Do you worry about your weight?

[MementoMori777]

is weight part of your insecurities, i know its a touchy subject but im stepping over the line today, hopefully people can speak of it or this would be a waste of a question, so is it? 🤔

[LostandFound__x]

All the time.

When I was a teenager I gained weight and had a little bit of an eating disorder. Then I lost the weight when I was 16.

Then when I was 20 I was the biggest I’ve ever been…I wasn’t “fat” but I definitely wasn’t slim and very uncomfortable in my skin.

Miraculously at 21 I lost a lot of weight and by 22 I was very, very skinny. A lot of people around me would voice their concerns.

At 24 I gained “happy weight” and now I’m average/on the skinny side.

I still worry about being 14 or 20 again, crying because I feel fat and ugly. So a lot of the time I have an unhealthy relationship with food.

[MementoMori777]

well you shouldn't cause all that crap dont matter as much as you think, at the end of the day none of it is permanent and there's many foods youd love to try, of course its not healthy to abuse eating but eating things you like is good and you should treat yourself every once in a while, obsession is a bad thing 🙂

[LostandFound__x]

Yeah it’s tough…. I get worried every time I’m eating that I might get fat

[MementoMori777]

that might count as an eating disorder, dont, its not that easy to gain fat, if anything you should focus on carbs consumption, not weight, everything has mass, even water, you put water in a soda can and thats 12 ounces of water, drinking that water makes you 12 ounces heavier, that doesn't mean you are fatter, carbs is bad for the health, weight is just normal so dont obsess over weight, everything has mass and everything has a weight

[LostandFound__x]

Thanks! That’s very true.

[hiyamotherfers]

Yeah sometimes. I have the figure but sometimes I like food to much🤷‍♀️ I guess its a good thing that i have a quick metabolism and it all goes to my ass and thighs 😂

[MementoMori777]

well you shouldn't worry about it too much cause its not permanent, i never heard of thaf before

[JesseP1nk]

Hell no. Im 6.1 feet (185cm), i weigh 200 lbs (90kg) Im 39 years old and im really happy with my shape. Everyday i do pushups... around 100 to 300 per day and workout with dumbells.

Anyone who are unhappy with their body, start working out! Hardest part is being consistent.

[Avicenna]

The only reason why I care about it is because I run a lot and don't want to have knee problems.

[MementoMori777]

that makes sense bro

[4ngelic]

yea i'm like two bmi points from being overweight..

need to get back to what i used to be

[MementoMori777]

i dont think you should stress about it so bad, dont lose sleep over it 🙃

[Mimi_758]

Yes for me it is😅I need to loose like 30 pounds to be perfect now I kind of feel like shit 🥹

[PrettyCrumblBb]

You look pretty tho.

[Mimi_758]

Aww thank you but weight has always been one of my insecurities ig I don't know even tho I am not that big

[MementoMori777]

no thats a lie mimi, i agree with crumble, your body looks fine, dont fall for all the deception online ☻

[Mimi_758]

Haha umm thanks but I don't know it’s always been a thing with me and weight

[MementoMori777]

its an insecurity and the truth is you shouldn't worry about it, because beauty comes in all sizes and there isn't one standard of beauty, thats a deception, you over all seem are a beautiful person physically and personality, your weight is only scratching the surface of that beauty and lets be foreal, if weight is someones concern they aren't even worth your time in general, im sure crumble agrees 🤣

[Mimi_758]

Haha yeah your right haha you always make my mood thanks 😂😂

[MementoMori777]

thats good, im glad and i hope it eventually leads to you being fully secure about yourself Mimi 💯🙏🏽

[Mimi_758]

Yea me too 🥹

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yeah it's true. Don't waste your time with people who don't care about you. I've had crushes on guys who where muscular, chubby, skinny, tall, short... what matters most is the heart.

[Mimi_758]

Aww yes your right thank you ☺️

[MementoMori777]

Mimi remember the world tries to corrupt, you can't let it, feel better 💯

[Nikki1989]

No, not really. If I put on weight, I just work on losing it again.

[MementoMori777]

thats a good mentality, not letting it get to you 💯✊

[exitseven]

I am not worried but I am trying to lose some weight.

[MementoMori777]

thats good bro

[Lexina]

At times because my family be making me feel like I don't eat

[MementoMori777]

Do you eat tho?

[Lexina]

Yup not much though

[MementoMori777]

A normal healthy amount?

[Lexina]

Not up to normal

[MementoMori777]

It should be 😣

[Lexina]

I can't

[MementoMori777]

I'm guessing you have a eating disorder? You shouldn't be obsessed about your weight vampire, weight doesn't equal fat

[MementoMori777]

Vampira*

[Lexina]

My mum has been asking me about lunch since morning

[MementoMori777]

You should eat that lunch vampira, it's not as easy as you think to get fat, if your food isn't full of carbs then it's nutritious and it will give your body the minerals it needs

[Lexina]

I'll try

[Anonymous]

No I don't. I only weigh 115. I stay active and eat healthy.

[MementoMori777]

im glad you feel confident with your body weight, i made this post to fix mentalities on it 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I hope that works 😊

[MementoMori777]

double the power lol

[Anonymous]

No, I have been thin my whole life.