What would be your ideal height; either for yourself or your partner?

[MCheetah]

His d*ck must be at LEAST nine inches...

Five-foot-nine on a man compared to a woman...

Where do you rank as a male?

Do you agree?

What would be your ideal height, for either yourself or a partner. Pick either one, or both.
Troll comments will be removed.

4'11"-5'2" / 150-159 cm, or shorter (Extremely Short Guy or Short Girl)

5'3"-5'5" / 160-166 cm (Very Short Guy or Somewhat Short Girl)

5'6"-5'8" / 167-174 cm (Short Guy or Decent Sized Girl)

5'9"-5'11" / 175-181 cm (Somewhat Short Guy or Tall Girl)

6'0"-6'2" / 182-189 cm (Decent Sized Guy or Very Tall Girl)

6'3"-6'5" / 190-196 cm, or taller (Tall Guy or Extremely Tall Girl)

hEiGhT dOeSn'T mAtTeR tO mE... 🤪

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My own ideal height would be 6'5"/195 cm. However, if I was at least 6'1"/185 cm, I'd be okay in life, even if I still wished to be taller. My partner's ideal height would be 6'3"/191 cm if I was my current short height or 5'10"/178 cm if I was tall.

[HighlyVolatile]

I went for "height doesn't matter to me" but I'm not sure if that's right. One thing I've noticed in hindsight is that practically all the women I dated were around my height (an inch or two shorter, typically, as with my wife).

It might be due to my communication style, and because I like dancing with women. There's an eye-level thing when we dance. If she was hugging my crotch and I had to look down (unlikely since I'm not that tall, but maybe chest would be more likely), it's not eye-level. If I'm doing that to her it's also not eye-level.

So the fitting thing always seemed to me like maybe an inch or two shorter, and a good fraction but not the entire fraction of my weight. Then she can sprint at me, jump at me, and I can catch her and meet her eye-to-eye. That always felt most right to me.

[molonski2]

I really dig tall women , not sure exactly why , but its hot to me..
Id like to be 6ft 2in - 3in , so long as I was not too skinny , I like that height sort of filled out.

[Lliam]

I like my height - 6'2". I wouldn't want to be taller.
I have a thing for average to below average height women - 4'11" - 5'4". I consider 5'2" ideal. Then again the woman I married is 5'5". I would have married her if she was taller. Height isn't a huge factor compared to a woman's other qualities.

From what women say, it's generally true for them, as well. There's much more to a person than their height, regardless of preferences.
The same with dick and boob size. Things like that are only deal breakers for some people.

Most people fantasize about physical preferences but, if you are looking for a partner, it's really chemistry that matters.

[metaldragon563]

Below average height is like under 5'3 lol

[Lliam]

@metaldragon563. Average is 5'4".

[metaldragon563]

Yes thats in USA and other countries. Worldwide average height for women is 5'3 so any women below 5'3 is below average height on a global scale. You're saying all these things about height yet you consider 5'2 to be your ideal lol. Why didn't you just marry a 5'2 woman if thats what you desire, they aren't that uncommon

[Lliam]

@metaldragon563. I already explained that. Would you marry someone based on their height alone?
Height is a minor consideration compared to a woman's other qualities.

I had one girlfriend who was 5'2" and adorable. She was my physical ideal in every way and I liked everything else about her, too. Out of all my previous girlfriends, she is the first one that I truly loved. And she loved me. We virtually lived together for over a year. Unfortunately, we were not destined to spend the rest of our lives together.

I did find the perfect wife. We've been happily married now for over 25 years.

[metaldragon563]

No not like you tbh. I've liked women of every height and I don't really pinpoint a single height of a woman as being better than any other women. Why didn't you just find another 5'2 girl? It seems like you probably dont really appreciate the physicality of your current wife as much as you do as your girlfriend.

[Lliam]

@metaldragon563. I'm not hung up on height, dude. The question was "what would be your ideal height." It didn't ask about other qualities.

Try reading my original comment again. Jeeez

[metaldragon563]

" I had one girlfriend who was 5'2" and adorable. She was my physical ideal in every way and I liked everything else about her, too. Out of all my previous girlfriends, she is the first one that I truly loved."

