Oh i am pretty much an expert on this topic after so many ex's with it. Plus just me liking to learn psychology anyway.
Bpd crush is pretty much just them jumping from 0-10 very quickly they want to develop a co-dependent relationship with you, hoping you will never leave. But then.. this is were bpd get's ironically in the way of what they want. They get so close but then get scared and back off or pull back somehow.
Because in there head your gonna leave them anyway so why not just end it now. Since everyone leaves them. But then they will revert back to nope i need you to be here again. And thus a loop forms.
They want something but also want to stop themselves getting hurt. But in doing so it don't help get what they want.
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People with BPD feel emotionally disconnected from the world. When they have a crush, they feel like they have finally found that connection.
They become obsessive because they feel like this person is the only or one of the few sources to feel that connection, to be understood. They will try really hard to be with that person which, ironically, repels them.
People with BPD will get upwards or downwards mood swings depending on whether they got attention they wanted or not.
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I had to look up to see what that meant but I think id somebody with BPD had a crush on somebody they would be obsessed with you and will not behave rationally. Then if you reciprocated it would be all kinds of crazy after that. Jealousy, paranoia and rage might follow.
I feel my ex was borderline or at least it was a form of depression
Relationship is super co dependent, I was like the center of her world and her main support system.
But then when I broke it off I quickly shifted to someone evil
Every time she tries to reach out, I
shift from being the love of her life to the most evil person ever lol
It's super toxicThe one I ended up dating was very excited about me while she was crushing
had been together with one tho she has more than just bipolar disorder
What is BPD? Bipolar disorder right?
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