Keeps offering to help me lose weight?

[Chubbychick]

My new neighbor across the street is very nice, but she is also a super fit personal trainer. She keeps asking me if I would be interested in having her train me. It should be noted I am pretty overweight. So, should I be offended or is she just looking to make some $$?

[caring__1]

Just tell her this is the size you choose to be. Sometimes people just want to be helpful, and sometimes they're looking for business. By telling her your choice, you'll be able to see if she is considerate of your feelings or not. If she keeps pressuring you, cut ties with her.

[Anonymous]

It's up to you whether of not to be offended. Personally I'd just be condescending back and say. "oh, no-no-no I couldn't do that! I couldn't possibly be this FABULOUS and skinny". "That simply wouldn't be fair to other women". "But thank you anyway" (with accompanying smile).

But then again I use a home gym because I don't like people. 🤣

So maybe that's just me.

[laraWM]

No, don't feel offended, but if she keeps asking it is not really nice. I mean she should have stopped the first time you said no

[AsaKyo]

I think she's just trying to help you and is genuinely worried about your heath

[Chubbychick]

Am I that big?

[AsaKyo]

I don't really know since I've never seen you, but I'm just assuming that's what she meant by it

[westend12]

She probably means well but it's coming across the wrong way. I'm sure she just wants what she thinks is best for you. Definitely your choice though if you are happy and comfortable now just don't worry about it ☺️

[DrewJohnson]

I don't think it's a money grab. Her focus is fitness and she's offering to help. Tell her you'll give her a call when you're ready to make a change.

[Sparkie460]

Are you happy being at your current weight? Did she say she was going to charge you to help you lose weight?

[Mangospacho]

That is annoying when you meet people and the first thing they think is that you’re a project and they’re your project leader.

[Wise4myage]

Not offensive, and consider taking her up on her offer.

[Chubbychick]

I know I probably should. I've always been big, and gotten bigger since the baby.

[Hardworkingguy]

You're not overweight. You're quite curvy and sexy the way you are. Do that only if you want not because of someone's pressuring you

[_Just_A_girl_]

Apperantly HIIT is not as impactful

[Con29]

Can I ask you something

[Chubbychick]

Sure

[Con29]

If I paid you would you trample on me or sit on me?

[Chubbychick]

I suppose lol. Is that something you enjoy?

[Con29]

Yeah I really enjoy it how long will you do it for?

[Chubbychick]

I have been know to lay on and squish my husband for a while. 20 minutes

[Con29]

Is that the longest you’ve sat or squish your husband?

[Chubbychick]

Probably a half hour, maybe a little more. He loves it

[Con29]

Would you do longer on me please?

[Chubbychick]

If I were single, I'd squish you for as long as you wanted. As long as you could breathe a little

[Con29]

What would you wear while sitting on me?

[Chubbychick]

I'm thinking a small bikini

[Con29]

How about jeans it would hurt more

[Chubbychick]

My butt does look real big in jeans. What on top?

[Con29]

Not sure you can pick

[Chubbychick]

Do you want it so you have trouble breathing?

[Con29]

Yeah

[Chubbychick]

My husband likes that too.

[Con29]

I love it too

[Chubbychick]

It doesn't hurt?

[Con29]

Nope

[Chubbychick]

My husband loves it when I put all my weight right on his belly

[Con29]

I love it when girls trample me and sit on my face

[Chubbychick]

My husband keeps asking but I'm afraid to sit on his face. My butt is so big I'm worried he'll suffocate

[Con29]

Try it tonight and let me if you liked it too

[Chubbychick]

We are planning on doing it tonight. I don't want him to suffocate and die!

[Con29]

You won’t kill him trust me if he’s asking for it do it even harder and longer lol

[Chubbychick]

He does obsess about my giant butt.

[Con29]

Give it to him make him beg for you to get off him x

[Chubbychick]

I like it!!

[Con29]

Do it for an hour lol

[Chubbychick]

He would definitely suffocate. My butt is too big lol

[Con29]

But he loves your big bum he won’t ask you to get off x

[Chubbychick]

It does sound very fun. What if he can't breathe?

[Con29]

He will tell you lol

[Chubbychick]

Bare butt?

[Con29]

Not jeans or anything?

[Con29]

Maybe we should meet up lol

[24_7_Amazing]

There is a difference between thin and healthy

[misogynistic_pig]

Both.

[MrReliable12]

Both