock.

[Hamsteroids]

Nahh when they’re THAT defined like that, they’re actually kinda gross lol I prefer a nice V Line on a guy than abs tbh

[HOAAH]

Physically, just be in shape. I am not that into abs, but they are nice to look at. My husband is too skinny to have abs but he works out.

[Anonymous]

it depends on the person. my two closest friends prefer “dad bods” over abs any day and i personally like abs. it’s not a deal breaker for if a guy doesn’t have them though so i wouldn’t stress too much about having them

[haleysalvigione2]

Yessssssssssssss abs are so hot everyone I’ve been with has had abs the one I’m tryna get with now has like abs on abs on abs