You sure about that dude haha

[Lliam]

@metaldragon563. What's your problem? My comment obviously triggered you for some reason that you are not copping to.

[metaldragon563]

I'm just saying that you do care about height because you literally described the way your past girlfriend so you're basically lying and I dont think you realize that. You've never even mentioned anything physical about your wife, your centering this all around your girlfriend

[Lliam]

@metaldragon563. Thanks for the psych eval. That's some real deep shit. LOL

[metaldragon563]

I mean I think you have a really big underlying issue if you value your ex girlfriend way more than your current wife and I can tell because you've never said anything about your wife at all despite being with her for 2 1/2 decades. I would never do that to a woman. Even if I had a type of a woman I liked I would stick with it because if I was to be in with a woman that wasn't my type I would lowkey not appreciate her as much. I think its safe to say you do care about height to an extent based on what you're saying. The way you described your ex girlfriend you didn't even describe your wife like that which goes to show you value your ex girlfriend more.

[Lliam]

@metaldragon563. You probably think that a man isn't allowed to even look at any woman other than his wife. To even look is the same as cheating. You're supposed to pretend that she's the only beautiful woman on the planet.

When I met my wife the first time, it's true, she didn't perfectly match my ideal. She was a bit taller, her hair and eye color, and the way she dressed weren't exact. She WAS really pretty, though, and once we sat down and started talking, we totally clicked. We started dating. After a year, I realized that she WAS the perfect person for me. We fell in actual love. She even asked me to accompany her to couple's counseling before we were married to find out more about ourselves and each other in order to see if still wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. The idea of marriage was a very serious matter for both of us. I was 42 and she was 40 when we tied the knot.
Neither of us had ever been married but we had been in previous relationships and led full lives before we met.
As I said, we've been married now for over 25 years and couldn't be happier. I adore her in every way. We've built a great life together. I look forward to growing old together with her.

So don't tell me about love. You don't know me and I don't know you.

[metaldragon563]

No in many cultures thats actually not allowed to look at another woman other than your wife. If it goes beyond that, well thats good reasons for divorce. There are plenty of other beautiful women in the world, but the woman you're married to is more special. I obviously dont know you and I've never been married and i'm still single, so I dont know what "love" is I guess. I'm only 5'4 and would kill to be 6'2 because way more women like tall guys than short guys so lucky you I guess. I've never been in your shoes, but you've never really been in mine either.

[Berethor]

5'3"-5'5" for her, I prefer to be at least half a head taller than her. I think that you messed up this question, it should be for the partner, for yourself almost everyone would choose tall.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TeensAreShort

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/OneHeadTaller

[sunflower00]

I’m 5’4 and I’m pretty happy with it, but it would be nice to be around 5’5/5’6. In terms of guys, height doesn’t really matter much to me. My type always used to be guys who were around 5’6-5’10 or around that (like just slightly taller than me), but my boyfriend is 6’3 and I’m obviously very attracted to him

[DizzyDesii]

I’m 5’2. Ideally I’d be 5’5. I like for a guy to be 5’7-6’2. One of my exes was 5’6 but the majority were 5’8, 5’10, and 6’0. I've been approached by many 6’4+ guys but that is too tall for me and a turnoff. 5’5 and under are too short

[DizzyDesii]

I like those under 6’0 cause i dont havr to stand on my tippy toes to kiss them comfortably and they dont have to break their back bending over to kiss me. Its easier to sit in the lap and kiss either way

[exitseven]

My wife is 5'3" but I would not complain if she was a couple of inches taller.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

For a guy, I'd say 5'2 or shorter. For myself, I would rather be 5'10 and not taller than 6"/6'1.

[MCheetah]

Are you saying that 1. You actually like shorter men? And 2. You're currently tall? How tall are you?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I do tend to like guys shorter than me but I'm not tall at all currently. I'm 4'11, most of the guys I've found attractive in the past were 4'7-3'5. I don't mind guys slightly taller then me but I do wish I was taller myself lol.

[D_Bone_Steak]

My ideal height would be around 9 feet 11 inches and my girl would be 3'2"

[Fuentes]

I like tall and short girls lol

[ALewis30]

I'm happy with the height I'm at, 5"8.

[JesseJayNeak]

Height doesn’t matter