Dude at work told me that I need to eat more because I'm not thick enough. Is he body shaming me?

[Anonymous]

[NamerOfStars]

Only if you're standard shaming him. You're not entitled to other people's attraction.

That said, some random person's unsolicited instructions don't really matter; I wouldn't worry about it.

[dexter234]

tell him on the face if you're bothered by that comment and show him boundaries. If you're okay taking a joke on self, even better, just laugh make a joke on him and move on

[Little_Bumblebee]

Well, that's none of his business. It's actually super rude to comment about other people's bodies in general.

[boggboss]

That would be classed as it yeah

[Asker]

He also said I need to be thick like his baby mama. I need a bigger butt.

[boggboss]

OK so...

[Anonymous]

Yes this is so rude and unprofessional.

[Asker]

He was my friend. He compared me to his baby mama and told me that I need a fat ass like her. My self esteem went low.

[Opinion Owner]

Fuck that. He’s a douche not a friend.