Ιs it just me or body hair isn't a flaw?

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Body hair, pimples, freckles etc etc isn't a flaw. Body hair is natural and everyone gets it. Some more than others. Pimples happen due to our hormones and sebum our skin produces. It isn't a flaw either. I am not saying this so that people stopped taking care of themselves but K really don't understand why people focus so much on these things. One or three pimples won't ruin anyone's face or body. They are just there. They will go away eventually. Why are people stressing over such trivial and nonessential things? Are we really THIS shallow?

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Humans are mammals, so we’re supposed to have body hair. That is one of the special characteristics of mammals that differentiates (us) from other classes like reptiles and amphibians.

I shave my body hair, simply because I feel more comfortable and skincare products like body butter stay on for a longer time and seep in better. However, I do not judge someone just because they have body hair, that’s natural.

A lot of people LOVE freckles. I know only a handful of people who are not a fan and most of them seem to have it themselves. Personally, I don’t think freckles would suit me, but I like it on redheads. It looks cute.

No, sometimes, people suffer from severe cystic acne and it does not go away even after puberty is over which affects their self esteem terribly. I suffered from moderate acne up until I was 16, now my skin is finally clear ever since I started learning how to take care of it. I breakout whenever I’m on my period or when I wear heavy makeup, that’s fine and I don’t think it’s a flaw. Healthier skin does not always mean it’s clear. We’re supposed to have pores and texture.

I wouldn’t label someone as shallow just for having a specific preference. However, IF the person does shame someone for something, then yes, they are shallow.

Then again, we notice everyone’s appearance before their personality, and truth be told, I would not date someone who has severe cystic acne because I don’t find it attractive. But I wouldn’t shame them for it because dealing with acne is hard and I understand how difficult it must be for them.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

I don't see it as a flaw and I like freckles, also hip dips and all the stuff but I don't find body hair that great lol I know it's natural but I personally have a problem with it on myself

KostasKouvalis · Accepted Answer

No, it's not just you. I was raised around people with body hair, so I was always taught that it's something natural and no big deal. But when I past puberty I started getting some shit for it, with even my mom telling me I had a bit much. And I had one guy friend who thought it was nasty as hell that I like hairy pussies. I have shaved my chest, pubes and ass before and honestly didn't like it. I thought it looked and felt weird. I prefer being hairy to be honest, and the majority of the girls I've talked to prefer hairy. The only reason I did it anyways, was because of my friends with benefits preffered hairless, but it's not something I would do again, unless she was perfect in every other way and I really wanted to be with her. But I feel it woild be annoying constantly need it to shave. I'm actually annoyed, because it's been a few years and it still hasn''t grown back to how it was before. Not to mention how itchy it was when I removed it.

Pimples, eh... Whatever. I've seen girls with pimples that I would still date. It's not the end of the world and something that can be fixed.

Uncicrmsized dicks is another thing that's considered a flaw in the States and men get body shamed for.

Did someone bully you for having pimples and body hair?

AmeerX · Accepted Answer

Really love freckles on girls 😍. Sadly people in my country don't have freckles :/.

And yes, health problems are natural and people frankly give too much weigh to pimples and hairs. Hairs on a girl's face is only thing I don't find good but otherwise everything looks great

Cassie88 · Answer

Well, one or two pimples may not be that big a deal, but when I was a teenager my acne problem was very severe. It wasn't just one or two, my face was covered in them, I looked like a leper. It ruined by confidence, happiness, and made me a loner.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

armpits hair is DISGUSTING end of story.

Feminine women know how to take care of their body

I rather date a girl that has pimples/ freckles than a girl with armpit hair 🤮

shoutout to all the feminine women.

SnowedIn · Answer

What about four pimples? ;) Just kidding. Body hair is not a flaw. I personally prefer sex with no pubic hair, but that's a preference and not an indicator that I think it is a flaw or ewwww or gross.

Paige90 · Answer

I guess I am shallow because I think it's all gross!

lalaloveee · Answer

Hairs or freckles or whatever, they're not flaws, people's only flaw is they care what other people think

bean2k21 · Answer

In and of itself, a pimple is just a pimple, but when performing some mating ritual, it's advisable not to emphasize the area of the body that has a flaw. For example, skin sores on your penis can resemble a gonorrhea sprinkler system if you're not careful.

Aoife40 · Answer

I agree that it's natural, but people have their own preferences and opinions. It isn't different than saying one doesn't like a person's face shape, or body type. One could argue that all preferences are shallow

Emanon25 · Answer

These things don’t affect any relationship if it’s a serious relationship and true love between them, whoever loves someone won’t focus on or give these or other issues in their partner’s body any importance.

es20490446e · Answer

Body hair is natural, and I like it very much. Pimples are due to a mixture of young age, eating and using soap. The body is overcompensating for those.

PatriceONeal · Answer

Too much body hair on a woman is very off-putting. Body hair is manly. If a man was completely bald would you still feel the same way? just shave your fkng armpits ladies, it's literally the least you can do.

Dav1dTh0ma389 · Answer

If body hair isn't a flaw, why do women shave it off, and men don't?

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Just compare us to animals. We actually have a lot less hair than required.

Berethor · Answer

Yea body hair and freckles are natural, pimples are annoying but not the end of the world.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

It's totally natural and no big deal. Not something that worries me.

Boredaf99 · Answer

I don’t like body hair and try to remove as much as possible and I don’t really like chest hair on men much.

BJP21 · Answer

Any Latina Mexican girl will love me, I have moles all over my body and because of how white I am, I look like a tortilla.

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

Media dislikes it but actually its a great plus. Both is pretty with and without, Ido prefer with tho.

studguy07 · Answer

I was talking to a girl on here yesterday she said she loves men with hair it looks more manly

PositiveFlight · Answer

I think body hair is normal and healthy. Especially pubic hair on both men and women

NathanDavis · Answer

freckles are gorgeous

Nikki1989 · Answer

Body hair is natural.

AydenHazor · Answer

You're absolutely right that they are not flaws

htmndg183 · Answer

Agreed 100% This question should be promoted.

In_Trance · Answer

I agree with you completely

Christsdisciple15 · Answer

Absolutely correct

EaterPeter · Answer

Me too

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